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| Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Caracta(f): 12:27am On Mar 06, 2013 |
He beats you black and blue, yet you stick with him like your life depends on it. Is it love or another definition of endurance/tolerance? Or being beaten turns you on? Or is it the practise of "for better for worse" thingy? Please make me understand. Why do you put up with a violent boyfriend? Or why do girls put up with boyfriends who practise Bruce Lee on them...Kung Fu things?  2 Likes |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by ifihearam: 12:29am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Simple!!! Boyfriend scarce and money dey the guy side,so they have no option. 7 Likes |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Caracta(f): 12:35am On Mar 06, 2013 |
^^^ Scarce ke? Wetin do all the guys on earth? Where did they go? Hehehehe. Fifteen men can be after just one woman. Una no scarce jor  2 Likes |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by ifihearam: 12:40am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Caracta: ^^^ Am laffing in zulu,men are scarce ooo. Nor go there! 2 Likes |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by saxking(m): 12:41am On Mar 06, 2013 |
the stupid belief that the devil you know is better than searching for angels you don't know ; because the s3x is damn good ; cos of low self esteem 3 Likes |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by ifihearam: 12:44am On Mar 06, 2013 |
saxking: the stupid belief that the devil you know is better than searching for angels you don't know ; because the s3x is damn good ; cos of low self esteem Low self esteem NO Sex and money. YES +scarcity of men 1 Like |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by obowunmi(m): 1:39am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Many people stay because they're parents STAYED. If your mother stayed with a man who abused her (mentally, physically, emotionally, psychologically) or she brags about how she's been married for 30 years plus to an abusive and mentally unstable beast.... there's a 100 percent chance, you will FIND AN ABUSIVE MAN OR WOMAN very attractive and will also call the person the love of your life. (perfect example is Rihanna) So unfortunately it's a natural ecosystem, unless you willing seek psychological and psychiatric help. 15 Likes |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Nobody: 2:28am On Mar 06, 2013 |
obowunmi: Many people stay because they're parents STAYED. I agree! Most of these girls didn't have proper role-models at home. Additionally, many of them didn't have parents who were affectionate enough towards them so they learned that it's normal that people, the close ones, ignore their emotions and needs. And the vicious circle goes on and on and on ...  3 Likes |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Mynd44: 5:22am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Low self esteem... |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by ITbomb(m): 6:28am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Like someone said, sex for a woman is different. A man may sex a girl then after he put on his cloth n drop some cash and that chapter is close But a woman has strong emotional attachments to who the had sex with. It happens that this abusive ones are very good in bed and also are mostly players who knows how to manage first impression, so that whatever happens, the girl always remember their first meetings silently hope he will change back to how they met 14 Likes |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by temi4fash(m): 6:39am On Mar 06, 2013 |
obowunmi: Many people stay because they're parents STAYED. dat not alwayys true oo |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by tellwsdom: 8:26am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Caracta: ^^^ How far?..Im home today......Buy biscuit when coming  |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by ITbomb(m): 8:32am On Mar 06, 2013 |
tellwsdom:Which one be this Gold circle don start to dey manufacture biscuit? |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by tellwsdom: 8:36am On Mar 06, 2013 |
ITbomb: Na wa to u oo...I mean chop chop. This romance sction don corrupt una mind finish  |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Caracta(f): 8:50am On Mar 06, 2013 |
tellwsdom:  Excuuuuuuse me!  |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Nobody: 8:56am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Because the money and or phenese they are receiving is more important than their lives,body and overall well being.plus its ladies suffering from low self esteem,mental and financial poverty that usually fall into the moronic lie that men are scarce.of course men are everywhere and not scarce at all,its the fathers in them that are scarce |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Idowuogbo(f): 8:58am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Bcus, the breadwinner dey run tinz... |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by tellwsdom: 9:02am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Caracta: Caracta, e don reach english time??  ..Issoryt |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Caracta(f): 9:05am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Some of these boyfriends are actually poor...as in very poor. The girlfriend does all the cooking and laundry, gets beaten/abused. After which there would be a make-up sêx Wonderful! |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Mynd44: 9:07am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Bcus, the breadwinner dey run tinz...Na true |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Caracta(f): 9:07am On Mar 06, 2013 |
@tellwsdom, stop derailing my thread. Contribute and get the buscuit or go back to bed. I hope you don't beat your girlfriend |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Caracta(f): 9:08am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Bcus, the breadwinner dey run tinz...What is he breadwinning? Boyfriend o...not husband. |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by tellwsdom: 9:10am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Caracta: @tellwsdom, stop derailing my thread. Contribute and get the buscuit or go back to bed. I hope you don't beat your girlfriendNo, why would i??...Hve i laid my hands on you before?? |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Mynd44: 9:11am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Caracta:Some BFs are bread winners oooo |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Caracta(f): 9:14am On Mar 06, 2013 |
tellwsdom:Is that all you've got to say? Oya go and sleep. |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Idowuogbo(f): 9:14am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Caracta:So? Boyfriend no dey run things ni? Hehehe... Some ladies are dependant. No job! no life! all dey breathe is HIM.Now tell me how dat kind barbie go brave say she wan leave persin wey dey panel-beat every part of her body? Dey simply endure and tell demselves joy cometh in the morning. 4 Likes |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Caracta(f): 9:19am On Mar 06, 2013 |
@idowuogbo and Mynd, i get ya point. If a boyfriend beats his girl and she ends up marrying him...i wonder how they would survive their "till death do us part" marriage. |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Idowuogbo(f): 9:21am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Caracta: @idowuogbo and Mynd, i get ya point.Love is blind but marriage is d real eye opener.  1 Like |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Mynd44: 9:24am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Caracta: @idowuogbo and Mynd, i get ya point.The guy will continue till death do them part na. E hard? And if God wan do am, make she still no get job after marriage. You go hear thing like "He is just expressing his love for me" 1 Like |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Mynd44: 9:25am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:Open which eye? The eyes are already opened, some people just have eye defects and so see something else. You never marry am and he dey slap you, e day punch you when the eye go open? 2 Likes |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Idowuogbo(f): 9:31am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Mynd_44:Lmao! D beating go upgrade wen dem collect certificate na! He can officially claim ownership. |
| Re: Some Ladies Tolerate Abusive Relationships: Why? by Mynd44: 9:36am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:Reminds me of one man for this village. His wife came home late from work and cos he was hungry, he took it out on her and started beating her. When people were separating them, the husband hit one of the men and the guy started fighting the husband.... Guess what the wife said? "wetin concern una? He is my husband and he has the right to correct me when I dey wrong" na since then I don dey buy pop-corn keep for my appartment. True story oooo 5 Likes |
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