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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by ATTemi: 4:59am On Dec 30, 2019
This is never a fact, your opinions though.
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by ubunja(m): 5:12am On Dec 30, 2019
Ilekokonit:


Add to the above NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) which is mind controlling whoever you are speaking to and to me is just another form of witchcraft that westernised women use to get ahead in the work place and you will begin to see that westernised or educated black women are witches pure and simple.
what??
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by xendra: 5:12am On Dec 30, 2019
Ilekokonit:


Words on marble.

And like the bible says in proverbs, wisdom is the principal thing therefore get wisdom and with all your getting get understanding, The same women who CLAIM to read the bible CONVENIENTLY erase from their deceptive minds that the same bible says in 1 Timothy 2:11-15 ESV that :- Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor.

But these confused, deceived, deceptive and foolish 21st century African women will not listen until they fall into the AVOIDABLE pit of DESTRUCTION aided by their enabling MANGINA'S.
men like this are the funniest cheesycheesy you'll remember the bible nowgrin but you don't remember where the woman is not suppose to be the provider? you don't remember that you men are different from men of old and you require women to work which also changes the original plan and means women of this generation will be different too

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Digmygold: 5:13am On Dec 30, 2019
xendra:
cheesy cheesy I don't bother about people like these unbuja whatever grin actually what I feel is sorry for them grin they'll eventually realise that they were just bitter out of loneliness and frustration for not being able to get their ideal woman because they cant treat her right.
read their post up there and see them talking about marrying illiterates cheesy is that what you'd expect of a guy that claims alpha like they do? no.
I told one of them years ago that he was just hating women because he couldn't get them and he went on and on about how he doesn't need any, only fvcks n dump cheesy (but its not dsame thing and it only proves my point) so I let him be grin only for him to make a post this year that he is tired and needs a woman( probably had forgotten cheesy ) I only laughed on the thread.

what I'm trying to say is understand such people and their post will never get to you

God bless you.I just wonder how some dumbass will follow a mo.ron who calls his mother a hoe. Ubunja was brought up by a single mother who is stark illiterate. See what she made of him. Plus her "meekness" in illiteracy still couldn't keep her in a man' s house lol.

When you get threatened by a woman's achievements then you are no Alpha Male in my opinion.

I sincerely hope Ubunja ensures his daughters sit home all day so that they can grow up and become dumb illiterates like his mother. cheesy

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Digmygold: 5:23am On Dec 30, 2019
Martinez39:
Good thing healthserve has decided to ignore the moniker. No matter what, the stupidity of that moniker is not salvageable. At all times, the moniker is never ready to reason or have a reasonable discussion and will always remain the same in her unruliness and irrationality. Mark my words. Any time spent engaging that moniker is wasted. Oh, Lilwetd!ck grin grin grin

Its expected since Ubunja, Martinez and Healthserve are one and the sane person under different monikers. Ubunja is waste personified.

He is what you get when get low with a stark illiterate unprotected.

I still cannot believe how jobless someone can get all in a futile aim to ruin happy relationships and marriages just because your horrible attitude has made you single and bitter at 60. Yet every now and then you see how young people are getting and staying happily married. So you grow more bitter and keep writing your recycled dumpster trash thats yielding zero results.

Will Ubunja pray for his replica for his own daughters? Ubunja can you marry you?

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 6:36am On Dec 30, 2019
Ilekokonit:


Now that is some serious sh.it. What's going on with Nigerian women. Is it Greed or Madness. ?

Its beginning to look like Nigerian women of ALL cadres are no longer marriageable.

Very serious. If you see how pretty the lady is, and learned and to think that she's a manager. So annoying

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by pansophist(m): 7:13am On Dec 30, 2019
crackhaus:

Okay I figure maybe I need to clear up the exact type of education I base my assertions on.

@bold text:
Formal education in itself which is based on proven principles, have no direct link with the untoward behaviors of the modern woman.
The faux education however being given to these women on the platform of modernity, encompassing feminism, gender equality, social equality, etc, this is what is actually responsible for the problems we are facing, because it not based on any proven principle.

But I certainly get your point.

I agree. Education is not a problem, but the wrong kind of education. As Nigeria is culturally synchronized with the west, especially the anglophones, it can be understood why many gentlemen on this thread are convinced that education does more harm to women, which is not true. The wrong kind of western education is the fault (especially the commercialized leftist version), and as humans generally are hedonistic and will not channel brainpower to intense reasoning and see reality for what it is, it is easy to fall prey to the toxicity that comes with mainstream ideologies that are distributed through porn, pop culture, materialism, consumerism, and indoctrination in the form of education.

