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My Boyfriend Wants Me To by SyberKate(f): 7:34pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Good day, all. So I have been dating this my BF for 6 months now and we plan to get married in about 3 months. Now he wants me to quit my job, a job I got by myself without anybody's help. Yes, the pay is not fantastic but I can take care of my basic needs, and I do get stressed out every day and too tired to cook when I get home. But my BF wants me to quit that he will be giving me pocket money while I look for a better job. And this is someone who is still hustling o! Now I have a funny feeling he doesn't have my best interest at heart. Yes I am actively looking for a better job but I don't think it is wise to quit a job without having another and be hoping for BF to be giving me pocket money 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by taylor89(m): 7:38pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Slawormir: 7:39pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Damnnnnn Your boy friend is trying to show and make you feel that he is a real niggarrr whereas he is a broke asss pussy niggarrr Let me tell you a secret woman Everyday is a bank account, and time is our currency My dear try and master your own huzzle to conquer your struggle! The secret of getting ahead and rich is getting started with something. So get your asss up and continue your job while you seek for a better one 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Nickisindigo(m): 7:40pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
if it were me I would ask him to match or double the current salary am collecting so that I can quit |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Bodaolawrites(m): 7:40pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
taylor89: Yourba say "Ma Dan WO". Don't try it. Insecurity want to kill him. He hiding under the umbrella of you not cooking bla bla bla 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by sLentlover7778(m): 7:46pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Philippians 4:19...The Lord shall supply your needs not your boyfriend.. Think....... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by CapitalHYC(m): 7:48pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
OP your BF is selfish... You said your boyfriend not husband oo.. Hmm I pity you coz you would regret it 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Nobody: 8:01pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
quit while seeking a better job? Will he pay your bills in the process? How much is pocket money by the way? |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Benbelor(m): 8:35pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
He's a very big joker. Never leave your job when you are not very sure of what your fate will be financially on the long run First, pocket money is not salary and it can cease coming anytime then you go back and start job hunting which is never friendly 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by blackboy(m): 8:36pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Fear that guy. You both really need to talk. Abi him papa be Dangote or adenuga |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Nobody: 8:36pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Don’t mind the guy...he’s not serious.. he’s trying to form alpha male that he is not...later u will fight and break up with you and U’ll have to start over. use him for rituals .... thank me later When u are done call me.. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by seunmohmoh(f): 8:58pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Relationship again I'm officially tired. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Deandean: 9:09pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Shhhh!!...dnt say i told u.rendering u financially dependent is d easiest way a guy can control u...d second is piecing ur sense with dickson...best combo is to launch both...meanwhile, if only he had dicked u well first,uld have left d job since...lolll |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by MrCork: 9:10pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by MrCork: 9:12pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
SyberKate: WHA THA F**K??.. ..yor boyfriend want u to quit bloooowjob?? ..truss me.. he use less. BREAK UP WIT THE MOFO!!(No oofeense) 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:25pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
sit down with the dude and ask him these simple question: - so you want me to quit my job while you yourself dont even have one?! - do you think it is wise for an unemployed man to make such demand? - how irresponsible are you to believe that i would even listen to you? - i may not like my job and it may not pay well but at least i have one. what have you got? - dont you think that it would be smart to only quit my job after i have lined up another one? - how could you even plan marriage if both you guys dont have your lives in order? - could you tell me the benefit of doing such irresponsible gesture? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Mykel51(m): 9:56pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: See finish. . .. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by AfroKnight: 10:49pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
This cannot be true. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by bigdaddyhech: 10:55pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Wise up OP you don't need to tell you that your so-called is a scum... From your narration he's still hustling and he want you to quit your job claiming he will be paying you... I laugh in hebrew |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Lonelypacifist6: 11:20pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
SyberKate:Run girl, run He's looking to control your finances and as such has you in a choke hold, Run and don't look back . 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Zanxx(f): 11:22pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Don't do it, infact dont even think of doing it. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by biggie73(m): 11:33pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Please don't quit your job. If you must quit at all, you should quit the relationship. God blesses your sweat. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Playstation1: 11:35pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE ALWAYS BRING BAD RELATIONSHIP NEWS TO THE ROMANCE SECTION OF THIS FORUM? Ps: Don't fall for that crap/stupid idea That Nigga(ur bf) Is selling u. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by shege45: 12:16am On Nov 30, 2019 |
SyberKate:why did he say u shld quit 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by shege45: 12:18am On Nov 30, 2019 |
freshupdates:are you sure bro that u won’t touch d persons fone? Cus d one i dey do u go touch d person fone ooo |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Edyice: 12:21am On Nov 30, 2019 |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by julybaba(m): 12:22am On Nov 30, 2019 |
It's difficult to back a mature person. Your BF is still a novice. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by seunmohmoh(f): 12:54am On Nov 30, 2019 |
Edyice:Start what afresh? Nairaland relationship thread on front page every time. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Nobody: 6:42am On Nov 30, 2019 |
Don't ever, in your life, quit your job for anyone and definitely not for a boyfriend. Nothing compares to making your own money. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by Edyice: 7:56am On Nov 30, 2019 |
seunmohmoh: I won't let that happen... Check your email |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To by zuoxing(m): 8:02am On Nov 30, 2019 |
Edyice: |
My Girlfriend Threatened To Drink Snipper If I Leave Her... / Mehhn Bbnaija Diane Gat BOOBS!!! / She's a scam . Women are scam . I'm crying
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