Ifedisky:

Only "enemies" tell us the truth, friends and lovers lie endlessly caught in the web of duty.

With those kinds of friends. . .no needs enemies
No wonder the type of wahala people have with their friends

Instead of saying the game coming on soon, we may have company, the chicken is cooking, the children is running outside, and the trash is full, SAY in a sweet manner, honey would you take the trash out please and PLEASE SAY THANK YOU AFTERWARD,

iice:

With those kinds of friends. . .no needs enemies
No wonder the type of wahala people have with their friends

MzDarkSkin:

@Ifedisky[/b] so essentially what you are saying is his not telling me about his child and the girl was to protect my feelings? really? or is it that some men want their cake and ice cream too at the expense of another person? hmmm. . .

Ifedisky:

The sorry reality in black and white

"It is important that we women understand the fiber of men because we have to communicate on their level which is like talking to a preschooler.  There are ways you can express your feelings to the man without getting that look like what the hell is you talking about woman? "

No suga,

If a woman ask a man nicely and CONCISELY to do something a man wouldn't have a problem doing something if he is appreciated.  Men thinks with logic reasoning versus emotional reasoning which us women tend to do.  We will take the disgusted look as an attitude versus you may have gas where a man would take the same disgusted look and start logically saying maybe she has gas or something is wrong,

Now you see my point?

iice:

Your reality perhaps and only in black

excoba101:




So logically when you start being nice all of a suden and it has to do with sending me messages repeatedly. Swetie, nba ooO. I can't fit. I will reject sharp sharp.

Some women just want to marry , while a few want to build a home. If i am with a girl who wants to build a home, i will never have any problem with her sending me messages because she will never do that in the first place. But haven noticed that she works too much, i will volunteer to help always.

Men are also different from each other.

Eg. I grow up helping muma in the kitchen discussing. So now as a matured young man i enjoy such with a female friends even back in campus, i had flat mates that were females who i begged to prepare meals for me and i stayed with them in the kitchen and discuss(i just love the company). My elder brother was always in the field when the cooking was going on. He might turn out to mean he wouldn't like to help in the kitchen like myself or most home jobs, maybe his is good in another field which i am bad at.

NB: Because i like to help, when i notice i am been asked to always. I feel you are taking advantage of it. Problem might creep in from there.

For the fact that i enjoy these things, i also know that it was my mother all the way in the kitchen. So i could be looking for a girl that is much like her.

Ifedisky:

Maybe. Denial is bliss though

Hardly. . .but then again many like their fake friends

iice:

Hardly. . .but then again many like their fake friends

here we go again with another topic where men are being dehumanized. well, here is my own contribution to this question.

in my first year in school, i fell helplessly in love with a lady in the same class, and i didnt care even though my friends called her "fat". well, to cut the long story short, after i had spent all my pocket money on her and showered her with love, she chose to dump me for an older guy in a higher level.

well, after the period of loss, i totally flipped out and began to see (and pesently see) women as objects of sexual gratification. its my fault if i cant control myself and treat ladies like trash, but im not wholly to blame, am i? what i got after showing all the love i could was being dumped like a used underwear.

sorry ladied, if men treat you like trash, there might just be a reason for it.

Ifedisky:

Absolutely! I hear thatz a widespread female phenomena

If you only knew
But i'll leave out the celly and the telly which is a staple on nl ahehehehehehehe

iice:

If you only knew
But i'll leave out the celly and the telly which is a staple on nl ahehehehehehehe

Pornodude:

here we go again with another topic where men are being dehumanized. well, here is my own contribution to this question.

in my first year in school, i fell helplessly in love with a lady in the same class, and i didnt care even though my friends called her "fat". well, to cut the long story short, after i had spent all my pocket money on her and showered her with love, she chose to dump me for an older guy in a higher level.

well, after the period of loss, i totally flipped out and began to see (and pesently see) women as objects of sexual gratification. its my fault if i cant control myself and treat ladies like trash, but im not wholly to blame, am i? what i got after showing all the love i could was being dumped like a used underwear.

sorry ladied, if men treat you like trash, there might just be a reason for it.

MzDarkSkin:

And this is coming from a man whose UN is PORNOdude. . .wow I dont know if[b] i should slap u or give you a hug[/b] lol. seriously i amn not trying to dehumanize men I am rather, trying to understand them.

I dont remember who but someone made and excellent point about men giving up and avoiding pain quicker than women. I find that to very very true but men should realise not everyone wants to just be a "fck buddy" until you learn to trust again. It's not fair.

excoba101:

They don't even know. They need an expert to tell them, they read novels and mags to know.

Just as weather changes, so is their needs.   

Sorry, i mean (some of) the kind of women we have these day. The Y2Ks. 

Baba Excoba, you can say that again. [s]I've never seen dafter and more confused creature(s)[/s] . Indeed, I've seen it all in 'em hence I GIVE UP!




Chin Chin!