MARRYING A SINGLE MOTHER.
(MARRIAGE EXPO FOR MEN).

Most folks, especially Nigerian men, do feel they are doing women favour when they marry them as single mothers, but it's a paradox and a social myth that must be educated.

In my research as a counselor, I have discovered that 90% of single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market when we go to buy.

Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE, some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings. If it's deliberate because she doesn't want to marry a man, you can just date her and walk away; but if it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.

12 EXPO
1. Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.

2. If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.

3. Don't forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.

4. Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they err.

5. If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget, see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.

6. If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the biological father.

7. Ensure the child is in the same school with your kids, if not that child's educational setbacks will influence your kids negatively when they play together. If the father supports good, but if he does not be ready to train the child alongside your kids for uniformity of knowledge.

8. If the child is a female child/children, you will have less parenting to do because female children easily relieve parents once the are adult or even get married.

9. 90% of SINGLE MOTHERS are faithful in marriage and wouldn't pull infidelity string to damage the engine of TRUST in the marriage system; they feel you have sacrificed enough to win their trust and faithfulness.

10. Single Mums are SUPERWOMEN. For a woman to play the role of both parents and bear the responsibility of raising a child/children, don't joke with such a woman, because even if you die in future she can take care of your family.

11. Single Mums are SEX SATISFIERS. They will lock you down in bed for good sex so you don't look outside to avoid stories that will touch the heart.

12. Most Single Mothers are good cooks and God fearing; the fact that she did not abort the child justifies her SACREDNESS AND GOD'S FEAR.

Go Brother! It will go well. Buy her a ring and pop the big question "Will You Marry Me?"... I see tears of Joy in her eyes as she says.."Yes I will". You won't regret the step you have taken brother. May God see you through as I join my faith with yours in prayer. SHOUT OUT TO ALL SINGLE MUMS WORLDWIDE!
I cherish you people most in my life because to be a single mother is not easy.
Good morning to you all and happy weekend

This is too good. Wow.

Yet I refuse to be a single mum

Ladylite:
This is too good. Wow.

Yet I refuse to be a single mum

yes cause you wrote your own destiny and fate by yourself, nobody is wiser than God...

Ladylite:
This is too good. Wow.

Yet I refuse to be a single mum

yes cause you wrote your own destiny and fate by yourself, nobody is wiser than God...
what that will be will always be,just pray for Grace...

The writeup is wonderful but ehmm, my final answer is still NO.

we hear

Like d one I see every day never heard her speak, smiles a lot, beautiful and cool.
Never seen her with guys.
Sometimes I just wonder her she ended up becoming a single mom.

Op is the Director General of SMAN...(Single Moms Association of Nigeria)

So op well done at ur work...

But this is Nigeria where the Single mom fit see ur stooping low to marry her as a sign of weakness and will bore the hell out of ya life...

Naija ladies rarely appreciate favours.

Nobe only single mom. Sinlge grandma nko

all this long epistle just to tell us you are a single mother looking for a man ?

the only good thing I see about them is the last point . they are not murderers

You forgot to add ,they put their kids first ,no matter what u do even if you marry that child gets her love first and u come second

SlimyJ:

yes cause you wrote your own destiny and fate by yourself, nobody is wiser than God...
what that will be will always be,just pray for Grace...

God want unmarried woman to be collecting prick and getting pregnant?

Faber:
Op is the Director General of SMAN...(Single Moms Association of Nigeria)

So op well done at ur work...

But this is Nigeria where the Single mom fit see ur stooping low to marry her as a sign of weakness and will bore the hell out of ya life...

Naija ladies rarely appreciate favours.

Weldon Mr favour,so you also considered marrying a woman as doing her a favour?
You really have to work hard on your mentality...

SlimyJ:

yes cause you wrote your own destiny and fate by yourself, nobody is wiser than God...
what that will be will always be,just pray for Grace...

Nonsense.

A lady has unprotected sex, gets pregnant for a man who is irresponsible enough not to take full responsibility of his actions and you're here talking about praying for grace. Mr. Man go and sit down. What will be will be my foot.

