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To all the ladies in the house if your man should beat you all you need to do is to go into the kitchen, find the biggest knife and insert it very deep into a non fatal part of his body ie his thigh, upper arm or face.

Beating / slapping women is for cowards and men who have inferiority complex and cant handle their anger. If a man is to beat me he has to make sure i die in the process otherwise th at fight wont finish. I will fight him with anything I find pots bottles pans knives etc.

And for the man that wants to slap me never in your life eat my food again o. That is why IBO husbands die young cos they dont stop beating their wives and as a favour the wife kills them since there is no divorce.

Some people will now turn around and say it is because he loves you; if he beats you cos he loves you what will he do if he hates you. My father through out when he was alive didnt beat me God help the man that does.

Okay!!!

Babe you dey vex o cos this your advice na wa o.

Thanks for the offer Mr Corke

It was my response to a thread on the celebrities section and as it wasnt getting much feedback i moved it to the romance section to hear you fellow NL romantics views.

Sorry to hear that sis.Don't put justice in your hand with worthless guys, just move out from his life and find a man that will love you and treat you kind.

@ Mr Corke

Far from it i love my black brothers.

But what I hate is abusive and mal-treatment. I have so many friends that have gone on for years suffering in the hands of men and many dont have a choice cos they are not financially secure or because of family expectations.

One of my friends was blinded by her husband as a result of constant beating and the last one was so bad that he hit her eyeballs with his ring. Instantly that eye was gone out of no money and the infection affected the other eye. Now she remains a beggar.

Not a beggar on the street but she cant do anything for her self cant go to the toilet herself she needs to beg someone cant wash cant cook cant do anything. And this man has eventually married someone else.

When she was okay and people advised her to leave her excuse was what will the family say; but excuse me what are they saying now.

The last time i went home and saw her she was in a bad way i wont be surprise if she dies soon