linearity:
I think you are distorting the true meaning of a feminist.

You started on a good footing by stating that; feminism is the advocacy of equality of all sexes. The focus is not exclusively advocating for female rights; it is only so because in many societies today, female are more neglected in comparison to men's rights.

Take for example the slogan "Black lives matters". This does not mean that, all lives does not matter, black is used there because, blacks are more likely to be abused by the authority in a multiracial environment compare to whites...off-course 'White lives matters" and all lives matters.

Picture in your mind, the sinking titanic ship....Feminists believe that; instead of saying "Women and children should be the first to board the life boats", it should be "All those who are weak and can't swim should board the life-boat first".

Feminist believe that, you should not open the car door for them, simply because they are lady; but do it only if you equally do it for men as well or do it for people that can't do it by themselves regardless of their gender.

In the work place, feminist believe that salaries, positions, seniority, promotions, etc should be based on criteria that gender-blind.

It is not true to assume that feminist women do not cook, they just believe the individual who is better at cooking should be the one to do it, regardless of their gender. Most of the world renowned cooks are men and not women.

In your other examples; if in the countries you cited: Men can leave a marriage anytime for whatever reason, then women should not be forbidden to do likewise.

Feminism has nothing to do with sharing properties in half. It is based on the earning ability of both parties; there are examples where women pay their exes spousal support and maintenance.

Lastly, we have feminist men as well, it is not just women. Feminist men, are men that believe in the equality of all sexes. A feminist man, will not give up his seat in a bus to someone just because they are female; but he can do it because the other party is weak, tired, an elder, etc.

You are confusing femininity with feminist; they are completely two different things and in many instances opposite to one another.

This is what feminism is supposed to be, not what it is. Heard of ferminist slutwork?
Chivalry., women still want that. They want men to open doors for them. Well not me, (not a slave)
And ferminist feel oppressed to cook a meal period
I think feminism is a good philosophy, I will defnetly like to operate on equal footing with a woman. Especially that 50/50ratio
Hehe women still want to be considered first In time of disaster. Thanks to feminism men can now just save the self's and leave the women to safe themselfs. Cus being macho in time of disaster is toxic masculinity, or better yet they can save themselfs becouse women don't need men.

TheRedpillguy:

This is what feminism is supposed to be, not what it is. Heard of ferminist slutwork?
Chivalry., women still want that. They want men to open doors for them. Well not me, (not a slave)
And ferminist feel oppressed to cook a meal period
I think feminism is a good philosophy, I will defnetly like to operate on equal footing with a woman. Especially that 50/50ratio
Hehe women still want to be considered first In time of disaster. Thanks to feminism men can now just save the self's and leave the women to safe themselfs. Cus being macho in time of disaster is toxic masculinity, or better yet they can save themselfs becouse women don't need men.

Perfect reply. And with this, don't reply them anymore. Them be not making no sense. None!

AfroKnight:
Lol. It appears you have an axe to grind with these women.


Naija feminism is special. These days, it is more like a movement for bitter women.

actually feminism is the same all over the world... It has less to do with Nigeria or not. Of course your society could have an effect.

Feminism on the surface(theoritical) level is good but going deeper and connecting it with life and reality...No way, it doesn't work with the humans have always worked(I would have said designed to work but..)

It's just like (the now popular)communism and socialism... they seem very good on paper but in real life they become absolutely flawed because humans don't work in a single pattern. Everywhere they've been tested they've 100% failed or have only be partially applied.

Same goes for feminism. it's like a utopia for women who feel they've been oppressed by men and patriarchy. But when applied you see what it does? check the societies where it's been applied. Look at families. The structures have been broken and keep getting assaulted.

Funny thing, every lady that identifies as feminism easily get agitated... Like they always have the battle line drawn and swords unsheathed ready to battle. That's why it's good you always be on the defensive as a man when in a relationship with someone who identifies as such.

God help us modern me.

And to those who say a movement does not define a person.
Yes, maybe you're right.

But a movement is nothing, a movement is inexistent if there are no people following it. And if the people following such a movement are bad. Sorry, that movement is bad. The people make up the movement.

A family is nothing; does not exist without the component members of the family.

TheRedpillguy:

This is what feminism is supposed to be, not what it is. Heard of ferminist slutwork?
Chivalry., women still want that. They want men to open doors for them. Well not me, (not a slave)
And ferminist feel oppressed to cook a meal period
I think feminism is a good philosophy, I will defnetly like to operate on equal footing with a woman. Especially that 50/50ratio
Hehe women still want to be considered first In time of disaster. Thanks to feminism men can now just save the self's and leave the women to safe themselfs. Cus being macho in time of disaster is toxic masculinity, or better yet they can save themselfs becouse women don't need men.

According to feminism, protecting women during war is toxic masculinity so women can protect themselves during war. This is sweet. When a ship is in the middle of the ocean and it's about to sink, there won't be "Let women and children use the life boat first so that the men can become sacrificial lamb". Because feminists will see this as toxic masculinity so they don't need men for survival.

I dont have a problem with feminism....I have a problem with women who still eant to retain the perks of patriarchy...Ans that is where the problem lies....U cant say u dont believe in gender roles but feel the man shud pay bills alone....Also I believe laws giving half to spouse in divorce shud b abolished....everyone shud b settled based on their contribution/input to the wealth....

Korllami007:


According to feminism, protecting women during war is toxic masculinity so women can protect themselves during war. This is sweet. When a ship is in the middle of the ocean and it's about to sink, there won't be "Let women and children use the life boat first so that the men can become sacrificial lamb". Because feminists will see this as toxic masculinity so they don't need men for survival.

Yeah if you ignore your humanity and litsen to what feminism says then, that sums it up just fine. But me am all about litsnining to what people do and say. And am not going to give up my boat to a woman in the middle of the ocean. A child peharps but a woman. Nah women can swim

tunjilana:
I dont have a problem with feminism....I have a problem with women who still eant to retain the perks of patriarchy...Ans that is where the problem lies....U cant say u dont believe in gender roles but feel the man shud pay bills alone....Also I believe laws giving half to spouse in divorce shud b abolished....everyone shud b settled based on their contribution/input to the wealth....

Yep women want a man to provide, risk his life, protect and take abuse but feel too oppressed to butter a bread.