Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

as in eh... The girl isn't the sharpest tool in any shed.

For me it's one of two things. The guy is busy now so he doesn't have time to call as before. He is in his final year and it's a 3 year relationship so maybe he feels no need to "pursue you like when he was toasting you"
You need to call him and talk. How will you expect him to do everything in a relationship. This is why I dont like women.

Or maybe he is just bored of your pussy even though he sees you as wife material. And he has another hot babe he is lashing currently .

For me I can't dream of paying the rent of a girl I'm not committed to whether I'm rich or not, so you need to talk with your guy and find out.
Started dating you at the age of 18? Either he is a very stupid boy or he loves you.

Its a pity I'm such a guy as that, I do every other stuff but I don't call...
Calls just ain't my thing sha!

Sweeetheart:



in another thread a lady relationship hit the wall because she's introvert but here I'm reading an extrovert complaining of her guy introvert attitude


if this guy don't flirt or smoke, hanged out with friends in club etc then I see no reason why you should be worried about him not calling you. you duo should face academic

if he's an academia, I mean lover of book, you won't expect him to abandoned that for feelings that had been established


I want to believe if him fvcking you timelessly is what's dropping the feelings, he won't have value for you, not to talk of taking care of your needs


at 21, you're still young even if anything happen aftermath you'll be fine. just focus on your study so as not to lose on two sides

Tiri gbosa for u!!!

I appreciate y'all for the comments, I've made up my mind on what to do,and to those saying giving me money and paying for my rent is a waste shows you guys haven't met good girls,I just don't want to say everything about my relationship, did you know I started spending on this guy first? I know the amount I spent on him was small, but it really helped him when he was financially unstable, so you expect that kind of guy to shut me out when he's got money?? All these Mumu nairaland guys using their cheap phones and data bonuses to bash people should get a life please.

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If you knew you will leave the relationship, you shouldn't have collected his money, if you love him, then talk to him about his character and if he promise to change, why not, you can stay.

Fareee123:
he doesn't go clubbing, I see texts of girls giving him green lights,but he is good at ignoring them,I'm not saying he's perfect, but I haven't caught him cheat

See babe ur guy is an introvert and u the other, I will advice u to work more on communicating with him don't hide ur feelings always let him know, if that's all u can discuss with him n he will listen pls continue. And remember to always praise him n thank, if u can ve patience u will enjoy a blissful relationship with him.

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

you sound very young, like you don't know what is truly important in life yet.

You are at the stage where you'd pick the guy who showers you with attention and sweet nothing, over the guy who is usually busy because he is hardworking and building his future. Go ahead and choose what you want, just don't come back to talk about your new guy being lazy or broke.

At least we know what he does for you, what does he gain from you? Attention? Occasional calls? Can one eat it or buy stuff with it? There are at least 2 billion other adult females in the world, what makes you worth giving his everything?

You think the world revolves around you so that a guy in his final year would make you his life's focus?

Girl you can't eat your cake and have it. I guess the guy is a bit busy with studies but because if he doesn't fail to clear your bill when it's needful. I think he cares he might equally be introvert. If you really like him don't let him go. His type is only two left in Nigeria. Use ur Head

chigoizie7:
Yes.


Yes needs to focus more on himself.


A final year student that has both his projects, seminar and a lot of reading to do to avoid spillover plus still hustling to be able to provide for some financial needs.

Some people are really heartless ooh.


You want him to still give you much attention as he used to when he doesn’t have so much on his head as he has now. All these while he has been the perfect man, but the few times he snapped probably because he has a lot to tackle, you couldn’t hold up for him. He has been calling for close to two years, no wahala, but you got tired just for the few weeks you did the calling.


Please leave him, he needs a better woman in his life.




I will keep on praying to God to take women like you far away from me.

All these people talking about attention this, attention that , has never really worked a full day, let’s say common 8-5 for just one week. That is when they will know the importance of time.

A woman can never be satisfied

Do girls still believe they can hurt guys when they break up ? Only broke guys got hurt if a lady breaks up with him.. so many girls these days that are just looking for a man to have kids for and be happy.. dear poster, if you want to leave him please do and the next girl will move in, it’s your loss. Stop the threat.

am a man, and i will give you the advice i will give my sister...

for me the guy those not want you any longer, him paying for your upkeep, he is
doing it out of pity and what he might get from you when he is in need ( hope u understand what i meant).
he is doing it cos he has money to spend, all those money he gives u means nothing to him.

right now i am in that position, so am speaking from experience both mine and others.

call is important in a relationship, no matter how busy the guy is, he should be able to call and ask of your well being
i can tell you that the guy is not busy as i am, but i still call my love ones, how do i do it, i make most of my call in the rest room
while defecating, i call to say hello, sorry i ave not call, i ave been busy, and sometimes i text too

if you sit down with him, he will still blame it on busy schedule.

my advise for you is not to put all ur hope in him, try not to cheat on him, he might be testing you or looking for excuse.
to ditch you final.

