Sterope:
There was an incident in India. A woman was gangraped by some men in a bus. In court, they claimed that it was her fault for being out so late.

A woman was raped and murdered in America. She ignored her rapist's catcalls. She might have said a word or two.

Some Nigerian women were/are raped because they led a man on. How dare they lead a man on?

You can lend your advocacy to these poor men. The first one had no home training, I mean why would she be out so late at night. How dare she put herself in that situation.

The second one was so rude. She deserves to be punished for that.

The third one deserves it. How dare she try to outsmart a man. She must be punished with rape

You will make a wonderful rapist advocate!

LordAdam16:


Women abroad always have their creep-o-meter on high alert. Looking out for pervs from stalkers to weirdos. When their friends advice them to get a restraining order against a disturbing admirer, they don't retort with "you're making excuses for his behavior."

They have common sense. You don't.

You can as well go on a hike in the hinterlands of Zamfara alone. So you can come back and inform us about how you were able to cancel, shame, or argue your way out of getting assaulted by a bunch of marauding bandits by convincing them that is a crime.

As Friedrich Schiller opined, "Even the gods are powerless against stup*dity".

Furthermore, you're the one advocating for de-platforming a comedian because you don't like his joke. Maybe you should check the dictionary for the meaning of intolerant. And then afterwards look in the mirror to find the stark image of a person with a single-digit IQ.

You're the special kind of id*ot who would be told to put on a seat belt, and your response would be: You're making an excuse for bad drivers.

-Lord

ornicus:


I knew boys like you in school.hardcore rapists.some even got arrested more than once. One of them, the last time I checked is now forming born again.

As others have said, the only thing saving most of you deviants is the culture in this country of victim blaming and slut shaming. Just confine your nonsense to naija. Try that shit in obodo oyibo and we will see you on TV looking like the dumb mofo led by his prick that you are.

Plead:


You’re very dumb and stupid sha. You think everyone is local like you innit? Continue with your fvckery.

Biglittlelois:



There is what we call communication, it is not rocket science, when a guy approaches a lady, he should state his intentions before going further, infact they both should, whether it's just transactional sex, next level, etc. They should say it all, a man should not entice a lady with money and food hoping to get sex in return when it has not been said, she doesn't read mind and can't see the future, he is not forced at gunpoint to feed her or give her money, he gave her willingly, and she collected willingly.

And as for your last statement, sorry to say but you're very stupid for saying she brought it on herself, what stops him from clarifying things with her? Is he dumb? Is his mouth zipped shut? I don't go vulgar, but with you, I'll make an exception.

truthsayer009:


We will gang up against you

Sterope:
If I lead a man, should I be raped then?

I am finding it difficult to understand how those two are mutually exclusive! You claim you don't support rape yet you keep bringing up bunch of ifs. Clearly, you support rape. You believe it is justifiable. She is responsible for getting raped didn't she? Yet you lie to yourself that you don't support rape. How did you think the rapist managed to convince himself to rape her? That is a rapist's thinking right there. Mr man, are you a rapist? Is this how you have convinced yourself to justify rape?

The law is against rape. It is a crime. There is no if. It is common sense. It is not my fault if you leave your sense when you are courting a lady, that does not excuse rape.

KenModi:


You are the stupid one here; you are an idiiot and a nincompoop!! You think and speak like a child.

So the man has to shout his intentions from the top of the roof enn! You don’t have brain to know what he wants without him speaking the words or writing it in black and white right?

Is he your father? Is he your brother? Then why would he be spending on you when he is not related to you if he doesn’t want something (usually sex) in return??

You want to play that “innocence” card like you don’t know why he is spending unless he says the words out right; but you don’t know that your innocence card is very well mixed with sheer and utter dumbness and stupidity.

Are you a child?? Are you that dumb?? If he is spending and spending are you not supposed to ask questions but you just sit there stupidly saying to yourself that “enn, I didn’t force him na, he is spending on his own free will”, then when he starts making advances for sex, you start talking rubbish. What exactly were you expecting?? You think he is Father Christmas?

Don’t worry apply the same mentality to your business or job, until your boss or customers tell you things out right because you don’t have common sense to discern things for yourself and do things without being told; and see if you won’t be fired or close up shop within a few weeks!!

You are a foool of the highest order!!

