Preshy561:

Only broke men complain. Bosses aren't in this league though.

ubunja:
yep. If you date a broke man then you know what to expect. After all you chose him.

Preshy561:

Hahahaha. Ain't gonna be caught in that crap.
Bosses are the in thing.

ubunja:
that's the point. If you choose a boss good for you. But if you choose a broke guy then don't be amazed when he complains when you ask for money.

ubunja:
he must marry someone refusing him sex but sleeping with some other dudes?? Are you well?

Jewessgratitude:


Are you well yourself?

How did you know she's sleeping with other dudes?
Birds of a feather.

Let him go and look for those who will be giving it to him back to back. Then after marriage, when she continues giving other men, he'll come and be crying how he married a whorish woman. Hope you'll be here to give him your red abi na black pill.

Omar09:


Use that line only this time she asked me what I wanted from her, I knew deep down she wanted to date me, I just told her let's be fvck buddies. Long story short, she dumped me.

But guess who's sending text every now and then?

ME!

ubunja:
the guy has said already he's giving material things to the girl. If he's giving yet getting nothing back he may as well sign up for the Salvation Army and rather donate all the money to them. Atleast God pays back in blessings.

THE PROF.

CAPSLOCKED:

ME!

Geminiman:
Good morning,

I have a girlfriend and we've been together for almost 3 years. I do the little I can to support her every now and then but the issue has in most instances always been the Physical aspect of the relationship.

Having sex is a far cry from the present situation. Sometimes after making out, she would tell me she feels guilty. If we making out, she'd tell me don't touch this, don't touch that. Sometimes during the making out sessions, when we are close to having sex she'd just turn her back to me, I'd ask if there's a problem, she would tell me there isn't. Many times she would tell me we have to stop the making out thing and all. In most instances, I suck it up.

You see the whole thing is pathetic. Pathetic in the sense that I have a girlfriend and still jack off. Although having a GF and jacking off are two mutually exclusive things, the former ought to reduce or even stop the latter.

Some weeks ago we had a misunderstanding and she sent me a text message containing several things, but the most striking was "... can't you do something without always expecting something in return".

I was bewildered. To begin with it was her pouring salt on the already festering injury. Secondly, I can't particularly say we have done anything sexual per say. It was really humiliating for me.

These days, I don't even think about her in a sexual manner, in short I don't even get an erection because of her. And I told her this morning I want us to stop the making out and all.

I am not cheating on her or intending to, I jack off, it suffices. All in a bid to maintain sanity. I don't just want to get humiliated or insulted over such pettiness or her thinking she's doing me some sort of favour by making out with me. She's been giving me attitude because of that.

Was I wrong?

Cc Harddon, Ubunja

QueenSuccubus:


Holy SEX!

U better ask urself first.. What do u really want in a relationship? Is it bcoz of sex?

Or

Are you willing to be with her thru thick & thin no matter ..

Now, if you can't live without having sex & she's not ready.. U better talk to her & tell your feelings about it.. Communication is very important in a relationship.

Jewessgratitude:


I keep telling girls, wise up! No more premarital sex. It doesn't guarantee marriage. If he can't stay, let him get the hell outa the way for the real G.
Dont let them finish all the juice and plump body meant for that innocent man that will come and be sucking air. Biko.

Jewessgratitude:


She's giving you attitude cos three years of being with you is just a waste.
No meaningful plan or arrangements to do the right thing. So go and do the needful.

ubunja:
I have lost count of the number of women I slept with who had given their Bfs the 6 month rule.

Any guy must know. If a woman is not sleeping with you, telling you she's not ready blah blah blah, best believe some guy out there is hitting it. Free. Daily.

How many times have guys come crying on NL about girls who told them "no sex before marriage", or "I'm a virgin", only to discover the girl is spreading legs wide for some guy. Any guy with ears let him hear.

I have a girlfriend and we've been together for almost 3 years. I do the little I can to support her every now and then but the issue has in most instances always been the Physical aspect of the relationship.

Having sex is a far cry from the present situation. Sometimes after making out, she would tell me she feels guilty. If we making out, she'd tell me don't touch this, don't touch that . Sometimes during the making out sessions, when we are close to having sex she'd just turn her back to me, I'd ask if there's a problem, she would tell me there isn't. Many times she would tell me we have to stop the making out thing and all. In most instances, I suck it up.

You see the whole thing is pathetic. Pathetic in the sense that I have a girlfriend and still jack off. Although having a GF and jacking off are two mutually exclusive things, the former ought to reduce or even stop the latter.

Some weeks ago we had a misunderstanding and she sent me a text message containing several things, but the most striking was "...

can't you do something without always expecting something in return

".

I was bewildered. To begin with it was her pouring salt on the already festering injury. Secondly, I can't particularly say we have done anything sexual per say. It was really humiliating for me.

These days, I don't even think about her in a sexual manner, in short I don't even get an erection because of her. And I told her this morning I want us to stop the making out and all.

I am not cheating on her or intending to, I jack off, it suffices. All in a bid to maintain sanity. I don't just want to get humiliated or insulted over such pettiness or her thinking she's doing me some sort of favour by making out with me. She's been giving me attitude because of that.

Was I wrong?

Geminiman:
Good morning,

I have a girlfriend and we've been together for almost 3 years. I do the little I can to support her every now and then but the issue has in most instances always been the Physical aspect of the relationship.

Having sex is a far cry from the present situation. Sometimes after making out, she would tell me she feels guilty. If we making out, she'd tell me don't touch this, don't touch that. Sometimes during the making out sessions, when we are close to having sex she'd just turn her back to me, I'd ask if there's a problem, she would tell me there isn't. Many times she would tell me we have to stop the making out thing and all. In most instances, I suck it up.

You see the whole thing is pathetic. Pathetic in the sense that I have a girlfriend and still jack off. Although having a GF and jacking off are two mutually exclusive things, the former ought to reduce or even stop the latter.

Some weeks ago we had a misunderstanding and she sent me a text message containing several things, but the most striking was "... can't you do something without always expecting something in return".

I was bewildered. To begin with it was her pouring salt on the already festering injury. Secondly, I can't particularly say we have done anything sexual per say. It was really humiliating for me.

These days, I don't even think about her in a sexual manner, in short I don't even get an erection because of her. And I told her this morning I want us to stop the making out and all.

I am not cheating on her or intending to, I jack off, it suffices. All in a bid to maintain sanity. I don't just want to get humiliated or insulted over such pettiness or her thinking she's doing me some sort of favour by making out with me. She's been giving me attitude because of that.

Was I wrong?

Cc Harddon, Ubunja