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Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 11:40am On Dec 18, 2019
Hi Friends, I'm 26.There is this girl that is interested in me,She was my Elder Brother's Girlfriend & She left my Brother after she found out that he has two kids from another woman, after that day she requested to see me somewhere & I honoured her invitation when I got there she complaints & cried about the incident & what I did was just to console & advice her, since that day she started calling me almost every-day. I asked her if she's now interested in me just to retaliate but her respond was No that she like me & our family especially my mum. Though I like her too but the problem is that I can't even take her to my compound bc my people has already saw her with my elder brother before ...PLEASE ADVICE NEEDED

Thanks!
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by dawnomike(m): 11:42am On Dec 18, 2019
Dating her is wrong... Well, except your brother is ok wit it though.
But o dikwa very dangerous!

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Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Nobody: 11:44am On Dec 18, 2019
No
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Smilgler(m): 11:48am On Dec 18, 2019
Rrchrd:
She left my brother after she found out that he has two kids from another woman

i can't do such a tin, is a tabboo, i dedicate dis front page to my gee, hapy birthday correct guy

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Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by mechanics(m): 11:54am On Dec 18, 2019
It depends, if I love her since she was not married to him, there is nothing wrong for me to date her.
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 12:12pm On Dec 18, 2019
dawnomike:
Dating her is wrong... Well, except your brother is ok wit it though.
But o dikwa very dangerous!
My bros isn't even aware of it
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by luvlyoracle(m): 12:20pm On Dec 18, 2019
Rrchrd:
Hi Friends, I'm 26.There is this girl that is interested in me,She was my Elder Brother's Girlfriend & She left my Brother after she found out that he has two kids from another woman, after that day she requested to see me somewhere & I honoured her invitation when I got there she complaints & cried about the incident & what I did was just to console & advice her, since that day she started calling me almost every-day. I asked her if she's now interested in me just to retaliate but her respond was No that she like me & our family especially my mum. Though I like her too but the problem is that I can't even take her to my compound bc my people has already saw her with my elder brother before ...PLEASE ADVICE NEEDED

Thanks!
You sure she isnt tryna use you to get back at him??
My advice is to know every thing that happened between them both and try to know your brothers view about it.

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Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 12:28pm On Dec 18, 2019
luvlyoracle:
You sure she isnt tryna use you to get back at him??
My advice is to know every thing that happened between them both and try to know your brothers view about it.
No Bro, she's not tryin to use me & gt bk @ my bros, my bros is a freak he has many girlfriends, d grl in question is a nice girl ,she is a nurse & she has been takin care of my mum medically dats y I even gives hears to her
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Nobody: 12:48pm On Dec 18, 2019
There are a million girls around, why your brothers leftovers? She is scheming and manipulative. Your mother is nice, so are millions of other mothers. Give yourself some respect and go find your own woman. Don't let any female ever manipulate you into a relationship, it never ends well. Be warned.
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by flexyebe(m): 3:28pm On Dec 18, 2019
Rrchrd:

No Bro, she's not tryin to use me & gt bk @ my bros, my bros is a freak he has many girlfriends, d grl in question is a nice girl ,she is a nurse & she has been takin care of my mum medically dats y I even gives hears to her

See you don already make up ur mind to date d gal why bothering us,u no even get small respect for ur elder brother d trips him former Gf,u no even understand dis life self dat gal fit use u finish ur brother, she d play u mine game and u d form love.

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Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Monaco2(m): 3:31pm On Dec 18, 2019
Wetin u wan carry her go do for ur compound?!? She said she is not into u, so y are u over thinking things?!? undecided
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 4:47pm On Dec 18, 2019
Gaggi:
There are a million girls around, why your brothers leftovers? She is scheming and manipulative. Your mother is nice, so are millions of other mothers. Give yourself some respect and go find your own woman. Don't let any female ever manipulate you into a relationship, it never ends well. Be warned.
Nice advice bro u made some point here & I gat ur points... thanks!
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by lefulefu2(m): 4:50pm On Dec 18, 2019
after dating u and u two breakup maybe na ur younger brother she go begin date

Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 4:51pm On Dec 18, 2019
Monaco2:
Wetin u wan carry her go do for ur compound?!? She said she is not into u, so y are u over thinking things?!? undecided
Not as if am over thinking nor falling for her or even want her to be into me, she's d one dat even makin me to start having interest in here & bc of her cares towards my mum
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 4:59pm On Dec 18, 2019
flexyebe:


See you don already make up ur mind to date d gal why bothering us,u no even get small respect for ur elder brother d trips him former Gf,u no even understand dis life self dat gal fit use u finish ur brother, she d play u mine game and u d form love.
am not forming love dear ,am not a kid & am not a jjc. its only her behaviour dat makes me to like her so I never make up my mind to date her bc dat just gonna demote me if my people finds out & it gonna make me feel cheap also
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Monaco2(m): 5:14pm On Dec 18, 2019
Rrchrd:

Not as if am over thinking nor falling for her or even want her to be into me, she's d one dat even makin me to start having interest in here & bc of her cares towards my mum


Just leave it on a friendship level
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by ebenezary(m): 5:24pm On Dec 18, 2019
This is revenge match and it will be working that the Anthony Joshua and his opponents
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by internationalman(m): 5:44pm On Dec 18, 2019
Gaggi:
There are a million girls around, why your brothers leftovers? She is scheming and manipulative. Your mother is nice, so are millions of other mothers. Give yourself some respect and go find your own woman. Don't let any female ever manipulate you into a relationship, it never ends well. Be warned.
there's nothing like manipulation here.

you can't predict or choose where you find love.

as for me i could care less about who's dating or married to my ex.

they can even be fûcking her in my present for all i care.

