There is one very beautiful and nice young girl that works in the same plaza I have my office. We have been cool friends for a long time now but I always respected the fact she was in a serious relationship with someone else who she said wants to marry her.
About a month back or so, she told me about some issues she was having with her man and how the guy has refuse to take responsibility as a man. I encouraged her in the best way I could but then after some weeks she had informed me about their breakup and how hard it is for her to accept him back.
At this point we started doing things we normally don't do before like going to the cinema together, going to bars together and stuffs like that. I really started having deeper feelings for this girl because she is just too beautiful, decent, natural and everything I have always wanted in a woman. I also know that somehow she has sort of been attacked to me but then I couldn't tell so manybe I don't go try something that would spoil our friendship.
Fast forward to last weekend, she called me and offered to take me out to chill and that all expenses was on her. I sure wasn't ever going to refuse that offer because not many times you meet girls that would want to do that, even though they know you have the money. I took her to a nice plaze were we had crazy fun and while we were done, I was meant to drop her off at her place but instead she insisted that she would love to know my place. Well the truth was that I was excited in my mind because I know, when my neighbors who have never seen me bring a woman to my apartment before, see this girl they will cut cap for me say I get better eyes lol.
I told her it would be quite stressful for me to come to my house, go drop her at her place and still come back home but her response really amazed me. She said she can get taxi if need be or she can pass the night in my place if that wasn't going to be a problem for me.
Well we headed to my place and I made her feel comfortable. I showed her the kitchen so she can help herself with anything she wants while I go take a shower. She said she wanted to cook spaghetti since that was the fasted meal available but then she needed to change clothes to something else so I gave her a shirt and a boxers to wear. After I showered, I joined her in the kitchen to play and chat with her and it was fun. When she was done she quickly took a shower, then we ate together and decided to see a movie. There was this movie I was watching called power where Mr St Patrick (Ghost) and that his FBI girlfriend almost turned the movie to porn lol. I just used that movie to fine tune the already romantic atmosphere for anything to happen. We got into the mood and everything was just happening slowly and slowly. It suddenly got a little intense as I saw my hands taking off the boxers she wore and why my head followed immediately with a very good kiss in between those beautiful chocolate thighs lol. However just when I thought everything is now left for my oga in the middle to get to work, she suddenly stopped me and like we see in naija movies when you suddenly started acting as if you didn't know what was happening all along when I didn't use jazz or drugs on you lol.
Well hers was not that bad sha but the thing is she came up clean to tell me she has a problem which she is confused about. She is pregnant for that her ex and the guy has failed to take responsibility for it. She is scared of an abortion and I do not even know the kind of advice to give her. My own problem is that I now have deep feelings for this girl and I really want her as my woman no matter what but my fear is if that ex might just come back one day and beg because of the pregnancy maybe she will have to accept him back.
Please what advice kind you guys help me with in this situation? As it is now I really want to settle down with this girl for real.

The girl has so bound your heart,more than all the ropes in the world put together could bind your hand....enjoy ur LG television.

So you want to take care of another man’s child abi? Also remember that the man will always be in touch with her due to the child she’ll bear for him, and that means they can still fvck each other. Okafor’s law is constant o
So you better walk away to avoid stories that touch.

Please summarize in 3 simple sentences...

this is funny ooh..tht woman is playing a nice game on you... but brother wey mumu no understand

the ex gave got her pregnant while you take care of his unborn child for him while he goes about living his own life and impregnating other girls

your mumu suppose to be in Guinness book of records

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you better throw that feelings crap in the gutter and use your brain..nor turn mugu becos of jon tomos.. this wilp not work move on

you better throw that feelings crap in the gutter and use your brain..nor turn mugu becos of jon tomos

Drop that feeling... It's no-go area, otherwise

It's called emotional manipulation. Don't waste your time bro, women are all like that, After all there are plenty fishes in the sea