Amateur advice everywhere, bros, go to a pharmacist and tell them to give you virginity drugs.
It's used to test for virgins.

If she swallows it and didn't throw up, then she's saying the truth, else... Na you go complete am.

Victoronah1:
Hello, please I will make it brief.
We have been dating for 2 years however I was in a private school, I just finished. She always tells me she is a virgin, anytime we romance. I said okay fine. I endured for 2 years, so we planned on how to have sex this year, cause she said she will do it with me that she loves me enough. So I brought out 15k huge money this Buhari regime, booked hotel just a night. And used the other 5k for ice creams, she came and after some romance, we tried having sex and she was screaming, her legs where vibrating. At a time I had to stop.But she insisted I continue, but after my dick entered, I did not see any blood at all. I don't know if it was tight cause she didn't want to spread her legs properly,claiming she is having pain, infact this is a lady I really want to marry, but I noticed 2 things
She didn't bleed even till today and it's still getting me scared, I know not all girls bleed, that's why this one is not really shaking me, but the 2 option is
2: I noticed she was very lazy in bed, she can't spread her legs, complaint of pain, she can't do doggy, claiming she is scared. We only had sex yesterday. Now I feel I have been used,lied and betrayed. She has gone to work but I haven't called her yet. I will be frank I love sex, and I don't want to lack sex in my marriage at all. One mind is telling me to still stick to her and try to have sex again and see since she is complaining of pain. But the other is just telling me to quit cause she may be faking everything,the pain and virginity stuff. Also she kept on postponing the sex yesterday, even when she said at night after we go out, we came back and she went to sleep immediately even after spending money to buy Spanish fly, this girl drank it and slept. Please matured guys who have dated or been in this type of relationship please advice me.

You

Yes you
are u a virgin

HELP YOU DO WHAT NOW?

omokoginimi:
can we mate?

Haba...where guys like me dey?

Na woman u wan mate with?

lefulefu:
u talking of our grandmoms who ride long john bicycles to the farm and i am asking if u have seen any young lady who rides a bicycle .abegi lets tell our selves the truth .a girl who cant climb two flight of stairs without panting will now be saying she lost her virginity by doing splits ..splits ke? .i respect a lady who admits what she is than the one who will be lying that she is lost virgin by doing one sort of exercise or the other when i know she is the type of girl who finds it hard to lift up her butt in the morning

Then you haven't travelled out of Lagos then.

In my street you can't buy a bicycle for a boy child without buying for a female child. That was in my street. Now those that didn't have bicycles also rode their friend's bicycles, and they use it to do stunts... This happens almost everywhere.

They even host a stunt competition... I'm bringing this to the city not the village settings where women ride bicycles to the farm.


I'm bringing this up because you have never seen a girl ride bicycle, that's serious. I've seen women do taxis, I've seen girls ride bicycle, motorbikes etc. I've seen women do conductor work. You don't know so don't say what you don't know.

ericsmith:




lol !! dey tell us we know hear .... when yu start living couples life ... sex go tire you. even with a high libido the availability of pvssy go tayar you .. naa because ur woman visit n leaves dey make u value sex like luxury
i don't think any man that can stand a nympho woman, the world is save if a man has high libido buh if it happens to be a woman japaa (run) i was sick hid my in d guest bedroom, my friends told her am sick n not around she search found me n stil mount me like that. it was even on a sunday God 4giv her

mount you lol you be horse

seems like you put too much emphasis on marrying a virgin, so she is trying to play the role of a virgin
enjoy.

You know a real virgin by her mentality, attitude and behaviour, not by whether she bleeds; because those things cannot be faked.

Many women who call themselves virgins and may bleed the 'first time' have done everything imaginable in blue films; except for vaginal penetration; with dozens of different men. If you marry that one as a 'virgin' you're on your own. And many who have never even held hands with a man may have been sexually molested in their childhood, or had one accident or the other and lost their hymens. Yet their modesty and purity of mind remains somewhat.

Charleys:


Then you haven't travelled out of Lagos then.

In my street you can't buy a bicycle for a boy child without buying for a female child. That was in my street. Now those that didn't have bicycles also rode their friend's bicycles, and they use it to do stunts... .

u might be refering to well off parents who belong to the elite bracket who buy kiddies tricycles for their little kids.how many nigerians fall in this elite bracket given the high poverty level in nigeria.

Charleys:


Then you haven't travelled out of Lagos then.

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nope i am not staying in lagos but i have visited lagos and stayed up to a week there.lagos is just like any other city in naija except a little too over crowded and noisy.with the overbusy schedule lifestyle in lagos i dont even think the average nigerian living there will have that time to take of his health and exercise except if he belongs to the wealthy class.

