Only a handful of people have erectile dysfunction but many people have a fear of impotence. No man is happy with his penis size no matter how big the penis they have. Many normal men fear premature ejaculation.

Those are not real problems. Those are stuck in their brains. Constant sex fears have the potential consequences of intercourse. These fears can undermine sexual performances as well as pleasure.

Many young people get easily influenced by exaggerated gossips. They hear tales of sex that lasts all night long.

They watch porn stars have large joysticks and women love it.

They feel frustrated that they don’t have such a large penis. They cannot hold that long either. They start to feel inferiority complex. That destroys their self-confidence.

They try in many ways to boost their sexual performance but that gives backlash. Because of fears, they either don’t get an adequate erection or get premature ejaculations.

Common sex fears:

The fear of premature ejaculation:

Several surveys show that most of the men get their orgasm within five minutes. But some men can hold just a couple of minutes.

You don’t need a stopwatch to measure the time of intercourse. Just do your business. You are one of the many billions of people who have family and children. Nobody is having any problem. Why should you have to worry?

If you are getting quick ejaculation, it is a good sign. It means you are healthy. People who don’t get ejaculation in an hour, they are sick. They are suffering from retrograde ejaculation.

For young people, it is normal that they get instant erection. If you don’t have sex before or have not had sex for a long time, you may not be able to hold a minute. Maybe you will get ejaculation while you are holding and kissing your partner.
Solution:

The problem of premature ejaculation is a temporary state. It does not require any treatment.

Don’t feel pressured to do things perfect. You can tell your partner that the first time you would not hold long. She will understand.

Trying to boost your sexual stamina will not help. Just do it naturally. There would not be any problem.

The fear of small penis size:

Humans are solving the mystery of Mars but they cannot find the ideal size of a penis.

In the early 80s, urologists became agreed that the penis size did not matter. A 4-inch penis was considered fine. But now they say, a big penis is better to give a vaginal orgasm.

A bigger penis is may have some advantages. But the average penis size is also fine. As many as 34 births are reported every minute in India. Women are pleased and devoted to their husbands. No woman is complaining about penis size. You are the one who is complaining about your own.

Solution:

Whatever size of penis you have, you can utilize it optimally. Don’t even get the idea to enlarge it. That is not possible and you don’t need it.

In normal cases, the size of the penis and the vagina automatically adjust.

If your penis length is outside of the range, You should use positions that are compatible with your size.

If you have undersize, you should use the doggy style that gives you the possibility of maximum penetration.

If you have an oversized penis, give your woman a choice of more control. You can use reverse cowboy or similar sex position where your partner can control what length of the penis she will take inside.

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Kama Sutra divides men into three categories:

Hare (Small penis size)
Bull (Medium penis size)
Horse (Large penis size)
Kama sutra Female Sizes:

Deer (Small genital size)
Mare (Medium genital size)
Elephant (Large genital size)
Hare men are a good match with deer women, bull men with mare and horse and elephant would be a perfect match

Lack of sexual confidence:

If you lose your confidence, that would cause erectile dysfunction that you don’t have. If you have a lot of doubt about whether you can satisfy your partner, that would undermine your sexual performance. Even e potent man may give a lousy performance in bed when confidence has gone.

Solution:

Look, you are going to make love and have fun. You are not going to the battlefield that you have to be a hero. You are not going to a job interview either. So why are you nervous?

Billions of men are having sex every day. All are common people like you and I. They are fucking without measuring their joysticks and without using a stopwatch for during penetration. They do fine. They are enjoying while you are worrying.

Sex is an easy thing. Everybody does. Just Bleep, don’t make things complicated.

Be yourself. You don’t have to perform better than you can. It is no problem if you get premature ejaculation. Believe me, next time it will be better.

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I don't know what all the sex crasze is about did days... As if it has not been so since adam

GOING DOWN ON A WOMAN IS NASTY
NO it aint to people who enjoy the act

THE VAGINA IS FILLED WITH BACTERIA
YES it is, just like the hand you use to eat your food... does that stop you from eating with your hands?

