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Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Andotee: 7:52pm On Jan 28, 2020
Apologies for the long post.

This issue started about 8 months ago. I met a girl at a friend’s party then I made a move towards her. During this period I did, I made sure I confirmed her relationship status which she convinced me she was single.

One thing led to another we started chatting daily, exchanging pictures and the usual drill.

I got to know this same girl and my guy are dating (meanwhile she is still telling me she is single).

I realized this guy has fallen deeply with a slut so as to protect a friend and respect the Bro code I informed him about everything that has been happening between us. I made sure he sees all the conversations I had with her just to prove to him that I got his back and will never betray him.

I advised him not breakup with her. He should just have it at the back of his mind that she isn’t the kind of girl he can date. If she can do that between two friends, what will she do with other guys?

After telling him all these, he went on and told the girl everything. As expected, the girl denied everything and being the idiot that he is, he continued with her. The thing now is she went on to tell our mutual friends that I tried coming between her and her boyfriend. (I am not bothered though)

The question now is, should I have ignored the bro code and have sex with his girlfriend?

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Andotee: 7:55pm On Jan 28, 2020
Lalasticlala

Please your attention is needed sir
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by 1beat(m): 7:58pm On Jan 28, 2020
You have try,
I will advise you not to ruin your good character, sex is not everything. by the time ur mumu friend brain is reset he will come back to you to apologise. but, if you are the type that do not bother about good character or what people will say. you can go on Nack am, Nack d girl.

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by budaatum: 7:59pm On Jan 28, 2020
Sounds to me like you are so bothered that you are now asking us here what it is that you should do lol!

You should have followed the 'take your own advise' code to begin with.

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Snipper007: 8:01pm On Jan 28, 2020
op you are a MUGU, a real G will fuuuck her so he can keep a prove that she's nothing but an oloshoo but as a MUGU that you are you went and spilled everything to your fellow MUGU but the good thing about his part is that the cookie is still very much at his disposal while you have lost out....... This is 2020 and guys are still falling for the big fat lie "I AM SINGLE" Fuckkk you op cos you just broke the bro code.

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Andotee: 8:02pm On Jan 28, 2020
budaatum:
Sounds to me like you are so bothered that you are now asking us here what it is that you should do lol!

You should have followed the 'take your own advise' code to begin with.

I am not bothered about this particular outcome. I asked a question for future references. By the way, what is this Advise I should have taken?
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Chamber2000: 8:05pm On Jan 28, 2020
You are just an Amebo.


Since when does loyalty means a thing to naija gals

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Oluneutral: 8:08pm On Jan 28, 2020
Two wrongs doesn't make a right.

Continue showing that you're a matured dude, and sooner or later, the girl will respect you for that.

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by budaatum: 8:09pm On Jan 28, 2020
Andotee:


By the way, what is this Advise I should have taken?
This advise.

Andotee:
He should just have it at the back of his mind that she isn’t the kind of girl she can date.

And before you say you were not dating, "8 months ago", is when this started.
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Snipper007: 8:12pm On Jan 28, 2020
Oluneutral:
Two wrongs doesn't make a right.

Continue showing that you're a matured dude, and sooner or later, the girl will respect you for that.
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Andotee: 8:15pm On Jan 28, 2020
1beat:
You have try,
I will advise you not to ruin your good character, sex is not everything. by the time ur mumu friend brain is reset he will come back to you to apologise. but, if you are the type that do not bother about good character or what people say you can go on Nack am, Nack d girl.

I can’t have sex with a friend’s babe. Reason why I informed him about everything. I just don’t want him to be hurt but apparently, I was wrong.

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Andotee: 8:16pm On Jan 28, 2020
Snipper007:
op you are a MUGU, a real G will fuuuck her so he can keep a prove that she's nothing but an oloshoo but as a MUGU that you are you went and spilled everything to your fellow MUGU but the good thing about his part is that the cookie is still very much at his disposal while you have lost out....... This is 2020 and guys are still falling for the big fat lie "I AM SINGLE" Fuckkk you op cos you just broke the bro code.

You are blabbing without making any sense. How was the bro code broken here?

You should see a shrink.

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Andotee: 8:17pm On Jan 28, 2020
Chamber2000:
You are just an Amebo.


Since when does loyalty means a thing to naija gals

What has Amebo got to do with telling a friend that his girl tried to Bleep me?

