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pocohantas:
First, I will like to say this is not a judgmental post. That said;




Thank you

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Rubbish!

You are badt person

cooldove8:

First an foremost I want to say I am Impressed at your level of intelligence you amaze me. God bless you I have learnt something from.some one

pocohantas:
First, I will like to say this is not a judgmental post. That said;

We sympathize with the girl for whatever trauma she is going through
Thank you

Hi poco, I don't agree with sympathy for her. Who does that? She is fully aware of her actions so let her bear the consequences. She knew she was being recorded . Congratulations to her. She is the next Kim K.

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komodapson:


...And I will tell you, there's nothing wrong in making a sex video, absolutely nothing wrong..what is wrong is those dude without reasoning who uploaded the video... Now let us ask ourselves...
What have they achieved? Are they now billionaires? have they achieved their dream? Its all nonsense...if they waited for a minute before uploading, someone would've said " guy this thing no make sense"

Secondly, is about the school management... They have done what is unacceptable by my own judgement... Why must they dissociate themselves from the sextape... Why not think in area of reform and correction... Ever since the school has been established now, they should have produced apostles of old for us...
Its all hypocrisy... Its a Nigerian syndrome... FG does it, state , citizens everyone

What is this one even writing sef, the 2 teenagers messed up and the school should applaud them or go after those who uploaded the video? The school was right to expel her, she can now use her time to follow up who uploaded the video

Caseless:
the most stupid girl I've seen in recent time. It's not that the said guy is even good in sex. She even swallowed his sperm. What does she need the video for? Useless girl.

Caseless, do we have a lesser word for stupid because using stupid is like glorifying her the more.

armadeo:
Babcock is first and foremost a Christian school. Therefore Christian values are to be expected. Yes there is hypocrisy that's why I said rule 11 is important.

Now imagine a banker who is a fraudster will you keep your money there?

Imagine a fast food place that's gets tagged for bad food causing running stomach, will you eat there.

I remember one day on nairaland where someone posted about a charger he bought from one company and complained about it. That same day the company contacted him and replaced the charger with plenty photo shoot.

That is what branding means.

Babcock university cannot afford to sit on the fence on this one. A student was involved in some form of porn, a school whose core values is spirituality. How will you judge the school? As a failed entity, same way you will judge the bank as unsafe, same way you will avoid eating at a joint that gives everyone diarrhoea.. the brand name is smeared...


And they cannot afford that... the person or group who even suspended her might all have thier own sex tapes too but they've obeyed rule 11 for now.

God bless you bro for this comments, I wonder why fully grown adults will chose to condemn a school for expelling their own student for immoral activities that went viral, whether in school or outside the school premises....Maybe the school should have awarded her scholarship!!

bravoalpha:
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What is this one even writing sef, the 2 teenagers messed up and the school should applaud them or go after those who uploaded the video? The school was right to expel her, she can now use her time to follow up who uploaded the video

Actually she can use the time to do more videos.

Ovation

Mynd44:
But imagine if Babcock came out with a press statement saying they will be taking court actions against people who leaked the video and support the lady in question to justice against those who are using it to shame the lady.

Imagine they say although they hold morals in high regard, they also understand that she did it on holidays and they will make sure they set an example of those who are hiding to cause trouble and shame the woman for something that is not a crime.

Not every time try to remove yourself; sometimes shake and break tables. Show support and strength and stand for justice.

Sometimes be remembered for staying on the side of justice instead of triggering your flight emotion

dfrost:


Caseless, do we have a lesser word for stupid because using stupid is like glorifying her the more.