YOU CAN CATCH CANCER OF THE THROAT FOR GOING DOWN ON A WOMAN
... and a woman can also catch cancer of the throat from going down on her man.

ANAL SEX IS DIRTY
NO it aint if you clean your nyansh thoroughly before the sex

ANAL SEX IS PAINFUL
NO it aint if your man knows how to go gently/lubricated and you relax your damn nyansh

MEN WHO LOVE ANAL SEX ARE CLOSET HOMOS
NO... thats as stoopid as saying that women who like to be licked are lesbians. a man who likes to have anal sex with WOMEN (who also indulge in that act) shouldnt be considered anything but hetero, duh.

YOU NEED A BIG DIKC TO SATISFY A WOMAN
NOT TRUE, since all women have different size toto, different women get satisfied in different ways.

YOU NEED TO FUKC MULTIPLE ROUND TO SATISFY A WOMAN
ABSOLUTELY NOT... satisfaction has nothing to do with how long you fukc but how well you fukc the babe. you can fukc a babe for 3 hours non stop and not make her cuum once, while a dude would fukc her for 15mins and have her cuum multiple time til "she" gave up.

YOU NEED TO FUKC A BABE HARD TO SATISFY HER
NO... you need to fukc her "well"... and as much as some women like to have their womb shifted during sex, other prefer to be taken gently and with more caresses and caring involved.

A BABE WHO IS DEMANDING FOR OUTRAGEOUS ACT IN THE BEDROOM IS A SLUT
NO... she is just an open minded babe who is not afraid to voice what she likes so that the dude doesnt waste his time doing to her what she doesnt like

VIRGINS ARE PURE AND INEXPERIENCED
NO... many have never been fukc (in the toto) but have had their nyansh busted time and time again. virginity today is all in the mind, especially with hymen reconstructive surgery that can turn a street corner olosho into a virgin.

MrBrownJay1:
GOING DOWN ON A WOMAN IS NASTY
NO it aint to people who enjoy the act

THE VAGINA IS FILLED WITH BACTERIA
YES it is, just like the hand you use to eat your food... does that stop you from eating with your hands?

YOU CAN CATCH CANCER OF THE THROAT FOR GOING DOWN ON A WOMAN
... and a woman can also catch cancer of the throat from going down on her man.

ANAL SEX IS DIRTY
NO it aint if you clean your nyansh thoroughly before the sex

ANAL SEX IS PAINFUL
NO it aint if your man knows how to go gently/lubricated and you relax your damn nyansh

MEN WHO LOVE ANAL SEX ARE CLOSET HOMOS
NO... thats as stoopid as saying that women who like to be licked are lesbians. a man who likes to have anal sex with WOMEN (who also indulge in that act) shouldnt be considered anything but hetero, duh.

YOU NEED A BIG DIKC TO SATISFY A WOMAN
NOT TRUE, since all women have different size toto, different women get satisfied in different ways.

YOU NEED TO FUKC MULTIPLE ROUND TO SATISFY A WOMAN
ABSOLUTELY NOT... satisfaction has nothing to do with how long you fukc but how well you fukc the babe. you can fukc a babe for 3 hours non stop and not make her cuum once, while a dude would fukc her for 15mins and have her cuum multiple time til "she" gave up.

YOU NEED TO FUKC A BABE HARD TO SATISFY HER
NO... you need to fukc her "well"... and as much as some women like to have their womb shifted during sex, other prefer to be taken gently and with more caresses and caring involved.

A BABE WHO IS DEMANDING FOR OUTRAGEOUS ACT IN THE BEDROOM IS A SLUT
NO... she is just an open minded babe who is not afraid to voice what she likes so that the dude doesnt waste his time doing to her what she doesnt like

VIRGINS ARE PURE AND INEXPERIENCED
NO... many have never been fukc (in the toto) but have had their nyansh busted time and time again. virginity today is all in the mind, especially with hymen reconstructive surgery that can turn a street corner olosho into a virgin.

Oga boss, I hail o