You are not brainy

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Snipper007: 8:18pm On Jan 28, 2020
Andotee:


You are blabbing without making any sense. How was the bro code broken here?

You should see a shrink.

Anyways your still a learner

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Andotee: 8:19pm On Jan 28, 2020
Oluneutral:
Two wrongs doesn't make a right.

Continue showing that you're a matured dude, and sooner or later, the girl will respect you for that.


I cut ties with them already. Can’t be around toxic people

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Andotee: 8:21pm On Jan 28, 2020
budaatum:

This advise.

And before you say you were not dating, "8 months ago", is when this started.

She isn’t the type of girl any guy can take seriously because she is a slut. I got to know about that then I cut ties with her...wanted to save a friend from heartbreak as well.

I never said we dated did I?

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Andotee: 8:21pm On Jan 28, 2020
Snipper007:


Anyways your still a learner

And you are dull

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Martinez39s(m): 8:22pm On Jan 28, 2020
You have done well.
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Snipper007: 8:23pm On Jan 28, 2020
Andotee:


And you are dull
MUGU, Mr bro code

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Chamber2000: 8:24pm On Jan 28, 2020
Andotee:


What has Amebo got to do with telling a friend that his girl tried to Bleep me?

You are not brainy
GA Gwa Nna gi that he is not brainy
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by AfroKnight: 8:26pm On Jan 28, 2020
Your friend is a foôl. grin

Don’t tell a person in love what you don’t want their lover to know. They will always tell their partners. Always.

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jan 28, 2020
you did nothing wrong my brother. just leave your foolish friend to his fate.
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by budaatum: 8:32pm On Jan 28, 2020
Andotee:


I never said we dated did I?
No you never. 8 months just went by while you didn't.
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by CharlesJok3r: 8:33pm On Jan 28, 2020
Your friend is very foolish and immature. Stop dealing with that kind of people.
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by fcdgrand(m): 9:15pm On Jan 28, 2020
dealing with simp man about woman is dangerous!, so you are wrong

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by CAPSLOCKED: 9:44pm On Jan 28, 2020
YOU DID A RIGHT, BUT YOU CAN'T TRUST THESE SIMPS NOWADAYS.

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by MJBOLT: 9:48pm On Jan 28, 2020
you,your friend and the girl are all mad

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Tomide007: 9:51pm On Jan 28, 2020
DT guy is a puss* .........u shouldn't move with an idiot like DT....as in he even asked the girl? WTF...Its guys like that that'll end up fathering another man's child grin

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by makydebbie(f): 9:53pm On Jan 28, 2020
The way I would've minded my business if I was in your shoes lol.
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by pocohantas(f): 9:59pm On Jan 28, 2020
What exactly is the issue.

You asked her if she is SINGLE, she said yes.

Or is she MARRIED to your friend?

You want her to keep changing relationship status like pant abi? Single, dating, in a relationship, engaged, about to wed, complicated, back to single again. grin

Abeg o, I am single till I am married.

Any relationship status I can't see on official documents is INVALID.

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Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by bukatyne(f): 10:04pm On Jan 28, 2020
Andotee:
Apologies for the long post.

This issue started about 8 months ago. I met a girl at a friend’s party then I made a move towards her. During this period I did, I made sure I confirmed her relationship status which she convinced me she was single.

One thing led to another we started chatting daily, exchanging pictures and the usual drill.

I got to know this same girl and my guy are dating (meanwhile she is still telling me she is single).

I realized this guy has fallen deeply with a slut so as to protect a friend and respect the Bro code I informed him about everything that has been happening between us. I made sure he sees all the conversations I had with her just to prove to him that I got his back and will never betray him.

I advised him not breakup with her. He should just have it at the back of his mind that she isn’t the kind of girl he can date. If she can do that between two friends, what will she do with other guys?

After telling him all these, he went on and told the girl everything. As expected, the girl denied everything and being the idiot that he is, he continued with her. The thing now is she went on to tell our mutual friends that I tried coming between her and her boyfriend. (I am not bothered though)

The question now is, should I have ignored the bro code and have sex with his girlfriend?

What are you regretting?
Re: Was I Wrong For Upholding The Bro Code? by Andotee: 10:05pm On Jan 28, 2020
makydebbie:
The way I would've minded my business if I was in your shoes lol.

You will gladly watch a friend get hurt?

I pity the unfortunate souls who calls you friend

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