01Alpha:
Eya that's why am scared of any thing marriage! Do you have any plans for another wife any time soon?

Noooooo.

Nope I didn't achieve my goal actually, my goal was to reduce smoking weed but if anything this is one of those years where I felt, I even dabbled more in it. But my goal is to go out more, as I tend to spend majority of my life just working.

Lonelypacifist6:
Noooooo.

you no go marry again?

Lonelypacifist6:
Yeah the signs were there and that's what I was trying to avoid and improve I really went outta my way to make things work, I don't have any kids and didn't really want to.

Hi Sorry not to pry, but what were the issues, if you don't intend to say it out, can I reach out to you, I can be obtuse when it comes to reading signs sometimes. appreciate and sorry for that, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

It's very painful i didn't achieve my goal this year. It has been another wasted year of my life and probably the worst year since i was born

My goal this year was to enroll in a football academy and pursue my football career but i couldn't archieve that aim. I'll be looking forward to 2020(though still have no hope of achieving it)and i wish i could archive the goal

I planned to save a certain amount of money before 31st DEC, I only made 30% of it. Black tax was my major obstacle

pcguru1:
Nope I didn't achieve my goal actually, my goal was to reduce smoking weed but if anything this is one of those years where I felt, I even dabbled more in it. But my goal is to go out more, as I tend to spend majority of my life just working.

avoiding friends who smoke will help a lot. Keep pushing bro

Lonelypacifist6:
I achieved a lot but the one I really hoped for didn't fall through, I never dreamt I'll be divorced this year or any year at all, Got married 2014 divorced 2019. Got my pet, Rejuvenated my Businessess, and expanded my Sources of income. Got another degree, ”Not like I needed it anyway, like my ex wife said the money is itching my hands” I hoped to improve my marital life, but we circumstances would have it, it got worse.

dont get scared of divorce, its not a crime, what matters most is your peace of mind. Thank God a child is not even involved yet, but you should also check yourself, make amend in areas you know your are lacking and just do what makes you happy

If the reason for not achieving your goals this year was due to lack of self control/will power,then you most likely will still not acheive it next year.

[quote author=Maxxim post=84665587]Goals.
Learnt some great stuffs online which has been another source of income, abeg bro what did you learn..really interested in an online skill abeg

Nina4u:
I did ...i saved up 2.5 million naira for cosmetic sergery and now im loving my waste and tummy ...

u mean dollars? or dem don use naira now for las V?

Nina4u:

Where is the surgery mark...I mean they had to stitch you up right

pcguru1:

Hi Sorry not to pry, but what were the issues, if you don't intend to say it out, can I reach out to you, I can be obtuse when it comes to reading signs sometimes. appreciate and sorry for that, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

You can't be prepared for marriage, I don't think it's possible, The issues were Nagging, she cut my family off no one visits me at home because of her demenure, Money issues, She earns big just like me but won't do Shitt a home, She'll still ask me for money to fund her travels, "she has a sister in Gabon" There was time I don't go home because nagging I sleep at hotels, within 3 months I've spent up to 1.4 sleeping in hotels lots of things i won't type here.

Nina4u:

madam go collect your money back.. them no do am well

Lonelypacifist6:
You can't be prepared for marriage, I don't think it's possible, The issues were Nagging, she cut my family off no one visits me at home because of her demenure, Money issues, She earns big just like me but won't do Shitt a home, She'll still ask me for money to fund her travels, "she has a sister in Gabon" There was time I don't go home because nagging I sleep at hotels, within 3 months I've spent up to 1.4 sleeping in hotels lots of things i won't type here.

Wow what you've written is actually enough, but I often wonder why some wives do that. Anyway only you knows where the shoes pinches. All the best in your endeavour. Na my fear too, I'm very quiet and I cant imagine the source of my frustration will be waiting for me daily at home.

Career wise 70 %
Social life wise ............. no network


Way still deh sha.

nice one opps. ever since this month started i discovered i'm not always in a good mood, it now down on me that i have not accomplished 60% of my set goals this year. i planned to learn how to drive, learn python programming language, get married and most importantly get another side hustle to augment my income.

Business; 30%
Socially; 0%

SkinnyNigga:
madam go collect your money back.. them no do am well

hahahaha na you dey do am?

Lol... You just busted her

40secondsguy:

Where is the surgery mark...I mean they had to stitch you up right

MissOffpoint:
Business; 30%
Socially; 0%

why the 0% social life na? Is your business taking much of your time?

No goals
I don't play football


I'm like a Fulani man, nothing me concern with tomorrow

My next year goal is marrying Nina4u

01Alpha:
why the 0% social life na? Is your business taking much of your time?

No, it's not. I think there is something wrong with me. Please don't ask how.

Offpoint:
No goals
I don't play football


I'm like a Fulani man, nothing me concern with tomorrow

My next year goal is marrying Nina4u

lol..... Nina4u finally the surgery is paying off

MissOffpoint:


No, it's not. I think there is something wrong with me. Please don't ask how.

There is nothing wrong with you dear, you just need a new circles of friends....

01Alpha:
lol..... Nina4u finally the surgery is paying off

Yeah, I've been looking for a white girl to marry for long

Offpoint:

Yeah, I've been looking for a white girl to marry for long

but what about Missoffpoint ?

I achieved goals set for 2020 in 2019 and I am grateful to GOD.

01Alpha:
but what about Missoffpoint ?

We broke up

MissOffpoint:


We broke up

lol... You don't mean it? Him no dey gree drop money bah

01Alpha:
lol... You don't mean it? Him no dey gree drop money bah

Ask him what happened
As for friends, I don't have any

pcguru1:


Wow what you've written is actually enough, but I often wonder why some wives do that. Anyway only you knows where the shoes pinches. All the best in your endeavour. Na my fear too, I'm very quiet and I cant imagine the source of my frustration will be waiting for me daily at home.

The Money is not even an issue but that she's too Frivolous, there was a time she said she wants to open a bakery I bought Industrial mixer and Oven for her, she Abandoned them when I put it up here sometime ago that I want to give them out I told her someone is coming to carry them she went ballistic on me, She doesn't Cook oo we have maids, When those ones go home in the weekends, to Warm food that's has already been cooked is trouble I'll do it myself and she'll now ask me why I didn't warm food for her to eat as if I know what she'll eat When her sisters come to our house, I don't use the sitting room, I go to my room, because they'll be laughing like jackals making all sorts of noise, trash talking men Imagine your wife's sisters indirectly insulting you and she can't defend you? You're Yoruba now you know those banters that women make, Very silly creature.