mascot87:
Girls that are unintelligent and lack communication skill hide under being "moody"
The problem isn't you but her. Don't bother or kill yourself

mascot87:
Girls that are unintelligent and lack communication skill hide under being "moody"
The problem isn't you but her. Don't bother or kill yourself

AfroKnight:
OP, don’t wound yourself because of babe. She is gradually conditioning you to beg her and possibly pay for her attention.

Take it slow. If she acts like she needs space, give her plenty.

Once girls start their monosyllabic response nonsense, give them space and enjoy your life. Don’t let her “moods” bring you down. She is probably weighing her options and it appears you don’t weigh that much on her rubbish scale.

Don’t give yourself headache because of woman.

NeedAdvice00:

Thank you very much.
Do you think I should ignore her for sometime?

shortgun:
Nothing is happening..you are boring her.
Look at the kind of activities u engage her in when she has clearly shown u that she wants to explore
You begging her will also do u no good.
Ignore her and act like she doesn't exist, she will try to find out why..keep her guessing
If u finally met with her again be creative a do something that will make her moan

mascot87:


Please do. My one cent

NeedAdvice00:

Thank you very much. I couldn't sleep throughout yesterday night. Honestly, I just wonder what the sudden change is about.

Cuccitini:
Op maybe she is trying to play hard to get on you

ddaammyy:
But she told you she’s going through a breakup. Have you thought of the best way to help her pass through this phase? Pls allow her heal then you’ll get to enjoy her company more. And just so you know; she likes you if not she won’t even come around you at all. so it’s up to you to fill the vacuum of that breakup.

Shugargal:
Please ignore her for now, she wanna make you feel guilty of the offense you never committed, she's taking advantage of your love,dont call nor chat her up for now and watch what she will do next.some people enjoy this dramatic relationship most especially when they have seen you love them.

NeedAdvice00:
I have asked her countless times about what the issue was. I even asked her yesterday, "apart from this cattarr, is there anything else?" She said "no, I'm fine." Honestly, it was as if she came to my house to make me sad.

She broke up two weeks ago, we had nice time in the first two times we met, she was even the one that suggested I show her my house, which I did. Just the second day after that day, our chat was terrible. After meeting her the third time to visit the Zoo, it wasn't lively between us as well.

ddaammyy:
give her some more time, she’ll come around.

Valwezzy:
In hardon's voice "Hit yourself with the pitch of a book".

You're f"**ing needy bro, and that screenshot up there says it all.
How dare you tell her you Need her in your Life? Who does that?
Like Dude, you can't breathe without her or what?
Omo, give her a long vacation kinda break.

You fall my hand seriously.

NeedAdvice00:

My friend advised me to tell her how much I love her since I haven't really said that to her before. I only showed it. The day we came back from Zoo, she asked if I'm always this nice. Even that day, we were not lively, I was only trying to make her happy.

Valwezzy:


Is your friend a relationship expert?

Don't get me wrong, I'm no relationship expert myself, but your move was f**king wrong.
And to think she even asked if you're always this nice caps it all. She's already getting her defense mechanism high because she feels you have a motive behind your being Nice every time.

Leave that girl alone for now, she seems not to be over her Ex yet and to me, she'only using you as her back up plan(she doesn't wanna feel lonely).

Valwezzy:
In hardon's voice "Hit yourself with the pitch of a book".

You're f"**ing needy bro, and that screenshot up there says it all.
How dare you tell her you Need her in your Life? Who does that?
Like Dude, you can't breathe without her or what?
Omo, give her a long vacation kinda break.

You fall my hand seriously.

NeedAdvice00:
She could have done that in the first two times we met. We were good the first two times we met together, I was even the one that told her I have to go.

MJBOLT:

HARDDON also said "go to places you are celebrated not tolerated",the op needs intense drilling.

NeedAdvice00:

I don't think that's what she wanted. Because I tried to put my hand around her neck while seeing the movie and she gave me this kind of look that made me remove my hand within a second, yes, within a second.

I felt really sad, especially when she told me I can stop here, while escorting her.

Breezysdesign:


Brother go read harddons thread, make u fit get sense small, for women the way forward is always the way backward