Check if she is showing other signs of depression. This is one

emptytoothpaste:
Boss, for the next 2 months, do this experiment. Start coming back home 1 or 2 hours later than you normally come back. Always enter your house with a big smile on your face, greet your wife well and be radiant around her, smile well. Then do every other thing you have been advised here already, share in house chores if you like, massage her, tell her sweet nothings etc

But don't ask your wife for sex during this experimental period. Inshort, if she comes to touch you, gently tell her you're not in the mood.

Right now she has all the power because na you dey always go dey beg am to put just the tip. Take that power away from her.

Bottomline is, send her mixed signals, let her be confused by your actions, It will intrigue her and she will second-guess herself.

If all these things no work after 2 months, find one confirmed coded side-chic, nack am wella, be discreet and use condoms.

We, the Council of Men, agree that you have tried, 6 months is not beans, body is not firewood!

So you're encouraging the man to cheat on his wife?

You see why you men would never stop fathering bastards. Continue.