Hello nairalanders, need your opinions on this. I met this girl at a friend's place somewhat around August this year. Truth is, I love her dearly but her attitudes is pissing me off. Is it normal for a lady to claim to love someone and still be ignoring your messages on social media after reading them? I will send her message in the morning, she will read it and decide not to reply until late in the evening. Mind you, she is on holiday. It's as if she is busy with anything. I hate being ignored, I hate it with passion. Pls help I need your opinions on this.

They are people like that bro , she might prefer calling to chatting, my girlfriend complains about this too but I had to explain to her but now am trying to adjust badly.

Perhaps she doesn't know how to read, and has to get someone to read and type a response for her.

Or you don't actually mean anything to her

Hmmmmm...........

Hozil92:
Hello nairalanders, need your opinions on this. I met this girl at a friend's place somewhat around August this year. Truth is, I love her dearly but her attitudes is pissing me off. Is it normal for a lady to claim to love someone and still be ignoring your messages on social media after reading them? I will send her message in the morning, she will read it and decide not to reply until late in the evening. Mind you, she is on holiday. It's as if she is busy with anything. I hate being ignored, I hate it with passion. Pls help I need your opinions on this.

It is not normal. Actually it is a clear sign that she doesn’t look forward to your company. If you continue on this path, you are heading for a spectacular, debilitating heartbreak.

Better switch gears and focus more on yourself. If a babe wants you, you won’t be in doubt. She will show you. Any girl that is still playing hard to get or playing dumb and uninterested, is simply not into you.

Ummhmm it seems like she she she..........ooh! I just forgot what I wanted to tell you

You should simply ask her why she does that, her reason and the nature of her response should form the basis for your next decision. For now, you shouldn't be worried.

GeniusWannabe:
You should simply ask her why she does that, her reason and the nature of her response should form the basis for your next decision. For now, you shouldn't be worried.

I've asked her multiple times. All she says is that she will adjust. The same thing happens every now and then

I dont know if its only me though.....but the moment i text u and u read my text without giving me a reply.......u so gone,i mean so far gone no matter how much u mean to me.........there aint no way u claim to love someone genuinely and then ignore their texts....it doesnt even make sense to start with.

Hozil92:
I've asked her multiple times. All she says is that she will adjust. The same thing happens every now and then

She should have a reason.
Is it that she spends less time online, or she sees your messages, chooses to ignore and remains online?

Mehn!!!!!
Don't try shit with me. If you dont wanna reply then don't open at all. The worst part i s after opening the msg and ignoring successfuly they'll go ahead updating status.

I can tell you that girl is not into you.
You're just one of the numerous guys disturbing her.

nuelsam:
I dont know if its only me though.....but the moment i text u and u read my text without giving me a reply.......u so gone,i mean so far gone no matter how much u mean to me.........there aint no way u claim to love someone genuinely and then ignore their texts....it doesnt even make sense to start with.

Sometimes, you don't know how to respond. Time goes on, then you forget someone sent you a text. When you decide to send them a message, you'd realize you had left their messages unattended to. It happens like that, it's not necessarily a love thing.

Someone else has her attention, find out if she is seeing someone else

GeniusWannabe:

Sometimes, you don't know how to respond. Time goes on, then you forget someone sent you a text. When you decide to send them a message, you'd realize you had left their messages unattended to. It happens like that, it's not necessarily a love thing.

well uve got a point but its just part of me now, ive got a high self esteem....

She obviously don't have your time. Don't ever beg for love in a relationship.