NeedAdvice00:
I have asked her countless times about what the issue was. I even asked her yesterday, "apart from this cattarr, is there anything else?" She said "no, I'm fine." Honestly, it was as if she came to my house to make me sad.

She broke up two weeks ago, we had nice time in the first two times we met, she was even the one that suggested I show her my house, which I did. Just the second day after that day, our chat was terrible. After meeting her the third time to visit the Zoo, it wasn't lively between us as well.

NeedAdvice00:
I'm finding it hard to locate it. Can you post the link?

MedicH:
ask her for her account number

NeedAdvice00:
Lol. It's not about money, on both sides.

Breezysdesign:


https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only

Alexaonfleek:
you know,it also depends on what you asked her that made her to give you one word replies.
Talking from personal experience,I feel that it was when you showed indication that you had feelings for her that was when she started acting all closed off.

I feel that you should give her sometime on her own,then if she's sensible she will apologize

NeedAdvice00:
Update:

Cc: mascot87, Jasen1, AfroKnight, donjon, ddaammyy, Shugargal, Cuccitini,
HARDDON, and other people that assisted me to get back on my feet today.

Is my response good?

NeedAdvice00:
Update:

Cc: mascot87, Jasen1, AfroKnight, donjon, ddaammyy, Shugargal, Cuccitini,
HARDDON, and other people that assisted me to get back on my feet today.

Is my response good?

mascot87:



You better stop disturbing yourself with that girl and focus your energy on something else or you will look back years from now and ask yourself "why am I so dumb"
Let her be

Adasun:
Thank God u wealthy,dat shows dat money aren't an issue.locate ilegend.search through nairaland u will find him.whatever he said,do it and u may be free.professing love to her is a no no already.

nuelsam:
Well u sound needy, emotionally drained and obviously shes trying to manipulate your emotions....op, u gats wake up......all these cock and bull story over who? A girl? Seriously? U obviosly new in these game and as someone up here as said....u need to be drillled for real.
Follow Harddons thread asap.........
Shes tryna play mind games with u,judging from your write up...these is what i deduced
1 she hasnt gotten over her ex(forget all those "i cant go back to my ex" bullshit...shes tryna weigh her options and prolly use u as a back up plan.
2 your neediness caused u all these shii.......even if u love her, act like u dont fvcking care cos thats what will surely bring her close....it aint rocket science"act needy,she dumps u.....care less,she loves u".
3 give her the fvcking space....dont text her no more,dont tell her nada......just cut communications, that way she starts thinking like "what happened? This dude changed all of a sudden"...trust me, she would wanna know why hence throwing herself at u but my niqqa u gats care less.
3 read harddons thread.

NeedAdvice00:

Thank you very much. You are correct, I think I'm an option.

I will not respond to her again, as you and others said.

Update

Dimples0303:
Never date someone who has come out of a relationship in the past 6 months. You're a rebound, your job is to distract her from the pain her ex has caused her. You and the next 5 or 6 niggaz are all rebound until she heals from the ex.

Get your cap back on Friday, and wish her the best in life and bounce!

I repeat you are only the rebound dude...

NeedAdvice00:

Thank you very much. How do you think I should get it? Like, I don't want to text or reply her.

Dimples0303:


Grow a pair and ask her out on a date... Remind her to bring your hat with her as you feel self conscious without it on... Blah blah whatever it takes for her to bring the hat.

Meet at the date point: sit her down real quick, ask for the hat, then tell her that you really like her but obviously her head isn't right at the moment. Tell her to call you when she gets back to herself, and then get up and leave.

Delete her number and move on with your life. She's not coming back because she wasn't for you.

Confidence is a magnet, you really need to build yours and never ask someone to be in your life more than ONCE. shi even if they never heard you, you can not repeat it.

NeedAdvice00:
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NeedAdvice00:
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can you ladies advise me too?