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Is abortion on 13years old normal? by dosht(f): 7:57am On Dec 23, 2019
I'm so sad here right now. This incident happened somewhere in my area last week Saturday. According to the child last words, she said the boy(her cousin) raped her when she was babysitting her younger ones and threatened her not to tell anyone or else he will stab her to death.

How did the mother know? It was an outsider that joke that I hope you're not pregnant this one your Tommy's bulging out. Long story cut short the father said he doesn't want to see the mother so the mother travelled to her home town some days later we heard the daughter demise. But the mother is still denying it till tomorrow that she didn't do abortion for her.

The boy's on the run now. They want to treat the case as family issue.

As a mother or father will you keep the pregnancy or abort? Let's hear your view
Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by dosht(f): 7:59am On Dec 23, 2019
Let me tag some people here
Thorpido
Zaynie
Iomoge2
Cococandy
Healthserve
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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by popsy2(m): 7:59am On Dec 23, 2019
Hmmm. On medical grounds, yes.

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by falcon01: 8:02am On Dec 23, 2019
Abortion is a confusing topic especially in a Minor, different people have different depending on how it will psychologically affect the girl since she is not matured enough to make her own decisions. With that said I believe I don't have the required experience to answer this question.
Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by Blakjewelry(m): 8:07am On Dec 23, 2019
I don't think she died because of her age rather maybe the method used probably some local concoction

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by cococandy(f): 8:07am On Dec 23, 2019
Children shouldn’t be having children.
Best is prevention of course.
But if we are in a situation where talking of prevention is flogging a dead horse, yes I would opt for an abortion.

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by Nobody: 8:16am On Dec 23, 2019
One of the reasons why abortion must be legal. If it isn't, it will be done anyway under dangerous circumstances.

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by cococandy(f): 8:17am On Dec 23, 2019
Mindfulness:
One of the reasons why abortion must be legal. If it isn't, it will be done anyway under dangerous circumstances.

Legal abortion is important healthcare for women and female children.

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by Nobody: 8:17am On Dec 23, 2019
cococandy:


Legal abortion is important healthcare for women and female children.

Absolutely!

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by cococandy(f): 8:18am On Dec 23, 2019
Blakjewelry:
I don't think she died because of her age rather maybe the method used probably some local concoction

True.

She had a bigger chance of dying from carrying the pregnancy to term and delivering it.

Everyone failed her.

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by thorpido(m): 8:28am On Dec 23, 2019
A child shouldn't be having children like Cococandy said so in this case the foetus will be aborted(though I'm not pro-abortion).
As to the Op's story,why do a lot of men handle issues badly?Send the wife away with the child and now the daughter's dead and the marriage probably gone.
The responsibility is for both of you.
Anyway,they say a good child belongs to the father,the bad one belongs to the mother.smh

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by ResidentSlut(f): 8:38am On Dec 23, 2019
thorpido:
A child shouldn't be having children like Cococandy said so in this case the foetus will be aborted(though I'm not pro-abortion).

That’s also called being pro abortion.

Abortion should only be used when necessary but not as a birth control method. So if you support it in this type of instance, it means you’re pro abortion.

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by thorpido(m): 8:44am On Dec 23, 2019
ResidentSlut:


That’s also called being pro abortion.

Abortion should only be used when necessary but not as a birth control method. So if you support it in this type of instance, it means you’re pro abortion.
Lol,there are exceptions.In this case the pregnancy can affect the health of the child.She is at risk of VVF and other issues.
Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by ResidentSlut(f): 8:47am On Dec 23, 2019
thorpido:
Lol,there are exceptions.In this case the pregnancy can affect the health of the child.She is at risk of VVF and other issues.

That’s exactly why being pro abortion is a good thing.
Being pro abortion doesn’t mean that the person supports abortion for every pregnancy. It means one can apply reasoning when needed instead of being blindly conservative about it.

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by thorpido(m): 8:53am On Dec 23, 2019
ResidentSlut:


That’s exactly why being pro abortion is a good thing.
Being pro abortion doesn’t mean that the person supports abortion for every pregnancy. It means one can apply reasoning when needed instead of being blindly conservative about it.

True.

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by zaynie(f): 9:00am On Dec 23, 2019
dosht:
Let me tag some people here

Etc


I can and I will.
Rather than put my child through the pains of labour, the challenges of motherhood, postpartum depression, possibly fistula.
At 13,she's too young for that.
Maybe 16/18,i could let her have the baby but not at 13.


I'll go a step further and murder the boy. He can run to the ends of the earth. It might take me a thousand years but his death will be from my hands.

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by dosht(f): 9:07am On Dec 23, 2019
zaynie:



I can and I will.
Rather than put my child through the pains of labour, the challenges of motherhood, postpartum depression, possibly fistula.
At 13,she's too young for that.
Maybe 16/18,i could let her have the baby but not at 13.


I'll go a step further and murder the boy. He can run to the ends of the earth. It might take me a thousand years but his death will be from my hands.