There is a reason why many countries ban facebook, google, porn and all these stuff, outlets that can be used to corrupt and spotlight the dark nature of humans, and this is what the West understands as freedom, that one should be able to do/say and influence the public with toxic stuff, and the only thing keeping their citizens in check is if they want it or not, disregarding the fact that a huge majority of humans do not have such willpower to stand against all negative odds. The feminine women that are will make wonderful partners I have ever seen are all educated, coming from cultures that is not predominantly poisonous to the soul.

If you find such women, you will truly understand what the bible meant about finding a good thing. These are why you would see western men trooping to Asia and Eastern European countries because the women are educated, not culturally assimilated to their western decaying western values, and retains their femininity. Education is not a problem, but the wrong kind.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by missjo(f): 7:17am On Dec 30, 2019
crackhaus:
Healthserve, I saw your mention.


Regarding the topic:
While it seems there is a connection to be made between education and conceited behavior in women, I certainly do not see the alternative (illiteracy/being uneducated) as the solution.

As a matter of fact, true education rests in the understanding that good character and exemplary social behaviors are very important aspects of a truly educated person.

A woman with all the degrees and certificates but without an exemplary attitude and social character, is really not fully educated to me. Same way an illiterate woman with all the exemplary social manners and attitudes, is in fact quite educated enough to me, as is.

There is a reason why the standard verbose uttered while being presented with a Bachelor's degree usually goes something like this:
"...having fulfilled the requirements of the University in character and in academics, we are pleased to..."
Something of that sort but you get the point.

Although, these words have now become taken for granted in the Nigerian educational system, but believe me when I tell you, no erudite higher-learning institution anywhere in the world will ever graduate an all A's student who has a very questionable character.
There must be a balance.

Only women who were given mushroom education see their literacy as a license for conceited behavior, and they are very easy to spot.
kiss

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Funmmyastic: 7:48am On Dec 30, 2019
Alpha males indeed!

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by ImaIma1(f): 8:33am On Dec 30, 2019
xendra:
just marry any woman and be nice to her. illiterates kill husbands too cheesy cheesy or have you not read?

the problem men have is they want someone they can trample on that will take it. theres no such persongrin NOBODY likes being taken for granted, she'll only be counting days... hehehe

all this : marry illiterate, marry under age, thinking that will help you get away with anything mean say you never ready to marry for this generation.


They are looking for a "yes" person. Someone that they can walk over that won't question their actions. Someone they can bully and suppress. They don't realize that when an "illiterate" woman starts to manifest, it comes with a lot of ignorance, unenlightenment, uncouthness that they won't be able to handle.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by mrssomebody(f): 9:25am On Dec 30, 2019
Just when you think it will get better a new coven of misogynist spring up on Nl daily....everyday women this women that shey u no dy tire ni? Mr poster if u think because a woman doesn't have a formal education then she can't flex her ability in full...lmao I'm here to tell you that you are on a long thing. If you want a wife because u want to control her please just marry a dummy don't come and stress someone's daughter.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by lereinter(m): 9:58am On Dec 30, 2019
Who told you that


Even divorce is high among illiterates than literates.

Come to sw and do a survey
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by crackhaus: 12:03pm On Dec 30, 2019
pansophist:


I agree. Education is not a problem, but the wrong kind of education. As Nigeria is culturally synchronized with the west, especially the anglophones, it can be understood why many gentlemen on this thread are convinced that education does more harm to women, which is not true. The wrong kind of western education is the fault (especially the commercialized leftist version), and as humans generally are hedonistic and will not channel brainpower to intense reasoning and see reality for what it is, it is easy to fall prey to the toxicity that comes with mainstream ideologies that are distributed through porn, pop culture, materialism, consumerism, and indoctrination in the form of education.

There is a reason why many countries ban facebook, google, porn and all these stuff, outlets that can be used to corrupt and spotlight the dark nature of humans, and this is what the West understands as freedom, that one should be able to do/say and influence the public with toxic stuff, and the only thing keeping their citizens in check is if they want it or not, disregarding the fact that a huge majority of humans do not have such willpower to stand against all negative odds. The feminine women that are will make wonderful partners I have ever seen are all educated, coming from cultures that is not predominantly poisonous to the soul.

