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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by aysuprano(m): 6:36pm On Dec 31, 2019
Lamanii22:



Me too... It's disheartening..

We will be fine, man no die man no rotten

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by aysuprano(m): 6:37pm On Dec 31, 2019
ayomilore:


Sorry bro.
Pray to

Thanks boss
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by missyojo(f): 6:52pm On Dec 31, 2019
So many sad stories on this thread. I had a teary eye reading through all the comments from page 1-21.
May God comfort all those who lost loved ones.
Happy new year to you all in advance.


Cheers!!!
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Prinxxdave(m): 6:57pm On Dec 31, 2019
lost my mom
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Akoja360(m): 7:06pm On Dec 31, 2019
$2600.
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by ymstar(m): 7:16pm On Dec 31, 2019
Realtalk20:


Amen bro, it was like a Hollywood movie

Like being moved from first class to economy class in the twinkling of an eye

And the sad thing is , it wasn't God that did it, it was all me, I wanted to fast track to the next level, I had everything others dream.of but was never satisfied.

Moral of the story is , sometimes contentment isn't such a bad thing..

I should have done my wedding and maybe I wouldn't have had enough to follow through with this hence being saved from the worst night mare a man can have

I should have listened to her , sometimes women we what we don't see

Anyways it's all good

She had a miscarriage due to the whole stress and all , that also added to us ending everything. Sometimes a couple going through tough times together doesn't make them closer sometimes it splits them up.

Omo this year was a year I would rather forget
I learned a lot from your write up, and more so, it's not your fault, don't blame urself pls, u did what you think would propel u Na, abeg no blame, I av dis feeling dat u will bounce back, 2020 will be a very ecstatic year for you, me wey dey talk self Na real hustler, tutor, caterer and comp. engineer, I just hate poverty with passion and I try to help pple according to my ability, and what of wifey? Has she come back? Just try and plead with her, stay blessed

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by luluosas(m): 7:18pm On Dec 31, 2019
I feel your pain brother. But thank God that you are alive. You will recover all by the grace of God
Realtalk20:


My dear I wait and contemplated suicide several times grin

I hit rock bottom bro , imagination can't even begin to

I quit my job with so much gusto based on this
Liquidated everything I owned after sending all the money they needed even for Lufthansa first class ticket or so they sent me. grin

I just dey ball around Lagos telling all my friends we should have on last hoorah before I relocate permanently

It was a five year work contract wages etc calculated fully plus allowances , I could bring my fiancee , after 6 months , men I was already imagining how our kids would be citizens and how they would thank me for not giving birth to them in Nigeria

I was just dashing property left right center feeling.funky like a Hollywood santa Claus grin

That's how I lost everything bro

From living in push Abuja to nothing grin

It's at this point you realize friendship is overrated

The friends I put up with from Abuja to Lagos each milked me for money while I was staying with them till I couldn't put up with it ..

This was how I moved from Abuja to three different locations in Lagos

Till I had no where to stay in Lagos , because excuses where either my wife's family is around or my sibblings came to visit or our home is too small

This isn't a joke bro .. brothers mostly resided outside Lagos and I didn't want to go back to Abuja out of shame and besides no where to stay

And I believed I would get a job in Lagos .. this is how I spent about three months crashing from one odd place to another , I could barely eat .. I missed so many interviews cause I couldn't afford to go and remember I was planning to relocate I gave out suitcases of clothes saying I would buy winter clothes there and summer ones in summer grin

Men it is like a bad movie ... I had been estranged from family for years cause I was doing very well and so was everyone else but worst still is I was a very very rude younger brother.. I virtually insulted all my elder ones at every opportunity to o er the years to the extent that my.elsest brother and I hadn't spoken in over eight years prior to this

I slept in empty shops in Lagos with my bag all my certificates and two pairs of jeans, four t-shirts , a face cap, lighter for company and spent time with a friend who had lost his wife some years earlier

He was struggling financially but I was always good to him sometimes in the past so he managed at some run down hotel in isolo where some nights he paid 2k for a cockroach infested room while other nights we slept in an empty shop on the street

This isn't a movie this was my reality .. and I was so ashamed because from graduation till date everyone always knew me as successful and I was estranged firm my family so which was was I to go?
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Cool4face(m): 7:25pm On Dec 31, 2019
I lost my only male child. Had him this year March and lost him after 8 months. Really missed you my boy. Though it's a painful experience but I can't question God cos he knows why he allowed him to die and I know he will give me double in the year 2020.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by lizychimamanda: 7:26pm On Dec 31, 2019
My 10 years relationship
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Fxwarrior: 8:10pm On Dec 31, 2019
lizychimamanda:
My 10 years relationship

