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Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by pelumyyyyy: 2:56pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Either it is Spiritual healing Or Dem done do press up on top your wife oooo |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by shindala: 4:05pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Sorry dude. I'm sure dealing with this must be very difficult. But you shouldn't have to deal with it alone. You claim to love her and you say she completes you, yet you couldn't tell her something as serious as this. My advise though, don't go through with the marriage. Find a way to end it quietly. If the treatment does work and you have children of your own, you'll never love that child she's pregnant with. You'll always hate and detest the child and maybe one day you'll even end up telling it to her face and then the marriage will be over. What if the child doesn't look like either of you, then one day, someone just comes into the house to see your wife and you look and just know that he's the father. Don't do something you'll regret. You'll never be happy. Confront her about it now. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Fadoria: 4:10pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
good afternoon,please let her know everything about u,open up to her please...let her know even if u want the child as urs,i know what u are thinking that she might misbehave ones she knows u know just put everything in God hand..please open up to her............open up to her.................open up to her.......open up to her....open up to her......open up to her |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by peacettw: 4:56pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Doubleoh7: You can't help it, can't you? I understand that it can be quite hard to turn down the stupid but don't worry, I am here to help. I just came back from work and of course received yet another dose of your incoherent write up. I must confess that it triggered something in me so I took the liberty of calling a number of my colleagues that deal with real infertility issues to help refute your stupidity. The conclusion is this... I am RIGHT and you my dear, are just incredibly naive and so f...ing porous. Get some real education and stop being silly. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by 6ixT8: 5:02pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Na person wey father pikin, pikin the call father. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by peacettw: 5:06pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
BRATISLAVA: Hahahahaha. OK your comment is hilarious. op is yet to tell us why an endocrinologist is managing his case. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by ojoduoludare(m): 5:29pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
sterile can sleep with a lady? |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by jagojunior(m): 5:29pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Your cousin already told your fiancee the truth but advised her to use the "I am pregnant" trick on you so that you can open up. She's not pregnant, she's only trying to hear the truth from you as confirmation Use your head � 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Sexyliciousbri: 5:30pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
the only way to deal with this is confront her and let her know that your sterile |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by BRATISLAVA: 5:31pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
peacettw: |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by 9icetoo(m): 6:24pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
xynniey:Fixed |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by mmyfarmsltd(m): 6:45pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Get a DNA done after delivery. And pray you get better before nine months. Delay any marital rights until she puts to bed. Be logical. Don't express your awareness yet. Calm down. Be cool. Stay collected. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Exodora: 6:52pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
I just like this story right now .A woman cheating on her man . God punish all them men that said is in their nature to cheat . Sorry am saying this but I love it at least you guys will have a feel on how painful it is when you cheat on your woman. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by WORLDPEACE(m): 7:28pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Romangalactic: I hope and pray it is yours too. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by WORLDPEACE(m): 7:36pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Mstick: I like the cast. But how Tunde Ednut take enter the movie. Is it through old or new Nollywood? |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Fortissimo502: 9:30pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
I smell lies... |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Buuks77: 9:36pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Romangalactic:so are you trying to say that the scripture is lying. Please the truth will always nd i repeat always set u free. Please dont start your family with deceit. Please call her and open up to her 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Buuks77: 9:39pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
jagojunior:good observations |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by lekonso: 11:23pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Who told you you can't the father of that child, doctors' reports are not perfect every time. The only way you can know is through a DNA test done in two different places. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by shaw2(m): 12:55am On Feb 07, 2020 |
You yourself knows that your making a big mistake. First of all You should never trust a verdict of health personnel, they are not God and can't be perfect. What if ur fertile? And his outdated machine keep showing negative results. Secondly The main reason for marriage is to multiply How can you not be honest with whom u plan to settle down with. You should have empathy, it's a crime when a man/woman hides their fertility defects. Finally like I said before you know ur making a big mistake if u marry that woman, if truly the baby isn't urs, u will live the rest of ur life in pain seeing urself training another man's child. And that woman will also detest u. Do the needful Check another professional, conduct fresh test and know the outcome maybe by God's grace that baby might be urs. And I have a feeling it's urs. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by shaw2(m): 1:04am On Feb 07, 2020 |
I thought as much, but sometimes people are really in need of help. If this guy is intentionally riding nairalanders only God can judge him Nnemuka: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by shaw2(m): 1:12am On Feb 07, 2020 |
Guy it doesn't cost much I advice every man from 26yrs and above to go for sperm count test. That money ur using to flex chicks upandan save a little and go do the needful. Earlier treatment matters a lot. To avoid buying a child from baby factory when God gave u ur own machine to produce urs. Iceking1: |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Ghokes(m): 9:26am On Feb 07, 2020 |
Poo happens. Continue with the treatment for now. Get DNA tests done on the "child" you expecting in future, if results shows him/her as yours, you thank God. If otherwise, discuss it with your wife and you both continue with your life together. But again, what is the cause or diagnosis making you sterile? |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by drnoel: 12:28pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Romangalactic: Doesn't necessarily mean she cheated. Story is incomplete, like when u wedded and how far gone she is and when u last had unprotected sex (sterile or not). Without a complete story one can't make a decisive decision 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by comtem2011: 3:30pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Romangalactic:It's possible the pregnancy might be yours, I remember an incident that happened over 10 years ago, I had a friend then, he was told that he can't father a child that he needs to undergo some treatments, immediately he left the hospital, he travelled to the village to meet his girlfriend of then, they did the normal, Lo and behold, the girl carry belle o. After she gave birth they did traditional marriage and church wedding,. They have 4 kids together now. Living together happily. If you see the first child, he is a split image of the Dad. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Nobody: 4:53pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Two of you are the same, you lied and hid something from her and she did the same thing to you. You're not really in a position to feel cheated. If you have made up your mind to marry her, then go ahead and accept the first child as yours. Go ahead and marry. Telling your cousin is also a rotten move. Keep your relationship between you two. Why are you seeing an endocrinologist and not an urologist. Was it a hormonal issue or diabetes that made you sterile? Romangalactic: |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by lilyheaven: 1:19am On Feb 09, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: How did you know she cheated? |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Nobody: 7:15am On Feb 09, 2020 |
lilyheaven:I read the story. Simple. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by lilyheaven: 12:40pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Gcool2(m): 7:35pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
The problem I have with nl is the poster won't tell us how he later resolved it .. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by biridon(m): 7:03am On Apr 05, 2020 |
you are worse that that lady.. you hid that kinda info from her?. you deserve to be cheated on.. and you want to make us pity you and hate her.. you got your type bro..#cheaters |
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