Mygoldie:

^^ he keeps ignoring me, dunno why.lol.he must be a very angry fellow.

MzDarkSkin:

@Ifedisky of course I would have! I was really feeling that dude! Ok well let's get to the specifics I wouldn't reject him if it were JUST the child issue but the fact that he had another woman, you are right. No chance in hell! BUT HE should have been man enough to make the decision and asked himself: "do I want more than one girl? should I bother this girl with my baggage and all or should i think with the RIGHT head and stick to my son's mother?" His holding it out on me is what hurt the most because I essentially fell inlove with a figment of my imagination "the perfect guy".

PORNODUDE: @poster- i need to know answers to the following questions. i would appreciate it if you could help me out

1. why does hearing the words "i love you". seem so important to a lady? for us guys, the whole "i love you" business begins to get boring after about a week or two, or after he has had sex. but for a lady, she always needs to hear it.

I love you seems important to us women because we are lovers from the inside first before we are sexually. For men it is the opposite as you clearly explained in the bolded part.

2. why does being in a relationship, loving and sharing, etc seem so important to a lady though to we guys, it seems having great sex is paramount to any other thing in a relationship.

Again because women seek a connection on a spiritual and soulful sense, for men (MOST) it is physical first and then the "lubby dubby" stuff later.

3. why do ladies place sex second to love and affections? it is the opposite with guys.
For this question we could debate on this alone because in my opinion men are made to have more than one partner NATURALLY, however having grown up in a western country I am used to the monogomous life style so therefore I want that connection with my man to where I can feel like we are connected with and without sex. Any relationship that revolves solely around sex is doomed from the beginning because as we get older our bodies change. If everyone thought like the average man, by the time the first sexual encounter is over it would be time to rotate to someone else and by the time we are 50 and older we would retire single.

4. once ladies feel that a guy just wants to use them as a fork buddy, it hurts them so much. even though the guy might not necessary see them as such and might just be trying to satisfy his immediate urges.
Frigging someone else and lying to even the person on the side to satisfy sexual urges is SELFISH PERIOD! there is no justification for that. Women have what is called a "woman's intuition" or a 6th sense we are not fools, if we get even a winch of doubt, there is a good reason for it.

5. no matter what heights a lady has achieved professionally, she is not fully happy until she has married (even though the man is not financially and professionally up to her standard).
is this the same issue? lol this is for another topic. . .


pls these are qusetions which baffle me abt ladies and their behaviour, thanks poster.
seems more like statements than questions  

*666*:

Thank you! Thank you!! Thank you!!!    But i hope Yorisb is not here to throw grenades at me today?    because i understand he has the honigos fire burning inside him.

Agent k-money £ (our surveillance system), what has been happening on NL so far? Any recruit?

Why are men so insensitive to the feelings of women?

Mygoldie:

kay this your pics are funny, damn!!

Like I said earlier, check yourself and stop crying!

MzDarkSkin:

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@Ifedisky [/b] I am not obligated to "feel him" for flaws. He should have been 100%

MzDarkSkin:

@Ifedisky There is no excuse for lying to a woman to screw her. None what so ever!

MzDarkSkin:

but the bottom line is take the mentality of a 18 year old naive virgin school girl vs. a 19 year old experienced sex addicted male and it is identical to the scenario of a Lion stalking prey, nothing romantic about it just heartless.

adolfe bad:

@ OP
if i may ask~
what are the needs of a woman?

MzDarkSkin:

@Omo i will check myself but your tone was not inviting. You felt some type of way about the post and decided to give me attitude.

@excoba i am sure he (omo) wouldnt want to side with a tribalist who is also a stalker. If you pick a fight with me again you will regret it.

MzDarkSkin:

My emotions can cause me to fail or ignore seeing the truth/logic. He knew how inexperienced and shy I was and he lured me. I should have stuck to my instincts yes but the influence and the circumstances were much for me to think rational: just getting out of the house, meet a cute guy who likes me, get to know this hot guy and he tells me he loves me. I mean come on! You kno he was full of it. I am not saying ALL men are like him but alot of times men are not interested in figuring out the psyche of women which makes the relationship difficult between the two for many couples.

Akainzo:

Because somehow, we are made different from ladies by the Lord. For the fact that we are males, we are very much logical in our thoughts and this to a large extent drives our relationships and how we go about them.

In simple terms, we determine logically the sequence towards our achieving our goal and we go for it. The truth is, some gals wants you to know upfront that all they want is a nice bleep, while others want to be all lovey-dovey. Once a guy logically reasons out the route to the goal, then he goes for it. In your own case, you needed the loving-doting-relationship thingy and he gave it all to you. You fell in love and then the inevitable happened.

excoba101:



How can i be fighting a shabby little girl who always want to have her way, who want to correct people in a rude manner and at the same time want people to adore her? I never seen anyone more sillier.
If i catch you winning your mouth about Nigeria/Nigerians again you will be in soup.

Am i cleared?

For me the needs of women are to be loved, given affection and understanding. To be with a guy who "protects womanhood and represents manhood".

excoba101:



How can i be fighting a shabby little girl who always want to have her way, who want to correct people in a rude manner and at the same time want people to adore her? I never seen anyone more sillier.
If i catch you winning your mouth about Nigeria/Nigerians again you will be in soup.
Am i cleared?

My Man Nwayo kwa! *Exits thread forthwith*





Keke na Pepe!

oniema:

@OP always luv wif your eyes open, wat u complaining of happen to some men too and they never hold any female responsible for it. I think you need to always access things b4 u fall head over heel in luv for a guy. Fine 80% of us both male & female are player but ave u really sit down to analyse wat turns them into a player?

I was once deeply in love with a lady and cos of NYSC she decided to let go of me if i'm not a self willed man i know wat will ave happen but how many of us can stay off revenge. check urself if in the course of you living your life u ave not in anyway break a guy's heart

Dont categorize this as a man thing, just try look well b4 u leap and very soon you'll find someone that is meant for you