If you use fast to deprive of your body for forty days, four hundred days of fasting may not win him back later.

1) NEVER USE INTIMACY AS A PUNISHMENT.
Intimacy is not one way to punish him for his offences. Your body is not yours, it belongs to him according to the Bible. You cannot deny him what is rightly his because you are angry. It is not right.

2) NEVER USE INTIMACY AS A MEANS OF EXCHANGE.
You are also not permitted to use Intimacy as a tool for bargaining. It is very wrong to use it in order to get something from your husband. You are not a prostitute, don't insist on being paid or do something for you before you give him the chance to have your body. If you do that, he may not see the reason why he can't also pay for it outside.

3) NEVER FAIL TO INVOLVE INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE
Intimacy is not just about your husband, don't fail to be involved in it, initiate it often. Be involved during the pre-intimacy and be very active during the actual intimacy performance, don't be dry and drab at home. Be his lover girl.

4) NEVER SAY: IS IT FOOD?
Avoid asking your husband 'is it food.' It will make him look like a sex maniac. As a man, his demand will naturally be stronger than your own. Your husband's demand is not strange. Plan to fit into his physiological makeup.

5) DON'T MAKE CALENDAR FOR INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
Don't be a calendar wife, don't make calendar for intimacy in your marriage. Some calendar wives will say it can only take place on Friday or other days fixed by them. Let it happen spontaneously in your marriage.

6 DON'T FORGET INTIMACY IS PARAMOUNT TO YOUR HUSBAND'S WELLBEING.
Intimacy is paramount to your husband's needs. The first thing he needs is respect, the second thing is intimacy. Give him your best and make him happy. To a man, intimacy is not just part of marriage it is the real deal. Be wise and handle this wisely.

7) NEVER FAIL TO BE A GENEROUS WIFE.
For a man to say his wife is a very, very good wife, she must have been generous in the bedroom. Go the extra mile in satisfying your husband in the bedroom.

NEVER BE AN ANALOG WIFE TO A DIGITAL HUSBAND.
Study your husband and give him what he wants; the way he wants it. Don't be an analogue wife to a digital husband. Study when his desire for intimacy is high and stand up to the task.

9) NEVER BECOME UNROMANTIC AND UNINTERESTING WIFE.
Don't lose your flavour. Don't become uninteresting to him. It is very dangerous for your marriage.

10) NEVER FAIL TO REMEMBER THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS BORN AGAIN BUT HE IS NOT BLIND AGAIN.
Dress very well, be fashionable but not immoral. Don't take your husband for granted with your dressing because he is born again. Every man desires a very tantalizing lady around him. If your husband is born again he is not blind again; dress very well to attract him.

11) NEVER FAIL TO PURSUE YOUR HUSBAND.
Don't just wait for him to pursue you, be inviting, be interesting, excite him at times by being seductive to him. Invite him to sleep with you or better still, seduce him. He is your husband and you are doing the right thing, no sin committed.

12) NEVER FAIL TO UNDERSTAND YOUR HUSBAND'S INTIMACY NEEDS AND MEET THEM.
Study your husband as if you will write a book on him. Carefully observe him and meet his needs.

13) NEVER FORGET THAT OUTING DRESSES ARE DIFFERENT FROM BEDROOM DRESSES.
The clothes for going to events are not the same as bedroom clothes. Dress up when you are going out; dress down when you come to bed. Don't take that jeans knicker to bed, it is not bedroom compliment. Get good night wears, the one they call 'open heaven'; 'the more you look the more you see.' Put on this one when you are alone with your darling husband and turn your ...
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