Marriage abi relationship
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Janella1(f): 8:13pm On Dec 31, 2019
Lost my elder sister one week after delivery in August, she died in my hands leaving the baby with me behind. It was terrible because I am to take of my mummy as well.
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by adedking(m): 8:13pm On Dec 31, 2019
The loss of my mother. I was so down to the point of disorientation.
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Priceyk(f): 8:55pm On Dec 31, 2019
May God console everyone that lost their loved ones,may he replenish the pockets of those that lost their money.Happy new year in advance
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by kodded(m): 8:56pm On Dec 31, 2019
the death of my father.... and the worst part of it is that I didn't see him till he died
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Realtalk20: 9:10pm On Dec 31, 2019
luluosas:
I feel your pain brother. But thank God that you are alive. You will recover all by the grace of God

Amen brother

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Realtalk20: 9:11pm On Dec 31, 2019
ymstar:

I learned a lot from your write up, and more so, it's not your fault, don't blame urself pls, u did what you think would propel u Na, abeg no blame, I av dis feeling dat u will bounce back, 2020 will be a very ecstatic year for you, me wey dey talk self Na real hustler, tutor, caterer and comp. engineer, I just hate poverty with passion and I try to help pple according to my ability, and what of wifey? Has she come back? Just try and plead with her, stay blessed

Okay my dear

Thank you from your kind words and encouragement
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Lumpyy(f): 9:29pm On Dec 31, 2019
May God replenish you all and make you happy cry

All I have to say is THANK YOU LORD!!
forgive me for the times that I have only thought about what I do not have!!
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Blyzz(m): 9:43pm On Dec 31, 2019
ayomilore:



Bro. Sorry for the disappointment. Why not turn to God for help? Please read Psalm 46:1 Psalm 121 1& 2.
As we stepping into the new year 2020 your helper off destiny will locate you(amen).
Please don't look up to men again for help look unto God.

God bless you.
Sure, I fix my eyes on Jesus Christ. May 2020 be a blessed year for me. Amen!

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Culin(f): 10:16pm On Dec 31, 2019
Nonsoco80:
Thanks dear. It seems he waited for me to come back. I came back on 27th and he died on 28th.

Really sad. You got to see him for the last time. It's well.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by ronyman(m): 10:31pm On Dec 31, 2019
Igweeee!
johnkey:
I'm a chameleon man, I can be anything at anytime, I fit in everywhere.
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by kingsley3218(m): 10:57pm On Dec 31, 2019
I lost my immediate younger brother to Typhoid and Malaria. I'm yet to get over it as it seems like a dream to me all the time I remember. RIP Danny boy
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Ihsan6(m): 11:04pm On Dec 31, 2019
The death of my dear friend, Stephen Olufemi Shotonwa (sweetsteve), an OAP at orange FM, ondo who died in an accident on 23rd dec, 2019 is my most painful loss of 2019...it hit me so bad...Rest on bro.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Iykecollins(m): 11:06pm On Dec 31, 2019
My lovely Dad
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by tiger2080: 11:12pm On Dec 31, 2019
when burnley cut my 25 million naira on Saturday.it was a surprise to me.I just weak that day.At least I for don build hotel for big investment that was my plan with that money. I no say one day he go play the way my 800k played for February.I no go give up I don play tomorrow game 47 million naira.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by emenezer(m): 12:05am On Jan 01
Lost my mum on 6th December, the pain of the loss still very much afresh.... And she is yet to be buried..
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by emenezer(m): 12:06am On Jan 01
My apologies... quote author=kingsley3218 post=85391899]I lost my immediate younger brother to Typhoid and Malaria. I'm yet to get over it as it seems like a dream to me all the time I remember. RIP Danny boy [/quote]
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Mmeme079: 12:21am On Jan 01
My laptop was stolen by my so called best friend and his boyfriend for a fix of drugs. All my cherished memories are in that laptop cry cry
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by abiaumo(m): 1:28am On Jan 01
liz4eno:
Lost my immediate younger sister on the 10th of this month, I'm yet to recover.

She was probably too good for this world, she's in Heaven now. God comfort you.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by CuteTolex(f): 3:01am On Jan 01
Ihsan6:
The death of my dear friend, Stephen Olufemi Shotonwa (sweetsteve), an OAP at orange FM, ondo who died in an accident on 23rd dec, 2019 is my most painful loss of 2019...it hit me so bad...Rest on bro.


This is also my most painful loss of 2019, still feels like a dream
Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by lakeside79937: 3:25am On Jan 01
I lost my immediate younger sister on the 11th of december at jericho hospital in ibadan she was full of life just went for a routine surgery but was murdered by the inefficient doctors and surgeons at jericho hospital ibadan I still haven't recovered from her loss . The last time saw her was 18 years ago but in November I went to Abijan she heard I was there and decided to come see in abijan we spent 2 weeks together before I returned to England but didnt know that was the last time I was going to see her . I hope she is in a better place may her soul rest in peace x

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by mariellasmenu: 4:58am On Jan 01
Thank you
Lamanii22:



Awwwwn... Omg... I'm really sorry Hun... I'm so sorry....

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Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by edehgeorgeC: 5:51am On Jan 01
To all who had lost their loved ones, may God console you. And to those who lost money, may God richly provide for you in bigger fold this new year. Lastly, for those who lost their job or with no job, may God surprise you with a good job this year. Happy new year!!!

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