Read with an open mind.

jeff1607:

You forgot to add ,they put their kids first ,no matter what u do even if you marry that child gets her love first and u come second

Lostz:
God want unmarried woman to be collecting prick and getting pregnant?

you are not wise,do you think most of single moms gave birth out of wedlock?
Capital NO,many of them were legally married,many left their marriages cause it became toxic,many became single in other to avoid domestic violence..

IyaTola:
Read with an open mind.

true or false
noted

SlimyJ:

you are not wise,do you think most of single moms gave birth out of wedlock?
Capital NO,many of them were legally married,many left their marriages cause it became toxic,many became single in other to avoid domestic violence..

we both know most single mothers in Nigeria are the never married prick collectors

Lostz:
we both know most single mothers in Nigeria are the never married prick collectors

Thank God you said most..
what about the said ones that are yet to give birth but have damaged inside or do you think they don't collect pricks too?

SlimyJ:

Thank God you said most..
what about the said ones that are yet to give birth but have damaged inside or do you think they don't collect pricks too?

will you jump into a well you see with your eyes? the baby is the evidence she collect prick for a living

Lostz:
will you jump into a well you see with your eyes? the baby is the evidence she collect prick for a living

so you mean all single mothers are into runs?
If that is your reasoning,then it shows how tattered your brain is.

Wow wow wow!

SlimyJ:

so you mean all single mothers are into runs?
If that is your reasoning,then it shows how tattered your brain is.

stop insulting Mr man. you can have all the single mother for yourself

jeff1607:

You forgot to add ,they put their kids first ,no matter what u do even if you marry that child gets her love first and u come second

Every parent puts their kids first. Wont you love your children more than your wife?

Blu03:
Every parent puts their kids first. Wont you love your children more than your wife?

wife comes first obirin

kids grow up n leave

men don't leave their houses to stay a month with kids and be comfortable there but mothers can without anyone batting an eyelid

men don't go for omuguo

we are providers and protectors of the realm if a man goes down children don't put their lives on pause to be there 247 only wives or mother of the man will.

you can't borrow money from your kids without feeling down but from wife u can and pay back without downgrading yourself.

if anyone should abandon a man in his time n need ,his mother, wife or family members won't but kids move on


men build their lives around their families ,wives and kids don't , whose life do you think women build their lives around?

All men aren't the same miss

I don't wear used clothes, I don't buy used goods, I don't eat leftovers, definitely not buying a second or third hand woman.

jeff1607:



wife comes first obirin

kids grow up n leave

men don't leave their houses to stay a month with kids and be comfortable there but mothers can without anyone batting an eyelid

men don't go for omuguo

we are providers and protectors of the realm if a man goes down children don't put their lives on pause to be there 247 only wives or mother of the man will.

you can't borrow money from your kids without feeling down but from wife u can and pay back without downgrading yourself.

if anyone should abandon a man in his time n need ,his mother, wife or family members won't but kids move on


All men aren't the same miss

Majority of people wouldn't agree. Infact you're the only one i've come across with this mentality.
So your point dissing single mothers is more of a personal opinion.

Blu03:
Majority of people wouldn't agree. Infact you're the only one i've come across with this mentality.
So your point dissing single mothers is more of a personal opinion.

not dissing single moms ma

it's a general thing with women not just single moms

some single moms are far better than most single ladies out there, things Op stated are true, a woman who has seen it all n experienced everything ,you don't need to tell her what to do, peace of mind cos they hardly cheat ,they aren't moved by material things and not easily moved by little whims, if a single is true to you then the rest is history.

what more does a man want other than peace of mind and when you ask for advice the answers u get as a man is as if Solomon told her to tell you but such sweetness comes at a price, moreover one can't get everything perfect in a man or woman some imperfections will definitely be there,the issue is it tolerable can it be tolerated?


Mind you not all single moms are the same ,the same goes for single women

Balderdash. If you want to advance a cause, don’t come with sentimental half truths, assumptions and outright falsehood.

Single moms wrapper

Aint buying dat.... Aint buying dat....