But is that child not too young for abortion?

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by dosht(f): 9:10am On Dec 23, 2019
Mindfulness:
One of the reasons why abortion must be legal. If it isn't, it will be done anyway under dangerous circumstances.
That's it. I'm sure it was not done the proper way.
Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by dosht(f): 9:10am On Dec 23, 2019
Blakjewelry:
I don't think she died because of her age rather maybe the method used probably some local concoction
I suspect so too
Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by Nobody: 9:13am On Dec 23, 2019
angry
Fvck family matter, i would murder the boy that committed the incest on open play ground before everyone. ...I can't imagine the pain of fathering a Child up to the age of 13 only for one mad cousin to take advantage of her.. We die together

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by dosht(f): 9:40am On Dec 23, 2019
NyenwePHC:
angry
Fvck family matter, i would murder the boy that committed the incest on open play ground before everyone. ...I can't imagine the pain of fathering a Child up to the age of 13 only for one mad cousin to take advantage of her.. We die together

This boy we're talking here's 14 years old too and I've promised my self if I see him within my vicinity, I'll make sure I break is head or two legs

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by madridguy(m): 9:59am On Dec 23, 2019
Are you sure the late girl was raped? To me if she's truly raped she would have tells her mother, or father about the useless boy act.
I guess they both agreed to do daddy and mummy before the matter get k.leg.

Las las i blame the girl parents especially her father for not managing the issue very well.
Rip to the young girl.

dosht:


This boy we're talking here's 14 years old too and I've promised my self if I see him within my vicinity, I'll make sure I break is head or two legs

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by zaynie(f): 10:38am On Dec 23, 2019
dosht:


But is that child not too young for abortion?

She's young for abortion and motherhood.
I'll take the one she can with time get over.

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by Macsjebs(m): 10:38am On Dec 23, 2019
Yeah, when the pregnancy is still in its early stage...if not, odikwa risky

Just let her have the baby, childbirth is equally risky and painful for that age, but less risky than late abortion
Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by Nobody: 10:45am On Dec 23, 2019
NyenwePHC:
angry
Fvck family matter, i would murder the boy that committed the incest on open play ground before everyone. ...I can't imagine the pain of fathering a Child up to the age of 13 only for one mad cousin to take advantage of her.. We die together

You would cause another tragedy on top of a tragedy which would make matters worse for you and your family. I don't know how murdering someone and killing yourself in the course of it would help your daughter or wife. It would however cause them more grief.
Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by dosht(f): 10:58am On Dec 23, 2019
madridguy:
Are you sure the late girl was raped? To me if she's truly raped she would have tells her mother, or father about the useless boy act.
I guess they both agreed to do daddy and mummy before the matter get k.leg.

Las las i blame the girl parents especially her father for not managing the issue very well.
Rip to the young girl.

That boy nearly raped a girl,sometimes like,that. He tore the girl's cloth with a razor. One thing is they're not ready to speak out. What saved that girl's wearing a jeans trousers. Can this boy be arrested?
Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by dosht(f): 10:59am On Dec 23, 2019
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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by Nobody: 11:04am On Dec 23, 2019
If the tummy was already bulging, then the pregnancy was probably past 1st trimester and abortion is risky at that stage.She would only carry the pregnancy to term as a last resort.
Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by sisisioge: 11:16am On Dec 23, 2019
dosht:
I'm so sad here right now. This incident happened somewhere in my area last week Saturday. According to the child last words, she said the boy(her cousin) raped her when she was babysitting her younger ones and threatened her not to tell anyone or else he will stab her to death.

How did the mother know? It was an outsider that joke that I hope you're not pregnant this one your Tommy's bulging out. Long story cut short the father said he doesn't want to see the mother so the mother travelled to her home town some days later we heard the daughter demise. But the mother is still denying it till tomorrow that she didn't do abortion for her.

The boy's on the run now. They want to treat the case as family issue.

As a mother or father will you keep the pregnancy or abort? Let's hear your view

Wow! What a tragedy!

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by madridguy(m): 1:20pm On Dec 23, 2019
The boy is already a threat to the society. Sure he can be arrested and prosecuted.

dosht:

That boy nearly raped a girl,sometimes like,that. He tore the girl's cloth with a razor. One thing is they're not ready to speak out. What saved that girl's wearing a jeans trousers. Can this boy be arrested?
Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by Katier00(f): 2:04pm On Dec 23, 2019
Parenting is team work, why send the mother away? This should serve as a lesson to all of us. Both the father and the mother has a role to play in ensuring that their children don't drift away. Now the little girl is dead

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Re: Is abortion on 13years old normal? by dosht(f): 3:03pm On Dec 23, 2019
Macsjebs:
Yeah, when the pregnancy is still in its early stage...if not, odikwa risky

Just let her have the baby, childbirth is equally risky and painful for that age, but less risky than late abortion
I forgot to add. She was five months gone

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