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Oga What's this?

SyberKate:
Good day, all.

So I have been dating this my BF for 6 months now and we plan to get married in about 3 months.
Now he wants me to quit my job, a job I got by myself without anybody's help. Yes, the pay is not fantastic but I can take care of my basic needs, and I do get stressed out every day and too tired to cook when I get home.

But my BF wants me to quit that he will be giving me pocket money while I look for a better job. And this is someone who is still hustling o!
Now I have a funny feeling he doesn't have my best interest at heart.

Yes I am actively looking for a better job but I don't think it is wise to quit a job without having another and be hoping for BF to be giving me pocket money

You say you they work,na him dey give you food money,hair money,na him dey buy pomade, soap,na him dey pay house rent and other things, but still you no fit cook for the house except make he give you money take dey buy buy for outside, wetin that your work money dey contribute for the relationship? Liabilities everywhere

Your boyfriend is good person

You see there are 4 types of wealth

Financial (money)
Freedom ( time)
Social (Fame/status)
Physical ( health)

Your boyfriend must have noticed that you come home drained and tired everyday.

Sacrificing physical health for financial is not the way to go

And life has a funny way of operating, quitting that job might land you on a platform to getting a better one

My two cents

Don't quit the job unless you have another job
Quit the job only if he earns X4 of your present I come

Your boyfriend is not wise. It is possible you are overworked, but the solution is not leaving your current job, it is finding something better before you take that step, to quit the current job.

Instead of giving you pocket money, he should pay your dowry and then you can both settle down.

SyberKate:
Good day, all.

So I have been dating this my BF for 6 months now and we plan to get married in about 3 months.
Now he wants me to quit my job, a job I got by myself without anybody's help. Yes, the pay is not fantastic but I can take care of my basic needs, and I do get stressed out every day and too tired to cook when I get home.

But my BF wants me to quit that he will be giving me pocket money while I look for a better job. And this is someone who is still hustling o!
Now I have a funny feeling he doesn't have my best interest at heart.

Yes I am actively looking for a better job but I don't think it is wise to quit a job without having another and be hoping for BF to be giving me pocket money

Whether you are the one involved or you are asking on someone's behalf, dodge this bullet and thank me later.

SyberKate:
Good day, all.

So I have been dating this my BF for 6 months now and we plan to get married in about 3 months.
Now he wants me to quit my job, a job I got by myself without anybody's help. Yes, the pay is not fantastic but I can take care of my basic needs, and I do get stressed out every day and too tired to cook when I get home.

But my BF wants me to quit that he will be giving me pocket money while I look for a better job. And this is someone who is still hustling o!
Now I have a funny feeling he doesn't have my best interest at heart.

Yes I am actively looking for a better job but I don't think it is wise to quit a job without having another and be hoping for BF to be giving me pocket money

u don date for 6month and he is telling you to quit your job, these are some signs God give you people before marriage which u ignore
If you enter marriage na wahala be that ooh. My sister japa japa.

seunmohmoh:
Relationship again I'm officially tired.

Ya can't be in a relationship sweetie.. You gat ass that can't be owned by a single man. He's not the only that exists biko

SyberKate:
Good day, all.

So I have been dating this my BF for 6 months now and we plan to get married in about 3 months.
Now he wants me to quit my job, a job I got by myself without anybody's help. Yes, the pay is not fantastic but I can take care of my basic needs, and I do get stressed out every day and too tired to cook when I get home.

But my BF wants me to quit that he will be giving me pocket money while I look for a better job. And this is someone who is still hustling o!
Now I have a funny feeling he doesn't have my best interest at heart.

Yes I am actively looking for a better job but I don't think it is wise to quit a job without having another and be hoping for BF to be giving me pocket money

Don't make that mistake, you don't have to gamble with your future wellness

Your boyfriend doesn't have enough insurance to back himself up then talk more of you

After your marriage, if he still insist, you guys must sit down and weigh the effect in the family pls

Stupid boyfriend

I wonder why this should be an issue to be discussed.

If you love yourself... Do not quit your job....

Dont quit anything as long as you are not having an affair with your boss or colleague.

Hope you didnt dear.










quote author=SyberKate post=84481295]Good day, all.

So I have been dating this my BF for 6 months now and we plan to get married in about 3 months.
Now he wants me to quit my job, a job I got by myself without anybody's help. Yes, the pay is not fantastic but I can take care of my basic needs, and I do get stressed out every day and too tired to cook when I get home.

But my BF wants me to quit that he will be giving me pocket money while I look for a better job. And this is someone who is still hustling o!
Now I have a funny feeling he doesn't have my best interest at heart.

Yes I am actively looking for a better job but I don't think it is wise to quit a job without having another and be hoping for BF to be giving me pocket money[/quote]

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SyberKate:
Good day, all.

So I have been dating this my BF for 6 months now and we plan to get married in about 3 months.
Now he wants me to quit my job, a job I got by myself without anybody's help. Yes, the pay is not fantastic but I can take care of my basic needs, and I do get stressed out every day and too tired to cook when I get home.

But my BF wants me to quit that he will be giving me pocket money while I look for a better job. And this is someone who is still hustling o!
Now I have a funny feeling he doesn't have my best interest at heart.

Yes I am actively looking for a better job but I don't think it is wise to quit a job without having another and be hoping for BF to be giving me pocket money

you said it yourself. Quit your job now and have yourself to blame later.
NB jobs are hard to come by these days

Thats for immature minds, pussies that managed to meet a girl will broadcast or even talk about it.

Sex and meeting shouldnt really be hyped by any sensible guy.

You have a point dear.

seunmohmoh:
Start what afresh? Nairaland relationship thread on front page every time.

SyberKate:
Good day, all.

So I have been dating this my BF for 6 months now and we plan to get married in about 3 months.
Now he wants me to quit my job, a job I got by myself without anybody's help. Yes, the pay is not fantastic but I can take care of my basic needs, and I do get stressed out every day and too tired to cook when I get home.

But my BF wants me to quit that he will be giving me pocket money while I look for a better job. And this is someone who is still hustling o!
Now I have a funny feeling he doesn't have my best interest at heart.

Yes I am actively looking for a better job but I don't think it is wise to quit a job without having another and be hoping for BF to be giving me pocket money

don't try it o

CallMeGrace:
Sis, do not leave that job,
[s]If you must leave ehn, let him secure a job for you, before you leave the current one...[/s]

corrected

Dont quit your job till you find another better job

SyberKate:
Good day, all.

So I have been dating this my BF for 6 months now and we plan to get married in about 3 months.
Now he wants me to quit my job, a job I got by myself without anybody's help. Yes, the pay is not fantastic but I can take care of my basic needs, and I do get stressed out every day and too tired to cook when I get home.

But my BF wants me to quit that he will be giving me pocket money while I look for a better job. And this is someone who is still hustling o!
Now I have a funny feeling he doesn't have my best interest at heart.

Yes I am actively looking for a better job but I don't think it is wise to quit a job without having another and be hoping for BF to be giving me pocket money