Cheato64:
bro are you married? Women are not easy as you think oooo, how is it my responsibilities, I go to antenatal I see most women if not all coming by themselves.

thank you o
How is it his responsibility to be driving her around? Is she the one woman with a husband. He go soon tire!

I have only read the first page but my advice is to check her. I have a feeling that she is unfaithful to you.

Masturbator:
Sit her down and discuss. She may have been a victim of infidelity. Or she is naturally very jealous(this one is incurable)

Psylas

You ni dey beat am.

Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

I'm sorry but you are a weakling. You are the wife and your woman is the husband. Yes she is supposed to have access to your phone but you are the main determinant of the policies and rules in your home. If you tell her to learn to drive she is to obey you. She is not meant to smash your phone because she saw correspondence between you and a colleague at work.

One, stop indulging her henceforth. You are spoiling her.

Two, you stand your ground and ask her to obey your rules or risk ending the marriage.

Three, warn her never to smash your phone irrespective of what she discovers on your phone.

Four, if she refuses share these issues with your pastor or clergy person or an elder. If she remains unyielding call for a family meeting. If she remains unyielding send her packing!

didn't you guys date before marriage or something??