Pass d nigga number... I kw one gal dat need him

Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

Don't live him yet ...play along with him till you can really know him better...Pretend as if you don't need anything from him again but if he gives u, accept and say thank u....limit your sms or calls to him....when he start noticing changes ....he will come running after u as if someone has taken u from him....That's how we men behave

Victornezzar:
Pay your rent
Gives you 10 k every 2 weeks

If you ever get tired of that relationship..... The God that Your Boyfriend serves will surely locate you


*Spits on her womb twice*

Spits on the moronic boy too

Victor

this is whT i call slay queen she comes with beauty and brains too.
10k no be beans and she is not a.lazy girl .even if she broke up with him she can still make it witbot without him cus she is self employed.not like other lazy girls .


my advice for u as is dont depend on him to call you anymore just face your business and studies...
if u like something let it go when.it comes it was yours when it never comes it was never yours.
so if u are tired of his money u can send it to.me to upgrade my business this new yr.

all the best with ur studies and work.

cheers and bless night.

Lol

Okay. Bring 501 for consultation.

You may be eating money you should

Fareee123:
Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.

is like u need emotional attention .am a man Nd no man will give u 10k in two weeks Nd there no attention there.or less on love portion.nd by d way wetin d guy dey do sef.because u look like d bae DT doesn't care about wer a final yr student have enuf money to b giving u 10k in two weeks.or na yahoo boy.anyway talk to him Nd knw where d relatnship going.nd lastly no vex o wat have u invested or done in d relationship because Ur boo don invest o.it look one sided love here.

cococandy:
I just checked the profile of the poster. New account. Created 2 hours ago.

Summary: just another fvckboy looking for talk. So many of you on this forum need to get busy. Always obsessed with useless ways to insult women. I’m 110% sure the OP is on this thread with his various other monikers saying how women are bitchess and leeches.

Probably one of the first to comment.

Mental problems

It's possible.
Nairaland romance section guys are terrible and mischievous

Davash222:

Attention doesn’t pay bills, woman.

I think we need to hear 4rm d guy because d op narration no compelete nno man born of a woman go continue to give u 10k 4 2 weeks unless u b his wife or baby mama

Thegeneralqueen:
Victor

Madam

mixratio:
There are obviously issues with the relationship.
The guy(and a lot of guys too, sadly) believes that all you need is money so he works his ass off(hopefully so, I pray the source of the money is legit) to satisfy you financially but forgets the emotional side to ladies...

You, on the other hand, do have your own issues. You are 21, you are young, You have romantic fantasies, You want to be adored like a princess and as such finance is key but romance is also important.

I suspect you may outgrow these feelings though.

Just concentrate on your studies and your impressive side hustle and see where things go...
Am not an advocate of premarital sex so I advise you not to do the do(that is if you haven't already)

Best wishes

This one em toto be like Lagos badagry express way u dey advice make em no engage in premarital sex.U funny o

So you want a final year student to concentrate on you and fail abi? You need to visit gurumaragi asap.

Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

lomprico:


yahoo boi! he is fattening you for the kill.

Oh lawd!

Fareee123:
I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

Then y are u depending on him for ur rent, 10k weekly allowance and money for your hair?

Both of u re idiots

I wonder if the guy was with he’s right sense
Paying Rent and paying Salaries every week
Too much orishirishi is not Good

jagaban002:
Easiest way to get is attention if you really need one , whenever he send u money send it back , don’t ask for money for hair just tell him nah is call u want and attention he go change since he will realize no be money be ur prob and nah attention u need but my own point of view guys like that are few , 10k every 2 weeks and other things follow even parents don’t do more than this for there kids miss be patient and fight for what u want if u truly love him not all this u wan break up , nah mallians full town no better bf again

forget d op.d babe who send u 10k every 2wks DT 20k weeks.a month DT is complaining of calls wer we have wife's DT are praying for God to give dem hussy as such.imagine he pay Ur rent guys dey fall our hand am sure d guy na yahoo boy.na so one girl wer I b friend to tell me say her bf give am I phone maybe d old one go be 80k Nd d bae go soon enta nysc go nack nysc guy.d thin dey vex me.we guys eh we dey make ladies dey feel money is easy for a man Nd it there right to be in comfort.such reason eh go break many marrriages.for d op with her narrratn DT babe no fit stay Wen things are hard with her boo

Baby girl guys like ur bf are rear, he is schooling and pays ur rent and take care of u, I can count many guys out there that are working full time and can not even make hair for their girlfriend

Nobody is perfect u can't expect him to be everything u need him to be.... Perhaps u are in school try and put urself under his shoes dis period cause its not easy just support him if he does not call u call him he might really appreciate it

Don't regret saying had I know cause hmmm let me nor talk guys are tight

Try not to be selfish thats the least u can do

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

Although, I understand your point from a man perspective. Do you know that the main reason rich men women cheat on them is because of the lack of attention and they will counter-argue back that they are busy because of the family needs and care? Have you ever heard about ''Balancing everything in life'' ?