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Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 7:28am On Dec 19, 2019
Monaco2:



Just leave it on a friendship level

Alright! bro bhut wht if she want bleep
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Monaco2(m): 10:00am On Dec 19, 2019
Rrchrd:

Alright! bro bhut wht if she want bleep


It’s tempting o but look at it this way, girls don’t usually sleep with guys for no reason, from wat u said she is probably the type of girl that won’t sex u without emotional attachment n if u eventually have ur way with her, she starts to profess love to u... do U think it’s right to date ur brothers ex?!? Aw will ur brother n the rest of ur family feel about it, now tell me this can u take a girl that ur brother has had sex with serious?!? Knowing fully well she was just a toy to ur brother

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Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by omofranyoung(m): 10:12am On Dec 19, 2019
OP something dey worry ur head.....
Bleep if u want Bleep but don't take her serious.
Don't bring tonur family house no matter how sweet the pussy.
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 5:16pm On Dec 19, 2019
omofranyoung:
OP something dey worry ur head.....
Bleep if u want Bleep but don't take her serious.
Don't bring tonur family house no matter how sweet the pussy.
I heard u I might not even bleep her bc I feel like to advice her to move on wit a beta man & we r not even in d same state
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 5:22pm On Dec 19, 2019
Monaco2:



It’s tempting o but look at it this way, girls don’t usually sleep with guys for no reason, from wat u said she is probably the type of girl that won’t sex u without emotional attachment n br u eventually have ur way with her, she starts to profess love to u... do U think it’s right to date ur brothers ex?!? Aw will ur brother n the rest of ur family feel about it, now tell me this can u take a girl that ur brother has had sex with serious?!? Knowing fully well she was just a toy to ur brother
dats just it bro " I can't take her serious " & I will feel demoted if I bleep her, but I don't think I will bleep her bc she's a nice girl so I will advice her to pray & wait for a good man, I don't like to used & dump

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Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Nobody: 5:32pm On Dec 19, 2019
Gaggi:
There are a million girls around, why your brothers leftovers? She is scheming and manipulative. Your mother is nice, so are millions of other mothers. Give yourself some respect and go find your own woman. Don't let any female ever manipulate you into a relationship, it never ends well. Be warned.

He should go get another left over somewhere else and not his brother's. Hahaha leftovers everywhere. grin

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Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 6:17pm On Dec 19, 2019
Iloveu2:


He should go get another left over somewhere else and not his brother's. Hahaha leftovers everywhere. grin
Very hard to differentiate them, may God help us

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Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by romenna: 7:06pm On Dec 19, 2019
U can smash but u shud not marry her.
Dnt be dick head.

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Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Nobody: 10:47pm On Dec 19, 2019
flexyebe:


See you don already make up ur mind to date d gal why bothering us,u no even get small respect for ur elder brother d trips him former Gf,u no even understand dis life self dat gal fit use u finish ur brother, she d play u mine game and u d form love.
Gbam!
What our bro doesn't know is like as a snake sets a trap for it's prey, a scorned or revenge oriented lady will do more.

She can bid her time, she's out for a mission and she won't care if it takes ten years before she strikes.

There's also the possibility that she's still in love with the elder brother and she needs the OP to stay close to the family. If this is the case, she will cheat with him against OP, his eventual emotions at the moment will become venomous at the end because it will tear the family apart. This also is still another proof that she may be out to destroy the family, and your mom for calling her sweet names and letting her fall more in love with your bro is not left out if she's coming for revenge. All she needs is an opening, and you perfectly fits such position.
Re: Can You Date Your Elder Brother's Ex-girlfriend by Rrchrd(m): 3:42pm On Dec 20, 2019
kingkakaone:

Gbam!
What our bro doesn't know is like that as an snake sets a trap for it's pretty, a scorned or revenge oriented lady will do more.

She can bid her time, she's out for a mission and she won't care itpf it takes a ten years before she strikes.

There's also the possibility that she's still in love with the elder brother and she needs the OP to stay close to the family. If this is the case, she will cheat with him against OP, his eventual emotions at the moment will become venomous at the end because it will tear the family apart. This also is still another proof that she may be out to destroy the family, and your mom for calling her sweet names and letting her fall more in love with your bro is not left out if she's coming for revenge. All she needs is an opening, and you perfectly fits such position.

this sound as a #Fact, maybe I should not succumb to her damp squib

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