I don't even know where to place it anymore. She was way out of the boundaries of misbehaviour. She set the camera and put her face to it - and she's without a mask. She's more than careless.

lahizak:
Where you are wrong is that a school first and foremost supposed to protect the student and either you like it or not the girl is a victim. She may be stupid but she is a victim and as far as we are concerned, she did not break the rules of the school. Sex between adult outside a school is not a crime, is not like she steal or kill someone. A video meant for there eyes that got leaked is a violation of her privacy. And either you like it or not her action have no effect whatsoever on the school.
And how will you compare school institution, a place for teaching and learning to work place that pays you salary. So u saying if you and your guy have sex and stupidly make a video and it got leaked, ur office and any other association you know should disown u. Just 4 making a stupid mistake. Na wa oo

What is this one even saying, someone fvcked up big time, the school treated the fvck up accordingly and u are here wailing...
Anyways it's very simple, try it in your workplace and watch how they gonna kick ur fuvking ass out from that organization.... so for instance... instead of punishing Criminals, they should start going after those that reported the criminal abi....

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When social issues like this comes up for debate or discuss, the first thing I do is to go to my room and put on my thinking hat...lmao... And I quickly design a questionnaire for myself

Now, let's go....

Is this the first sex tape to be recorded on earth? Y/N

Is this the last tape to be seen publicly?

Is it within their prerogative to make a sex tape?

What is the age of consent in Nigeria?

Do students of institution of higher learning have sex? If yes, Do most students do a film recording...

Is sex a crime?

If you did answer most of these ?...you will realize, there is absolutely no need discussing this issue

Babcock has every right to expell them.Its trying to save its reputation and thats understandable and expected of any organisation that want to save its reputation.for the guy and the lady involved dem no put gun for their head to video their sex act.

lahizak:
Where you are wrong is that a school first and foremost supposed to protect the student and either you like it or not the girl is a victim. She may be stupid but she is a victim and as far as we are concerned, she did not break the rules of the school. Sex between adult outside a school is not a crime, is not like she steal or kill someone. A video meant for there eyes that got leaked is a violation of her privacy. And either you like it or not her action have no effect whatsoever on the school.
And how will you compare school institution, a place for teaching and learning to work place that pays you salary. So u saying if you and your guy have sex and stupidly make a video and it got leaked, ur office and any other association you know should disown u. Just 4 making a stupid mistake. Na wa oo

the girl fuk up big time and as for babcock university its a private instituition and hence holds the right to expell whoever they want to expel.if the girl or guy carry the university go court they wont win the case.

DarkJeddi:
In other words,Babcock has a business to run and THIS is not good for business..

gbam! gbam! gbam! better oil dey ur head.bad publicity is bad for business .any sane person who has a business to protect would do same without looking back .the ppl wey go video themselves release for internet have their own selves to blame.

Mynd44:
But imagine if Babcock came out with a press statement saying they will be taking court actions against people who leaked the video and support the lady in question to justice against those who are using it to shame the lady.

Imagine they say although they hold morals in high regard, they also understand that she did it on holidays and they will make sure they set an example of those who are hiding to cause trouble and shame the woman for something that is not a crime.

Not every time try to remove yourself; sometimes shake and break tables. Show support and strength and stand for justice.

Sometimes be remembered for staying on the side of justice instead of triggering your flight emotion

but if they don't, it is still okay. They have a right to protect their name, identity and brand

its interesting you think this way. A whole adult behaves irresponsibly but you WAnt Babcock to be the one to clear her mess? Our reasoning as Nigerians baffles me

lahizak:
Where you are wrong is that a school first and foremost supposed to protect the student and either you like it or not the girl is a victim. She may be stupid but she is a victim and as far as we are concerned, she did not break the rules of the school. Sex between adult outside a school is not a crime, is not like she steal or kill someone. A video meant for there eyes that got leaked is a violation of her privacy. And either you like it or not her action have no effect whatsoever on the school.
And how will you compare school institution, a place for teaching and learning to work place that pays you salary. So u saying if you and your guy have sex and stupidly make a video and it got leaked, ur office and any other association you know should disown u. Just 4 making a stupid mistake. Na wa oo

My brother Nigeria is Victorian society. A medieval religious one in some areas. Never mind modern cars, smartphones and cloak of modernity, we're mentally and socially stuck in the distant past.

