Okoroawusa:
There is nothing anyone that has been to Dubai will tell you that will be like you entering a plane n landing in Dubai yourself.


When you enter marriage you go see with your eye. Woman wey you wan carry enter room no need to dey pinch her for road. Be patient... yansh go tear young woman reach where e tear old woman. You hear?

Okoroawusa:
There is nothing anyone that has been to Dubai will tell you that will be like you entering a plane n landing in Dubai yourself.


When you enter marriage you go see with your eye. Woman wey you wan carry enter room no need to dey pinch her for road. Be patient... yansh go tear young woman reach where e tear old woman. You hear?

MVPtesley:
they say experience teaches better. I believe no matter how hard I try to sound like I understand what marriage is all about I ll end up deceiving myself.


so ll like my married brothers and sisters out there to tell us the single people what the reality of getting married truly is.

it's a practical thing... only those in it can realistically say cogent facts about it.

Blakjewelry:

two marriage thread in one day? my brother if you wan to get marry and you believed you have find the right person go ahead, the rest will take care of,itself

MrBrownJay1:
- be honest and respectful
- be open minded
- trust your partner
- communicate openly and truthfully
- give care and affection
- never accept anything your are fully against
- never go to bed mad at one another (aka any issue should be resolved before bedtime)
- give her enough space to be herself
- dont be shy about trying new things that she may enjoy (unless it is against your religion/common sense)
- be on top of your sex game, be adventurous, and make sure your fulfill all her sexual fantasies
- have fun

btw living with a woman (aka common law partner) is the same as marriage. the minute a woman moves into your house, she becomes your wife (she would act like it and believe she is), whether you guys are married legally or not.

yvelchstores:
Go and watch pastor kingsley okonkwo on YouTube, u will get all the expo plus Jara.

MrBrownJay1:
- be honest and respectful
- be open minded
- trust your partner
- communicate openly and truthfully
- give care and affection
- never accept anything your are fully against
- never go to bed mad at one another (aka any issue should be resolved before bedtime)
- give her enough space to be herself
- dont be shy about trying new things that she may enjoy (unless it is against your religion/common sense)
- be on top of your sex game, be adventurous, and make sure your fulfill all her sexual fantasies
- have fun

btw living with a woman (aka common law partner) is the same as marriage. the minute a woman moves into your house, she becomes your wife (she would act like it and believe she is), whether you guys are married legally or not.

J111333:
Tonto Dike and her husband have educated me well enough.

Depressed101:
my guess is she's living with you. And you never pay.. Fxckinh free kpekus repent o

iLegendd:


Made me smile.

MrBrownJay1:
- be honest and respectful
- be open minded
- trust your partner
- communicate openly and truthfully
- give care and affection
- never accept anything your are fully against
- never go to bed mad at one another (aka any issue should be resolved before bedtime)
- give her enough space to be herself
- dont be shy about trying new things that she may enjoy (unless it is against your religion/common sense)
- be on top of your sex game, be adventurous, and make sure your fulfill all her sexual fantasies
- have fun

btw living with a woman (aka common law partner) is the same as marriage. the minute a woman moves into your house, she becomes your wife (she would act like it and believe she is), whether you guys are married legally or not.

Bola146:
I'm here to read comments

MrBrownJay1:


ALL kpekus are free, only fools pay for them... and the reason why so many women are treated like garbage is because they ask for bride price (aka selling of kpekus).

Depressed101:
RESPECT TRADITION REDPILL ENDS AT THE DOOR STEP OF YOUR MATRIMONIAL HOME.LIKE I SAID STOP FXCLING FREE KPEKUS untop your wife/baby mama head ,isnor good

Nat404:
I need someone who will design a book cover for me. Can you help me out please?

Nat404:
I need someone who will design a book cover for me. Can you help me out please?

MVPtesley:
give me your preference specification. I ll do it free of charge.

Nat404:
Okay, are you WhatsApp please?

MVPtesley:
for the sake of privacy send me your whatsapp number using mail vtesley@gmail.com

RisenPhoenix:
If you are a man your rules should be:

- don't marry a woman whom you 'love' more. She will definitely take advantage.
- don't marry a woman who is aggressive and controlling. She will wear the pants in the family and run it into the ground.
- in line with the point above, never relinquish control over your family. You rule, and your wife must know it and observe it.
- she can advise you about family affairs, but do not accept any advise or suggestion that is not backed by evidence. Throwing temper tantrums, pouting, sulking etc are not evidence. Don't let her believe that she can control you by the power of feminine wiles and emotions. If she wants to propose something, she must logically prove its value.
- don't marry a woman you cannot trust. No woman is completely trustworthy, but there are degrees. Find one who you can trust to a certain level, maybe she holds certain principles etc. Her love for you will ensure that she remains so.
- don't waste your money on dining and wining her. Save, invest, repeat. You may budget a fixed percentage of your annual income for entertainment, DO NOT EXCEED THE BUDGET. Only when your income has risen sufficiently for the entertainment budget to attain Dubai levels should you take her to Dubai. Stay within your budget AT ALL TIMES, regardless of the pressure she puts on you (like telling you stories about her friends partying abroad).
- don't profess love and affection at every drop of a hat. It's degrading.
- do not show her that sex can rule your decisions. She will use sex to control you. If she has a low libido; propose a second wife to help her out. Her libido will magically increase. The trick is to make such suggestions credibly in a serious moment , AND MEAN IT.

Now for your duties:

- bear the full burden of expenses. Do not leave anything for her to pay. Make sure your budget is within your means.
- Get her a comfortable place to live in, and respect her space. The house is her domain and you are a guest. Don't interfere in her activities there.
- Respect her efforts. Do not degrade her food or deride her publicly; eat it or leave it silently and go to mama Esther's buka opposite the house. She will ask why you do not like her food. Explain gently, but do not force change. If she does so by herself, there will be less resentment. Praise the food if it is good.
- help out at home, but not too often. Better still, suggest that she gets a maid. Pay the maid's salary by adding it to your wife's housekeeping fund. Do not yourself ever interact with the maid, she's entirely your wife's. Even if you want a glass of water, let your wife instruct her.
- Never physically attack her. Very important. Not even in play.
- Never cheat on her, and also do not ever tolerate her cheating on you even if it's only a text or a tweet. Clarify to her from the first day that any form of cheating is going to end the marriage. Assure her that you are also subject to the rule.
- Permit her to own her property if she is working. Never interfere in any of her financial activities unless she specifically asks you to.
- don't ever report her to her parents or worse still, yours. She will see you with contempt henceforth. Only a weak man goes crying to mama. Resolve any issues by yourself. She can go running to her mama if she wants; she's not supposed to be a strong man.
- do not go begging her if she fights and runs off to her parents' house. The first time, wait for her to come back when she is ready, then tell her gently but sincerely that if she does it once more, you might have to add a second wife to the mix. She will never do so again.
- Take the children out sometimes to give her peace. Women do work hard sometimes and need to take time out to watch a marathon of telemundo, African magic or zeeworld or whatever nonsensical shows are the feminine rave. Take your kids to some zoo or gaming center and let them go wild on the computer games for a whole day while she does exactly that.

Good luck in your marriage.

MVPtesley:
which is?

J111333:
Men pushing marriages to work.