If you find such women, you will truly understand what the bible meant about finding a good thing. These are why you would see western men trooping to Asia and Eastern European countries because the women are educated, not culturally assimilated to their western decaying western values, and retains their femininity. Education is not a problem, but the wrong kind.
You have elaborated on it even more than I could. cool

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by MannieA(f): 2:56pm On Dec 30, 2019
healthserve:



Sup bro. Its a hard fact that only very very streetwise Kings can relate with or folks who become victims
There's nothing to relate to here.
Marrying an uneducated woman wouldn't stop her from cheating on you or being a thorn in your flesh!
Marrying an uneducated woman doesn't guarantee a peaceful and long lasting marriage.
Marrying a good woman is the most important thing.
Don't be fooled by all these crap talk or posts.
Marry a good woman who is educated. A woman who knows what she's doing. Marry a woman who respects you and treats you well.
Do you think marrying an illiterate would make you have total control over her?No...it wouldn't!
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 3:00pm On Dec 30, 2019
MannieA:

There's nothing to relate to here.
Marrying an uneducated woman wouldn't stop her from cheating on you or being a thorn in your flesh!
Marrying an uneducated woman doesn't guarantee a peaceful and long lasting marriage.
Marrying a good woman is the most important thing.
Don't be fooled by all these crap talk or posts.
Marry a good woman who is educated. A woman who knows what she's doing. Marry a woman who respects you and treats you well.
Do you think marrying an illiterate would make you have total control over her?No...it wouldn't!




We don't mean it as y'all took it. We want our queen's educated posh and all that. The post doesn't imply stark illiterates but those sect of ladies whose laurels get to their heads


I'm shocked that many people didn't get this fact.... grin We were just trying to sample opinions and discuss. But even at that a bland lady is preferential over a lady whose laurels has clouded her vision of her real self

FYI, I don't care about any ladies vagina. I've never cared

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by frozen70(f): 5:22pm On Dec 30, 2019
Ilekokonit:
Men, if you want your marriage to last, marry an illiterate.

Thank me later.

Illiterate women are more amenable to peace and are more open to being corrected and have a teachable spirit compared to the stubborn educated vampires who think their education gives them the right to be first class neurotic psychopaths.

Whether you marry a career woman or a stalk illiterate thst sells tomatoes

Women are just what nature made them to be, they give joy they also give problems

But you as a man, if you are not domineering or putting so much authority at home, you will enjoy her

But when you want to be tough and stubborn, even if you marry a virging, treat her bad and she will still do what an educated woman will do if not worst
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Biglittlelois(f): 6:03pm On Dec 30, 2019
What a display of extremely low self esteem, at a -0 level, how sad, and they claim to be what, alfa meils? I'm wowed, so illiteracy is the basis of choosing a wife, not character, personality? I want to believe these sets on here are really typing all these online just for the fun of it, they can't really discuss these dull and dumb mentality with their friends in reality, so that they won't be made fun of and laughed at, and I really do hope that any guy reading these thread won't follow these typed idiocy when looking for a life partner.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Biglittlelois(f): 6:11pm On Dec 30, 2019
healthserve:




We don't mean it as y'all took it. We want our queen's educated posh and all that. The post doesn't imply stark illiterates but those sect of ladies whose laurels get to their heads


I'm shocked that many people didn't get this fact.... grin We were just trying to sample opinions and discuss. But even at that a bland lady is preferential over a lady whose laurels has clouded her vision of her real self

FYI, I don't care about any ladies vagina. I've never cared


You are confused, it is better for you to own up to your bullshit mentality when given a valid stance than for you to display smartness by half, don't try to say it's an opinion and a discussion when you try to shut up females that typed the exact same thing.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Ilekokonit: 11:18pm On Dec 30, 2019
Michellekabod2:
Its an illiterate lady that will cook with menstraul blood for a man not a literate.

For you to have no shame in mentioning the above means you have either contemplated doing the same for a man in the past or some of your friends have done the same for men.

If I was a woman, I would be too ashamed to mention what you mentioned above on a public forum.

Did you think before writing your above post ?

Slowly but surely the schemes and evil machinations that go on daily in the minds of Nigerian women including the so called educated ones are being disclosed by their very selves.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 11:23pm On Dec 30, 2019
Ilekokonit:


For you to have no shame in mentioning the above means you have either contemplated doing the same for a man in the past or some of your friends have done the same for men.

If I was a woman, I would be too ashamed to mention what you mentioned above on a public forum.

Did you think before writing your above post ?

Slowly but surely the schemes and evil machinations that go on daily in the minds of Nigerian women including the so called educated ones are being disclosed by their very selves.
Am an atheist,i believe all sorts of rituals are fake . plus I have been single most of my life,so who will I cook menstrual blood for?

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Ilekokonit: 11:34pm On Dec 30, 2019
Miner13:
still saying the samething. the masculine trait used in managing those position is transferred home where another man is waiting as the unbending head. assuming those trait stops at work,literate woman will be the best

The bolded above is the bit these educated combative touts can't get into their heads.

Do your sh.it at work but when you get to my door, DROP all your garb of assertiveness, NLP and any other nonsense you practice at work outside my door or I will show you the door and bring in a humbler, more submissive and trainable lady into MY HOUSE as I am the chairman of my own house.

