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Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by tiswell(m): 8:09am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:You sound rude and bitter,relax
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Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Arijude(m): 8:10am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Ayotemide:" the truth always wins " I like this statement. The husband can only do that for a short period of time before their children turn around to the truth. It won't last so madam relax. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Omofranca(f): 8:18am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Ayotemide: If the facts are indeed as you put it because we haven't heard from the other side, then please take the above advice. No cause for alarm. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by seangy4konji: 8:32am On Dec 17, 2019 |
No man utters those word unless you were rude or usually challenge him or decision....I hate sentiments. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by seangy4konji: 8:33am On Dec 17, 2019 |
tiswell:you deh mind that one .go and read her former post you go know she had. Troubled youth with males. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by tiswell(m): 8:40am On Dec 17, 2019 |
seangy4konji:Raises serious concerns for her future/present life partner. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by toprealman: 8:43am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Both you and your husband deserves some spanking. Even SS3 students that are dating can't behave like you both |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by lawrenzooo: 8:46am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: First and foremost those kids belong to you both. so it should be our children not my Children. Secondly it seems u only started having issues after he failed to call your people when you lost your dad. For whatever reason he did that is best know to him, but whatever the case is, He is inexcusable. Thirdly it appears you are bitter he did not show any concern when u lost your dad and anybody in your shoe should be but you have to realise that bitterness is like a burden the longer it stays in your heart the wearier you become. Let him understand you were not happy he didn't call you people when you lost your dad. As for him telling the kids to insult you, that shouldn't be your problem. Kids generally are observant except and onless you give them a reason to insult you they wouldn't sincerely insult you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by hardon1(m): 9:05am On Dec 17, 2019 |
the man is just wasting his time, unless he wants to be the woman of the house and do ll house chores and home keeping. it is easier for a woman to poison the heart of the children against their father than for a man to do same against their mother provided the woman remains a good mother to the kids, she should not be worried, no amount of brainwashing or mind poisoning will work, provided she remains good. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 9:08am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: Challenge him too now! No be only him know how to challenge. But before you challenge him , take 3 bottle of alomo gin and some other gin that can make you high and see if he will not respect you. Don't forget to thank me later if it work. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 9:11am On Dec 17, 2019 |
hardon1: My broda, nobody have the Monopoly of madness. Afterall, a lot of marriage is a ruse. Avoid marriage and stay peacefully. I have tried it and it works. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by best11925: 10:20am On Dec 17, 2019 |
i dnt tink u are right is 50/50 some situation is not as u ve said. Larryfest: |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by best11925: 10:22am On Dec 17, 2019 |
madam just do ur Best ur Kids will always look back and appreciate ur love if it is real. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Edge1(m): 10:29am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Exactly same way you all disappear or shut down your sense of reasoning when it's a man stating his plight with his wife. There's a thread on fp that showed a married woman stuck with another man. Did you drop a comment there? This life is a pot of beans. Now you can disappear. Awon feminist. Rubbish
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Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by rafkollinz: 10:45am On Dec 17, 2019 |
I'm thanking God 4 ya Life ma dear 6ta. Can u do mi a favour, if u can kneel down 4 ya pastor to respect him, ma dear knee down 4 him, beg, romantic him let him feel superior ova u, let him no dt his is in 2nd command aside from God. Nothing is there, jux to make peace reign in ur life. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Clinghton: 11:21am On Dec 17, 2019 |
raise your children well so that their minds can't be poisoned |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by petjery(m): 11:28am On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: Your parents have no right to meddle into your family issue in as far it is not a life threatening situation, starting your marriage on a wrong note is not good for the family. Your husband obviously have hatred for your parents and that is not good for him and for your family, pray for him and talk with him, abi he doesnot go to Church and have not been listening to messages on forgiveness - only the devil cannot forgive! All the best |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by abusurv(m): 12:17pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:This is misleading, there can never be two driver in the same car. What you are calling for is divorcing. Blessed are the peace maker ...... |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by dasparrow: 2:45pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
It is a well known fact that most Nigerian married women are treated like trash in their marriages. The average African man lacks love, compassion and empathy. So, if you choose to marry an African-bred man, you better educate yourself on what you're getting yourself into. My 2 cents. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by appreciate001: 2:52pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
I know of a close relative who has a man like yours. Such men hardly love deeply, they always find it very difficult to forgive not to talk of to forget. When they notice that you are investing in your children to have a future, they tend to use them against you because they have the means. My advice, don't leave your children for any reason. Even if they are used against you at one time or the other, getting annoyed or revenge won't solve the problem but always be good, strong and forgive for family sake. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Prognose: 3:01pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: @bold, This may not be how your husband sees it. Some ladies think that they are living the perfect marriage meanwhile they have browbeaten their husbands into living life under thier (ladies) terms. The man may be secretly frustrated but he won't talk until it all boils over into utterances like this. If you have never had any issues with him etc etc then why was he not sympathetic to your father's death. Something isnt right and hasn't been right for a long time. I'm not saying it's your fault. It depends on the kind of man you married esp if he's the quiet kind. Have a private chat with him and ask him where you have offended him in the marriage. He will say nothing but persist until he tells you his mind. You will be VERY surprised. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Prognose: 3:08pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
crackhaus: Exactly. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Prognose: 3:14pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
ebyjoyken: So you left a lot of things unsaid in your initial story. How do you expect a mature unbiased response? Anyway, let me finish reading. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Insectkiller: 4:45pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
I presume d picture u tried to paint is incomplete.. So I don't know how I will advice you.. |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by BRATISLAVA: 4:49pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Graxie:I think I know the "woman". Though that person is either brainwashed, a slave in her marriage or actually a man. She and the crack addict and the man with his red pills are from the same camp. They excuse anything wrong and try to hear the other side, then turn it on the victim while claiming to be digging for info. When all info is tabled, it will somehow be there victims fault. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 5:12pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
2chukwu:this is the sort of things you start when you serve 2 gods |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 5:14pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
vickydankal:You are the only person with sense in this thread thank you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by Nobody: 10:05pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Some men are just terrible! I know a man like that, he talks to the wife anyhow. They can't even gist in the house normally because he curses her at the slightest provocation. She can't even ask a simple question without being insulted. So the woman keeps quiet, she serves his meals and does what she's supposed to do in the house and that is where their interaction ends. The man is just like the poster, some weeks ago, he told his 5 year old daughter that " can't you see that your mother is sick?". Can you imagine the nonsense? He has graduated from insulting and cursing his wife Infront of the kids, now he's involving them. Poster, just keep being a good mother to your kids and keep praying for them. I wonder Who raised these men to behave like animals... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by crunchyg: 12:07am On Dec 18, 2019 |
tchidi066:You dont need to be scared, I can treat you like a queen if you will give me the chance |
Re: My Husband Said He Will Raise My Kids To Challenge Me And Be Rude To Me. by NiRfreak(m): 10:57pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
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