Women and men have different perspectives. For a woman: the house, kids, security, etc. equal a successful relationship. Once they get that, they don't give a sh*t about the man (other than he still provides). This doesn't matter if the woman works or not, what social strata they are in, etc.

For men: They want/need emotional connection. I know a lot of e-virgins who think they are "alpha" will disagree. The man gets the house, kids, security and they still NEED the emotional connection. Problem is, the woman is done with her goals and doesn't need to provide that connection.

It doesn't matter if the woman is a Playboy bunny or a PhD, they all have the same general idea of what a successful relationship looks like. And it rarely matches the ideal of men.

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Noigeeriaa:

Women and men have different perspectives. For a woman: the house, kids, security, etc. equal a successful relationship. Once they get that, they don't give a excreta about the man (other than he still provides). This doesn't matter if the woman works or not, what social strata they are in, etc.

For men: They want/need emotional connection. I know a lot of e-virgins who think they are "alpha" will disagree. The man gets the house, kids, security and they still NEED the emotional connection. Problem is, the woman is done with her goals and doesn't need to provide that connection.

It doesn't matter if the woman is a Playboy bunny or a PhD, they all have the same general idea of what a successful relationship looks like. And it rarely matches the ideal of men.

Let me step up. I guess that also applies to me as a "e-virgin"    Good analogy for some women. But it's not true for all women.  Yes, livedit wants the house, the kids, the dog(s), security etc., but I also need and want to have chemistry and the emotional connection with my man too. What's the point of having the house, the kids, the security and not be emotionally and spiritually connected to that person. I have to have all the above to make me completely happy. I'd be like walking around in a empty shell.  Far as this "e-virgin" is concerned, my mate's happiness matters to me like my very own. So there won't be no lacking on either parts.

what the fuss about?