Where is it illegal in a secular judicial system for grown-ups to have consensual sex? Or recording of it by both consenting adults?

However, dissemination of such recordings without consent is illegal. We must be a society that respect the law first of all. Not hypocritical moral high ground being by people who mostly in real life are in moral "deep oil wells".

We must dispassionately support rule of law every time. That's how societies move forward.

Whatever we think of the girl's private behaviour, it was meant to be private. Not public. Many things thing billions of people do daily that we might frown upon if we knew but are breaking no law.

In distancing themselves from the girl, they have shown hypocrisy and failure to support their student who has been wronged.
They could have privately counselled and reprimanded her.

bravoalpha:
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What is this one even writing sef, [b]the 2 teenagers messed up and the school should applaud them or go after those who uploaded the video? The school was right to expel her, she can now use her time to follow up who uploaded the video

Oh...sorry...I never knew they are both teenagers.... Òrí è kòpe...walai..."teenagers indeed"

Mynd44:
But imagine if Babcock came out with a press statement saying they will be taking court actions against people who leaked the video and support the lady in question to justice against those who are using it to shame the lady.

Imagine they say although they hold morals in high regard, they also understand that she did it on holidays and they will make sure they set an example of those who are hiding to cause trouble and shame the woman for something that is not a crime.

Not every time try to remove yourself; sometimes shake and break tables. Show support and strength and stand for justice.

Sometimes be remembered for staying on the side of justice instead of triggering your flight emotion

but if they don't, it is still okay. They have a right to protect their name, identity and brand

what u guys shouls understand is that babcock university is a private instituition hence a business enclave.what the girl and the guy did is bad for their business and publicity..it has nothing to do with morals.if this happened in a public university i doubt if they would have been expelled but this one happened in a private university.the proprietor no go wan fuk up im own business nau.lets be honest ..even we if any of us happen to have a private business and one or two of our employees misbehave and bring our business to disrespute we would fire him or her cos we want to protect the image of our business.the ppl that recorded themselves under the full glare of the camera have themselves to blame.babcock dont want itself to be entangled in the negative publicity ...u cant blame them.

komodapson:


Oh...sorry...I never knew they are both teenagers.... Òrí è kòpe...walai..."teenagers indeed"

My brother all these hypocrites castigating the girl, if you x-ray their private lives, most are far more sordid. Is it not the same 9ja where about 30% of kids belong to another man outside? Is it not men who kpensh wives of their friends, of neigbours, of fellow church members or colleagues they know are married?

Just be looking at them.

This silly "morale high ground" attitude makes us lag behind and fail to legislate for new situations that our laws may not fully cover yet. We blame victims.

Very soon they will be blaming victims of kidnapping or armed robbery for not being careful enough.

AreaFada2:

My brother Nigeria is Victorian society. A medieval religious one in some areas. Never mind modern cars, smartphones and cloak of modernity, we're mentally and socially stuck in the distant past.

Where is it illegal in a secular judicial system for grown-ups to have consensual sex? Or recording of it by both consenting adults?

However, dissemination of such recordings without consent is illegal. We must be a society that respect the law first of all. Not hypocritical moral high ground being by people who mostly in real life are in moral "deep oil wells".

We must dispassionately support rule of law every time. That's how societies move forward.

Whatever we think of the girl's private behaviour, it was meant to be private. Not public. Many things thing billions of people do daily that we might frown upon if we knew but are breaking no law.

In distancing themselves from the girl, they have shown hypocrisy and failure to support their student who has been wronged.
They could have privately counselled and reprimanded her.

bad publicity is bad for business.thats what babcock is trying to avoid

AreaFada2:


My brother all these hypocrites castigating the girl, if you x-ray their private lives, most are far more sordid. Is it not the same 9ja where about 30% of kids belong to another man outside? Is it not men who kpensh wives of their friends, of neigbours, of fellow church members or colleagues they know are married?

Just be looking at them.

This silly "morale high ground" make us lag behind and fail to legislate for new situations that our laws may not fully cover yet. We blame victims.