KenModi:


No reason; absolutely no reason justifies rape. You definitely should not be raped because you led him.

That said, there are different people in this world; some sane, some insane; some responsible, some love jail even more than being outside enjoying their freedom.

Some men don’t give a hoot; you lead them on and then don’t give them what they want in the end, they don’t care and just move on. But there are others (which I think are even more in the society) who you would deceive into believing they would get something in return but in the end don’t give them, they would be vengeful and harm you among other many ways especially through rape. Some don’t even care if they go to jail or not so long they have dealt with you.

All I have said is for your own good. Don’t deceive men and expect to always get away with it because rape is a crime.

Don’t worry by the time you have been raped five times by five different men, you would get sense by force not to deceive men and be clear from the very beginning about what is what in whatever is happening between both of you.

And by the way, don’t you ever call me a rapist as I have never and would never rape anyone. Wetin?!! Have I even asked you out or anyone you know. Don’t misunderstand what I write and start talking rubbish!!

lazarusokafor90:

If I lead a man, should I be raped then? If you do, then yes you deserve to be raped. It's tit for tat.

Sterope:


If not that most of you are as silly as Basket mouth, should you be shouting greed on top rape matter? Does it even make sense to you? Lets talk about rape then you idiots come up with but what ifs. The rapists amongst must be very glad. There are fellow men who see sense in rape.

Sterope:
KenModi,. LordAdam16

Come and see your people

RCDIY:

Is it possible to put your point across without insulting anyone? Or are you trying to sound like those Confused Feminists who commented before you did?

If y'all look right inside, you'd agree that no one here has either supported rape or justified it.
I believe it's wrong to look forward to sex just because you've spent money on someone.

It is also not right to keep going out with someone at his/her expense multiple times. Haba! You no get conscience?
This is basically a problem with girls who don't have means. I have been with a girl who returns my favour each time! We're still friends till date.
The country (and the world) is full of evil people. Keep the risk to yourself at a minimal. Eat your own food for crying out loud.

And for those who keep posting 'you can't do this in the west', you think people don't get raped in the EU?

Again, y'all need to stop thinking rape is violence against only women. It's so miopic to believe so. I know a number of guys who have been raped, by multiple girls.

Sterope:
Okay, you are very silly.

Sterope:
Okay, you are very silly.

pocohantas:


Person wey no get sense from in mama and papa house. You come feel say na you on NL fit give am sense. Naso.

Sterope:
[s]There was an incident in India. A woman was gangraped by some men in a bus. In court, they claimed that it was her fault for being out so late.

A woman was raped and murdered in America. She ignored her rapist's catcalls. She might have said a word or two.

Some Nigerian women were/are raped because they led a man on. How dare they lead a man on?

You can lend your advocacy to these poor men. The first one had no home training, I mean why would she be out so late at night. How dare she put herself in that situation.

The second one was so rude. She deserves to be punished for that.

The third one deserves it. How dare she try to outsmart a man. She must be punished with rape

You will make a wonderful rapist advocate![/s]

Tulsaguy:


While it's termed a free world, & you can do & say whatever you like in conversations, public discourse, jokes etc so long what you do and say do not impact negatively on others ....they say it is allowed ..... now that's freedom/liberty.

Now liberty isn't a call to reckless jokes or irresponsibility. I think it's a call to responsibility. And responsibility is the state or fact of being accountable or to blame for something. The cost of liberty is immeasurable, expensive and having liberty is a call to responsibility in word & deed. It's also being sensitive to the needs of others in the Eco system.

The world-india, SA, Nigeria, everywhere are doing everything to curb this menace, it shouldn't be trivialised.

I maintained that anyone who has a family member that has gone through that acutely distressing experience wouldn't term it to be joke.

Sterope:
KenModi,. LordAdam16

Come and see your people

ornicus:


the fact that that was your response says all that needs to be said about your state of mind. a juvenile punk who will always find a way to justify violence against women

lazarusokafor90:

So it's ok to lead a man on, but it's wrong when the man turns around to rape you. You ladies always tend to think the world revolves around you.

Plead:


For reference purposes -I agreed with every part of your post except the pastor bling bling part so don’t be taking your stupidity to a whole new level in a bid to garner likes that won’t do much good to you. Your stupidity and non comprehension abilities are clearly not questionable.

Sterope:
KenModi,. LordAdam16

Come and see your people