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 11:37pm On Dec 30, 2019
Miner13:
still saying the samething. the masculine trait used in managing those position is transferred home where another man is waiting as the unbending head. assuming those trait stops at work,literate woman will be the best


Which is why I love women like Hilary Clinton and Joyce Meyer who exude healthy feminine energy within becoming toxic and alpha. The rule is for men to never give in to their emotions


Oh much foreign women tend to always have very healthy feministic energy devoid of alpha masculinity. Hence the reason many men settle for white ladies...

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Ilekokonit: 11:50pm On Dec 30, 2019
ubunja:
In relationships "a mind of your own" is the inability to accept the leadership of the male who is supposed to be your head. If you can't let the man make the decisions that control the relationship then you're Masculine.

Simple as ABC

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 9:23am On Jan 10, 2020
ubunja:
it's not a mistake that rich men have the reputation of marrying dumb bimbos. That's the meeting of true alpha and true femininity. The first thing a gold digger who wants to marry a wealthy man is told is "act dumb". Because that feeds the male ego. Men like it when they are the smart ones. Because smartness is masculine..

Look at even Nicki Minaj. Her worldwide appeal is underpinned by her act of acting "dumb". Hence she calls herself a barbie and likes to blink fast like she's brainless. That's a HUGE trick that pulls in men by the millions. A pretty brainless bimbo will ALWAYS get a man's attention faster than a smart woman. Look At Regina Daniels. Empty head pretty girl gets the billionaire smart educated grown women can't get. It's a lesson for all women. But are women prepared to learn it?
Ubunja, what is this nonsense? Where did Nicki Minaj ever act dumb? Please, if you don't know something, don't speak on it. Nicki is acknowledged as one of the most intelligent and assertive artistes in the industry.

The barbie she portrays is just an alter ego. She has many more alter egos. Stop saying nonsense, wtf.
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by ubunja(m): 9:36am On Jan 10, 2020
Lawlahdey:
Ubunja, what is this nonsense? Where did Nicki Minaj ever act dumb? Please, if you don't know something, don't speak on it. Nicki is acknowledged as one of the most intelligent and assertive artistes in the industry.

The barbie she portrays is just an alter ego. She has many more alter egos. Stop saying nonsense, wtf.
you just agreeing with me. Assertive she may be in business behind scenes. But in videos, to sell the music, she brings out the dumb alter ego. That sells her music.

Is it clear to you now?

Read the bolded again and calm down:

ubunja:
it's not a mistake that rich men have the reputation of marrying dumb bimbos. That's the meeting of true alpha and true femininity. The first thing a gold digger who wants to marry a wealthy man is told is "act dumb". Because that feeds the male ego. Men like it when they are the smart ones. Because smartness is masculine..

Look at even Nicki Minaj. Her worldwide appeal is underpinned by her act of acting "dumb". Hence she calls herself a barbie and likes to blink fast like she's brainless. That's a HUGE trick that pulls in men by the millions. A pretty brainless bimbo will ALWAYS get a man's attention faster than a smart woman. Look At Regina Daniels. Empty head pretty girl gets the billionaire smart educated grown women can't get. It's a lesson for all women. But are women prepared to learn it?

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 9:45am On Jan 10, 2020
Maynnations:

Yeye talk....you that you've been desperate for my attention....white women kor brown women ni


Who is this fulani dirty thing quoting me this new year. Spits. Dirty thing

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Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by Nobody: 10:00am On Jan 10, 2020
ubunja:
you just agreeing with me. Assertive she may be in business behind scenes. But in videos, to sell the music, she brings out the dumb alter ego. That sells her music.

Is it clear to you now?

Read the bolded again and calm down:



I do not agree with you. It is just an aspect of her music; it's not the reason for her worldwide appeal.

Her many alter egos, her rap prowess, and business mind are responsible for her worldwide success. By the way, she doesn't even do that Barbie thing anymore.
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by healthserve(m): 10:04am On Jan 10, 2020
Maynnations:

Lol you know the Fulani thing is quite deep...as you said in your private chats.... But heck no you ain't getting none here!!


Attention seeker. Get lost. Busy with the hustle
Re: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by ubunja(m): 10:22am On Jan 10, 2020
Lawlahdey:
I do not agree with you. It is just an aspect of her music; it's not the reason for her worldwide appeal.

Her many alter egos, her rap prowess, and business mind are responsible for her worldwide success. By the way, she doesn't even do that Barbie thing anymore.
I was agreeing with you on the alter ego thing. But if you still think I'm saying in real life she's dumb then I rest my case.

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