Marriage is overrated, probably a consequence of our low development index. Its the only thing we do!!

MsTom:

you dont have to leave.

Nah! U didn't ge it.I meant i'm out of ur disagreement
I'm still on this topic ofcourse. , . AFTER ALL we re here to disagree nd to concur, . . . . . .So No Biggy.

D-sense:

Nah! U didn't ge it.I meant i'm out of your disagreement
I'm still on this topic ofcourse. , . AFTER ALL we re here to disagree nd to concur, . . . . . .So No Biggy.

Cool!

Marriage/Love is a dreadful bond.

Zebi 76? Marriage is overrated?? Seriously Heres the thing, if you dont want to get married, then dont, but the whole point of marriage is to have a companion and ultimately have a family. In the US you find people having kids, living together and such, is that not indirectly having a marriage? if you are mature enough to have intimacy, have kids and live together, then the responsible thing to do is get married. Thats just my thought sha.

I know people marry and get divorced, that's usually the come back the marriage debate, my response to that is, if people are truly honest and open before they get married, treat each other with respect, decency and love, put God as the center of their home, remain faithful and committed to one partner. trials will come, but they will stand the test of time. But in most cases people dont live up to all these things, some times its not their fault, other times, issues could have been handled better.

If we continue to see marriage as bondage, then thats what it will be for you

Anyways thats just my thought, you dont have to agree

@ MsTom,

You ve said well, very comprehending & exceptional, so therefore you can let Dsense go if he wants to go.

I opened dis thread just to capture & clench some point of view about been forced to marriage, Mind you, am not ready for it now & not even closer to foutie.

Lemme tell ya a little story, My friend's mom is upset that his son has been with her fiance for 4 years and thy're still not married. They've been engaged for a year now, live together, but they planning to wait another 1-2 (probably 2) years to marry. Both of them are graduate students and Bank employees as well.


They are both almost 30 and my friend's mom seems to think is abnormal, ridiculous, destined to be an "old maid." He not even speaking with her mom presently and that woman hate's me my Shi--ttt, because she tot's my friend is following my trace, and I felt badly that she can't understand my point of view.

So, ladies and Gents, Why rush when you are not ready or finds ur partner, as for me I can wait as long as God wants, ain't gonna rush over nuffin, because am still enjoying my lepa and orobo chicks,


am still expecting ur comments, abeg nor fall my hand ooo.

Ur body just fell , . . . , . So U prefer MsTom to me?

yes,
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marcus1234:

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Meaning?

D-sense:

your body just fell , . . . , . So U prefer MsTom to me?

Simply bcus you fall my hand! but no worry i go catch u for area

DAY11.:

Simply bcus you fall my hand! but no worry i go catch u for area

I no dey pass by dat corner wey i see u dey smoke weed last time again
Na undergound i dey go now.

@miss EZ; your views are quite fine with me, though I have nothing against marriage I believe people shouldnt take it as a do or die affair!!

While i agree that people shouldnt get married until they are ready, shouldnt we act responsibly while we are in the waiting process. Me i dont understand all this free for all party day11 is advocating o,

wait till you are 50 years ode

seems like this!!

i agree Zebi, marriage isnt do or die. That tends to be the case in naija

Miss EZ:

While i agree that people shouldnt get married until they are ready, shouldnt we act responsibly while we are in the waiting process. Me i dont understand all this free for all party day11 is advocating o,

I said forcing to get married? I'd never said they re ready.

Some months backs, I read a comment abt somebody asking for suggestion if he can marry with 30k salary & only 150k savings in his bank acct! My own opinion is dat, Dis person can surely go ahead and marry as long as nobody is forcing him and he knws what he want and def if he can cut his coat according to his size.

So, Miss EZ Wizzee, Im trying to escape your contributions, U have said well also. ( chop ur indommie while is hot )  

Miss Ez, can i meet u?

Wait till you're ready, simple!  

lol Day11 seriously? after all you have said, lol, nothing do u sha

Miss EZ:

lol Day11 seriously? after all you have said, lol, nothing do u sha

randy fellow!!

It's not by force. If it's not for you it's not for you although I doubt ur parents will want to hear it.

wow i can't believe a 40 yr old man person created this topic.

Sista or mummy Oyinda is that ur pic?. . . .

what is wrong with my pic o, Mr. D-sense?

@poster

how are my sure you are not mesmerizing. that at "40" you don't have a family of your own, a home base for that matter. i guess you are not a succubus

Nothing ma. . . , Infact it's cut nd gorgeous  

oyinda.:

what is wrong with my pic o, Mr. D-sense?

is that truely your pic, omo i no wan bad dreams dis night oh

D-sense:

Nothing ma. . . , Infact it's cut nd gorgeous  

thnx dear

ohaechesi:

is that truely your pic, omo i no wan bad dreams dis night oh

u dey craze

D-sense:

Nothing ma. . . , Infact it's cut nd gorgeous  

the pic suppose make front page oh   infact, lets move to another topic with the pic sharp sharp

Loooooooooooooooooool.

oyinda.:

thnx dear

u dey craze

Sorry ma, i no dey craze, i had wanted to say your pic is the NL most gorgeous pic of the year. pardon me ma, it was a sleep of tongue