Very soon they will be blaming victims of kidnapping or armed robbery for not being careful enough.

nobody is castigating the girl but that they both released a sex video na im dem take mess up dem selves and dat is what babcock is trying to seperate itself from.but she can enrol in a public university or go abroad so her future is not that bleak.

GrabHisBalls:
Don't delve into an area you don't understand. The emboldened reek of ignorance. Investors work with information. As an individual willing to invest, would you invest in a company with a questionable reputation?

You think everybody on Nairaland is your mate? You are the one talking in absolute ignorance. A low level employee as yourself will make a sex tape and stocks will flunctuate? You must be delusional. You think you a small fry is that important in the grand scheme of things? Shior . Not even in the West not to talk of Nigeria

lefulefu:
bad publicity is bad for business.thats what babcock is trying to avoid

By hanging her out to dry, they have generated even far worse publicity. At least to international audience.

Unless of course they know they operate in a hypocritical medieval society long left behind by civilised world. I guess they tailored their action to suit that environment where things operate upside-down.

pocohantas:


You don't teach me what REPUTATIONAL RISK is. I work in a Compliance Unit - I am tasked with ensuring conducts of staff in and out of the organization meets the set standard and doesn't in any way affects its image. I would be the last person to look at things from religious lenses. I haven't been to a church since I was 19.

I stand by the post. Decisions like this are not taken with emotions, but what is best for the BRAND.

so this woman works for office gestapo




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TepKO1G7UB4

looking for that herr flick reaction on allo allo , where they jump out of their seats 'The GESTAPO!'

lefulefu:
nobody is castigating the girl but that they both released a sex video na im dem take mess up dem selves and dat is what babcock is trying to seperate itself from.but she can enrol in a public university or go abroad so her future is not that bleak.

Which means una enjoyed the video already fa.
I'd not watch such a video. To discourage those who upload it to spite or shame the victim. I guess there is no evidence that she released the video.
It could have been a phone technician who did. People can take out memory cards, download the content and put it back in the phone, For example charging a phone in someone's house.
Well, which castigation is worse than expulsion?

LadyHeaven:
Babcock's reaction was expected, it's the Nigerian way...flee from perceived evil doers, they should have done the unexpected, forgive, counsel and help heal, but their school...their rules.

Ladies please be careful, stop making such mistakes, it almost always backfires and never ends well...

like that coldroom unilag lecturer/pastor who was promptly sacked by his school and his church after that embarrassing video surfaced .

I hate nonsense sha

I personally don’t think Babcock is wrong on this!

AreaFada2:

Which means una enjoyed the video already fa.
I'd not watch such a video. To discourage those who upload it to spite or shame the victim. I guess there is no evidence that she released the video.
It could have been a phone technician who did. People can take out memory cards, download the content and put it back in the phone, For example charging a phone in someone's house.
Well, which castigation is worse than expulsion?

weda na she release the video or na the boyfriend release am we wont know for sure but one thing in the video was very obvious...she knew she was being recorded with the way she was making faces and looking at the camera as the guy was doing her from the back .the girl mess up no be small..why u go allow person to record u and u come show ur face so clearly for camera .i no blame babcock oo dose ones want to protect their business and as for enjoying the video the girl was even more professional than a professional porn star

lefulefu:
like that coldroom unilag lecturer/pastor who was promptly sacked by his school and his church after that embarrassing video surfaced .

You can’t compare that with this. Stop trying to shift the goal post.

baby124:

You can’t compare that with this. Stop trying to shift the goal post.

some ppl still came to the lecturer"s defence

BlueRayDick:
Davido as a student of the so-called morally upright school was always seen smoking, dancing in sexually suggestive manner in music videos and at a time his pictures with a particular lady on bed was leaked.

Why didn't the school claim reputational damage then?

Abi smoking, drinking carrying olosho blosters their image while only making a sex tape damages their reputation?

Shey we get sense for dis country laidis?

Trash!