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Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Discombulator: 10:18pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Funny situation,it's a win win situation for you,keep the child as yours cos you might not be able to father any children till you die,at least that way you got a cover up and test yourself outside marriage to see if your treatment works and if it does get another woman pregnant secretly, make children with her but still keep your wife and the lie,life goes on bro. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Gentleswift(m): 10:18pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Romangalactic:how would feel seeing this child everyday and knowing ure raising a bastard? It'll deprive u of ur joy and, inner peace.. Uve made a mistake before by not telling her initially, don't make the second one... She should f**k off |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by toprealman: 10:18pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
About to be a father? The worst form of lie is the one we lie to console our stupidity. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by NICOGRAVITY: 10:18pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Something tells me you have been eating the forbidden fruit with her. So, wait until after delivery, go for paternity test. Before you finally conclude that she cheated on you, do the paternity text after delivery. Miracles happens. You could have been healed. Your body could have tolerated the treatment faster than anticipated. Be wise, and only conclude with evidence. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Longman180(m): 10:20pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
adontcare: 1 Like
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Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by stephnie44(f): 10:20pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
[b][/b] Romangalactic:u might b d father once happened to my broda he was told he can't father a child he tried his luck boom his girlfriend became pregnant he didn't hesitate to ask her to keep it.they got married he tried again another child.so don't b in a haste to conclude.once ur child is born go for dna just act like a husband to her till she puts to bed.pls don't forget to update us later in 9 mths time 10 Likes |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Judybash93(m): 10:21pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
There are two things involved, it's either you're the father or she cheated on you. A DNA test will unleash the truth probably after four months but that's gonna be difficult since she doesn't know your predicament. So, i guess you'll have to wait until after the kid is born. Everybody will be alright las las. Cheers 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Lleigh(f): 10:21pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
You say you love this woman. You know there is that 5% chance that the baby is yours? If you accuse her of infidelity and the child is yours you might lose her forever. You might still be together but the dynamics of your relationship might change. Also what makes you think she doesn't know that you are sterile? Has she ever given you cause to doubt? And something you said, that I found interesting. This baby will stop families asking why you haven't had children. That it will save face for both of you. Your secret might not be so secret after all 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Pavarottii(m): 10:21pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Guy u don't need to tell me that u r not leaving a peaceful and happy life... Just say the truth... There is peace in truth. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by 2sexycom(m): 10:22pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
@wackyj1 |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Tedpgrass: 10:22pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
NICOGRAVITY: Most sensible advice is above... Either that or threaten her in a hilarious stylish fashion as described much earlier If she knows your predicament, she go bring child from the next door mallam/ gateman.. Next tomorrow she fit put your cousin join, so your family people no go dey talk say the different pickin no look like their broda.... . You dare to talk.. She go threaten to release your secrets!!!! For those singing Self preservation......He he and so wetin.... For dis Lagos where girls dey harsh!! Leave trash for LAWNA jare Mcccheeeewwwwws. . 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by NwanyiOkpa(f): 10:23pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
keepingmum: He did not deceive her into marriage. He just never spoke of the sterility. They are two different things. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by yvelchstores(f): 10:24pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
What happens when, after the marriage, she brings another pregnancy to you? Darling, she will say, we have another on the way..... Few years later, another on the way.... How will you feel? You both are not good for ur selves. Honesty and transparency, zero.... Well, except this baby is really yours.this is an unfortunate position you are in. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by B2K4LUV(m): 10:25pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
OP, it's better to set things right now, because imagine after this one, if she gets pregnant again would you believe it yours? . Their are things someone can keep quiet about certainly no this. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by QuiverBox(f): 10:25pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
It beats my Imagination , why a sterile /Woman insist on getting married. Just remain Single and be Happy |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by themonk(m): 10:26pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Sanchez01:First and formost, go to another endocrinologist and confirm you sperm is still and really sterile. There are lots of quack doctors and equipments out there so you need confirmation for another hospital/doctor. If this is confirmed them she cheated. Secondly, Just tell her you have some information that she had sex with another guy and that you do not trust the baby to be yours. That the wedding must proceed after she has given birth and a paternity test is done. She will confess. But then again she might deny because she doesn't know if you or the other guy fathered the child so she might want to take the gamble that it is yours. Just tell her you are very sure because the information came from a reliable source and that if she doesn't say the truth you will quit the marriage and tell her family. Just act like you really really know she cheated. Thirdly, Do whatever makes you happy. You lied to her and she is a cheat. Can you marry a cheat? If you love her to a fault then marry her and keep the child. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by faithfull18(f): 10:27pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Scary. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Nobody: 10:27pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
unbetreeable.... abeg una goodnite... may God deliver u and ur soulmate! unbetreeable.... abeg una goodnite... may God deliver u and ur soulmate! |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by pocohantas(f): 10:27pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Nnemuka: Mad oooo! 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by SweetCunt97(f): 10:28pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Hisincrease:Lol. She's his messiah. A sterile man who can't bear children should be grateful that the wife is keeping societal shame away from their home. He should break up huh? So another unfortunate lady deserves a sterile man ba? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Tedpgrass: 10:29pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Discombulator: Creating unnecessary hassles.. The days where childlessness was seen as a total pariah is slowly coming to an end!! Couples are choosing to delay childbearing, have sperm/egg donation or simply adopt.. It's all about having an open frank discussion about your wants and expectations. If the pickin isn't mine, the corner eye wey I go give am and the mama will last a lifetime.. To me that child is physical evidence of an indiscretion! That she's not even owned up to or apologised... Tufiakwa.. That pesin fit kill . 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by SweetCunt97(f): 10:30pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
QuiverBox:Hope Nigerians knows marriage is not just about having kids. There are couples who decide not to bear children, to them they love their companionship without kids coming in between |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Nobody: 10:30pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Romangalactic:you will end up regretting. it is not compulsory to give birth |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by sammieguze(m): 10:31pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
what do you think you would reap while you were sewing wind of distrust and deceit? Whirlwind of course. Take your L in peace jare. You both deserve one another. Bye bye. ���give, it shall be given unto you good measure shaken together and running over ��� |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by SweetCunt97(f): 10:32pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
grafixdon:Is that not like kidnapping on d man's part? If she's an angel as he paints her to be, he should tell her. True love knows no bounds like d saying goes. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by A305: 10:32pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Steve jobs was sterile too before the wife got pregnant for their daughter which made Steve jobs hated the girl because he wasnt sure she was his kid. Talk to your lady and if she comes out clean, accept the pregnancy and you both get married and take the secret to the grave. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Toks82: 10:33pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
No woman will stay with a sterile ma, just know she will abscond, but if she decides to stay, that means you may actually the father or she want to save her face. Kai I feel for you ooh BUT you really need to come out clean. If she stays, she stays. if she decides to leave, it will hurt but you would have saved yourself a lot of troubles. Do this and every other thing you are battling to find out will fall in place. My prayers are with you. [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by wiloy2k8(m): 10:33pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Kai this one na complete fool |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Bear007(m): 10:34pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Try another woman... If she get pregnant go for another test |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by fotadmowmend(m): 10:34pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Tell her the truth ... if she insists that the baby is your then so be it ... 1 Like |
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