Charleys:





I've seen women do taxis, I.

yes there are few female taxi drivers i never argued about that.sometimes if u are a single mom and the baby daddy is not ready to do his part u go hustle by force.while i was in benin for example there were women pushing wheelbarrow under the sun selling food.but what i am saying is that exercise routines like biking,mountain climbing,horse riding is quite an alien practice in nigeria among female folks.yes very few might do it but it is not as common as u would see a lady biking or mountain climbing in the western world .

luminouz:






Laugh wan kill me.


She drank Spanish fly and slept off....


Jesu!!!

The O.P is a comedian

lefulefu:
u might be refering to well off parents who belong to the elite bracket who buy kiddies tricycles for their little kids.how many nigerians fall in this elite bracket given the high poverty level in nigeria.

I dont know why you keep arguing with me. Nobody talked about elite parents here.

Do you know there are places you could get a fairly used bicycle for 5k? There are fairly used bicycle everywhere if you want to get one.

About women driving taxis I didn't talk about baby daddy's not being able to provide... I'm talking about a married woman going to the road with her car, do a taxi then give a little money to touts to call passengers.

Guy things are not the say you see it. You need to travel around.

To me she's not

My brother use knife na....

Jewessgratitude:


As if you can solve it��.

My bills! I got bills to pay!

Some women have no shame whatsoever., asking men for money.

Obodo999:


Some women have no shame whatsoever., asking men for money.

na d men wey dey give money to women u go blame nau.why are they giving those women money cos they expect something in return.wen dem no get d thing they will now come out and be wailing .if u no get money to give a woman just tell her i dont have money or i am broke..heaven wont fall nau .

I dont understand y u were giving her Spanish fly?
Pls enlighten me....
Plus y didbubgo with the expectation or a hoe wen ur dealing with a vigin?
My dear u better b calm n know that she doesnt know anything about sex u want to wound somebody's child with doggy...na wa o

Wow. Thanks for all the advice. Let me go and buy lubricant, I will spread her legs properly this time like you people suggested.

luminouz:



Amandaaaaaaaa....

Shuuuuuuu....keep kwayet dia

Yes sir!!
I'm already quiiiet!

Victoronah1:
are you married?

Any suitor for me?

Amanda4life:


Yes sir!!
I'm already quiiiet!

Amanda4life:


Any suitor for me?

Yes...here I am babe

Go and do the needful.

luminouz:


The way you shout sports eh dey baffle me. How many girls dey do cycling and horse riding. Just say she might have lost it pounding yam or fufu.

If only you know how many splits the girls in my dance group and I did then. We used to worry that it would affect something down there because all of us were Vs then. Also the first time I tried to ride a horse on the beach, I has to scream for the rider to stop because it was so painful down there. I was wondering how people manage galloping on a horse.

A lot of things can actually affect the hymen that can lead to explanation that we can't even explain.

ImaIma1:


If only you know how many splits the girls in my dance group and I did then. We used to worry that it would affect something down there because all of us were Vs then. Also the first time I tried to ride a horse on the beach, I has to scream for the rider to stop because it was so painful down there. I was wondering how people manage galloping on a horse.

A lot of things can actually affect the hymen that can lead to explanation that we can't even explain.

Lol...
Most Nigerian girls dont do what you did babe....

Forget about her bleeding, only her reaction during the sex will prove that she's a virgin

She will feel pain
Will barely allow you to penetrate her and at the same time won't let you stop.
She will ask so many naive questions.

Will be scared of pregnancy and Will be ashamed to walk into a pharmacy and get a pill (of course she wouldn't know what pill to buy)
She doesn't know anything about infection and treatment (if she lives in a clean environment)
She will start liking sex
And the list goes on...

luminouz:

Lol...
Most Nigerian girls dont do what you did babe....

You aren't sure about that. There are so many dancers, athletes, etc. I am not talking about those who lost it having sex. My 2 year old daughter did a full split yesterday and it got me thinking.

Not every woman will bleed the first time she engages in intercourse. This doesn't mean she's not a virgin nor does it mean she's ever even been penetrated. The simple act of playing sports can tear the hymen, it can come apart on its own over time, some women never had one....

https://www.ourbodiesourselves.org/2008/12/the-hymen-breaking-the-myths/

ImaIma1:


You aren't sure about that. There are so many dancers, athletes, etc. I am not talking about those who lost it having sex. My 2 year old daughter did a full split yesterday and it got me thinking.

loool...
I'm in the education and sports sectors,so I'm pretty sure.

Jewessgratitude:


If you know how hard I'm *retraining* myself from tongue-lashing you ehn.. You will just delete this rubbish post.

Mtchewww....

Restraining ma'am restraining

fattprince:

Restraining ma'am restraining

You should know its typo. Most time I get tired correcting these things.

Thanks.