Adekunle550:
Good evening N.landers
I'm very confused at the moment, I dont know what to do regarding this, that's why I neyed all your advice.
I returned from school by October this year for holidays and fell in love with this girl that works in our shop. Yes! She's our sales girl: I didn't know that they dated but my bro always told me that I should never talk to her that she pretends to be good. I tried to ignore her for a day, I succeeded For a day but couldn't continue. We became very good friends that my mum started jokingly started calling us couples. I'm 20 and she's 17...
My bro took advantage of her, deflowered her and dumped her. That's what she told me and I confirmed it from my Bro.
We had our first date yesterday, Sunday. Where I told her I don't intend taking over my father's business, (I don't intend trading for the rest of my life) and I am willing to drop 100% for my elder bro. She was happy about it
I'm willing to go a long way as far as spending the rest of my life with her but my brother have started texting her, professing his love for her but she told him that shes in love with me already. My bro have started snubbing me at the moment...
I'm very confused and I really need your advice On this matter

Mizk:
First off, don't listen to whatever your brother told you about her, he's just bitter and the bitterness will make him say all sorts of demeaning stuff about her, i am not judging but your bro is an a**, going ahead to text her and proffessing love when he has done all the damage to her person and slandered her before you? What a b!tch a** guy.

Secondly i hope you know that this will cause a rift between you and your brother if you go through with it? Make sure the girl is not a confused girl, there's a possibility she'll still run to him because well he was her first, they'll always be this connection and emotions anytime she thinks about him, its cool if you can live with the thought of your brother having consensual sex with your wife when you're away.

Lastly, the girl is kinda stupid, no offense, how can you sh*t where you eat? Then still lack the decency to reject your advances considering the fact that there's an indelible memory between her and your brother, she shouldn't have dated any of you, thats her only mistake, i mean how is she even able to be around you people is a mystery.

Fash20:
Your brother nak d girl, you self wan nam your own...

GOFRONT:
If I say that girl get fish brain now, people go say I wucked

Adekunle550:
he didn't love her, I do. I know what love is

Adekunle550:
You dropped facts but I wouldn't blame her for staying up till now. She's planning to leave next month for school.
I'm really not comfortable with the fact that this could cause a rift between me and my bro but it's a sacrifice I'm willing to take. I'm not even thinking of having sex with her, I just don't think I'll find someone who'll love me like she does. I don't want to lose her

Fash20:


All the best ,respect your brother and follow your heart.
Cheers

Mizk:
Yea i understand where you're going with this, but just know you'll be forced to choose between loosing her and loosing your brother, just make sure she's worth the sacrifice.

Nasri100:
She’s 17 so I don’t buy this line

“My bro took advantage of her, deflowered her and dumped her.”

IMO, It’s all an agenda to fit her own side of the story.

Maybe you should have a one on one with your brother mate and talk to him about it. Hear his own side of the story too.

Don’t spoil brotherhood for a girl that is still exploring.

ChopBellefull:
OP just keep studying ehn.. Small pikin still dey worry all of una, trust me 5-10 years frm now u ll remember ds post am laugh..
U intend going far to spend d rest of ur life wit her, jst taste da honey hole and watch hw ur behaviour to her ll b worse dan dat of ur brother... Just tak ur own round andleave

Adekunle550:
Good evening N.landers
I'm very confused at the moment, I dont know what to do regarding this, that's why I neyed all your advice.
I returned from school by October this year for holidays and fell in love with this girl that works in our shop. Yes! She's our sales girl: I didn't know that they dated but my bro always told me that I should never talk to her that she pretends to be good. I tried to ignore her for a day, I succeeded For a day but couldn't continue. We became very good friends that my mum started jokingly started calling us couples. I'm 20 and she's 17...
My bro took advantage of her, deflowered her and dumped her. That's what she told me and I confirmed it from my Bro.
We had our first date yesterday, Sunday. Where I told her I don't intend taking over my father's business, (I don't intend trading for the rest of my life) and I am willing to drop 100% for my elder bro. She was happy about it
I'm willing to go a long way as far as spending the rest of my life with her but my brother have started texting her, professing his love for her but she told him that shes in love with me already. My bro have started snubbing me at the moment...
I'm very confused and I really need your advice On this matter

Adekunle550:
You dropped facts but I wouldn't blame her for staying up till now. She's planning to leave next month for school.
I'm really not comfortable with the fact that this could cause a rift between me and my bro but it's a sacrifice I'm willing to take. I'm not even thinking of having sex with her, I just don't think I'll find someone who'll love me like she does. I don't want to lose her

martfrank:
You are 20 and you are in LOVE. My fren you don't know what love is, just sign register and go. 2 years from you will remember this your post and laff about it. just face your studies.

Biglittlelois:
How someone can date/fvck his/her brother's/sister's or friend's ex is just beyond me