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Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Nnemuka(f): 7:57am On Feb 06, 2020 |
okpalaAnambra:OP ngwa change that Endocrinologist to Urologist osiso... People wey sabi don land When they pay you, pls send my share oo |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Nobody: 7:58am On Feb 06, 2020 |
I don't know about you but bro am serving a miracle GOD that makes impossible be comes possible. Go back and check ur self u might be the father |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by xpmode(m): 8:02am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Romangalactic: What difference does it make if you adopt a child from outside Or your lady brought another child as a single mother Or she brought pregnancy from outside You can decide to choose what makes you happy, either your medical condition or the woman. The three case does not makes you the biological father of the child. The best is to see psychologist abd both of you should walk in truth, i see you been punish for hiding the truth 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by BRATISLAVA: 8:04am On Feb 06, 2020 |
manontree: I wonder what exactly endocrinologists have to do with urology. Maybe he's transitioning. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Toplexy675(m): 8:04am On Feb 06, 2020 |
i have the video of this movie, i think you are not here for the advice just the traffic as the final decision comes down to you goodluck |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Doubleoh7: 8:06am On Feb 06, 2020 |
peacettw:Are you sure you even know the meaning of obgyn? Oya what will an OBGYN do with the op abi u hear say the op na SHIM? |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Clinghton: 8:08am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Man, I think you have to suffer for your action of not telling the truth in the first place. Now you gonna tell her endure her reaction and check if the foetus is yours. CONSEQUENCE. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Nobody: 8:08am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Don't jump to conclusions. Wait for the baby to be born. Do a paternity test secretly. The doctors are not always right. After you get the results you can be sure of what really happened. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by gbemishile: 8:10am On Feb 06, 2020 |
This story could pass an Hollywood screening Nice script. But me I no foooo |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by peacettw: 8:10am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Doubleoh7:. You know what. I won't dignify that with an answer. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by daisidavid(m): 8:14am On Feb 06, 2020 |
So you haven't know that at least every first child in every family of this generation nowadays are bastard!!! Well I think is better for you not to co.e out with the truth! Go sex your girlfriend and see if she's gonna be pregnant I mean your sidechixk o.... another option tho is that father the baby and later go for DNA test but that's on a long run!!! No kill yourself |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by frozen70(f): 8:18am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Romangalactic: Well you never can tell if your potency has been corrected with you or your doctor knowing Do you normally get erection, if yes does it stand the time required of you while you penetrate her, if yes, do you feel any sensation down there while ejaculating if yes, then you may have been OK Have you been having this issue for how long or it just developed It's time you let her know your medical challenge, openness in any relationship helps both parties to be free with each other I will suggest you tell her a d let her know your situation and how far you have gone Ask her if she ever cheated on you if she says no, fine tell her you will do a DNA test at the right time to be sure of the paternity of that child And if the result comes out negative, you will reject her and the child But if it comes out positive, you will continue to lover her forever Then you also tell her that if she cheated on you by any error, she can as well sort it out her self Her response is what you will hold on to until that child is born and you do the DNA test If she never ever cheated on you, she won't be bothered about the DNA |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by nasoeb: 8:20am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Romangalactic:My bro, marriage isn't just dating, its a life time investment and am sure you are quite mature to know this. One of the major joy of a woman, grandparents is being ae to carry their owm children/ grand children. So Getting married to a lady on a deceitful ground when you know you will deny her the joy of motherhood is PURE WICKEDNESS, (not just to her but to both family) just because of your selfish desire to be with her. What's the essense of loving someone you can't make happy? Well, there is nothing God can't do. - There is possibility you are now potent, so you can check up on another lan (like someone suggested earlier) - There is possibility it was just hormonal changes that occurred in her system, making her to have faulty reading as if she is pregnant, so going to a certify lab to conduct a proper pregnancy test will be one way to go too. - It could also be she is not pregnant, but rather, she has been suspecting you and wondering why you cum in her yet she hasn't taken in, so she decided to prank you so you can come clean. - Or obviously she dey go fire better priick for one corner, come carry belle wan put for your head. My advice is whatever it is dont accept someone's child "base on pretence" that its your's. Cause no matter the reason and no matter how you pretend to love the mother and baby, seeing that baby everytime will always remind you of her infedility. Worst case when you finally have your own child. The mistake has been done but its time to correct it. Dont go ahead and robe innocent chimd into this web of deceit please. Thanks. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Otis7(m): 8:25am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Sanchez01: I really love your comment and the best Nollywood actor of the year 2020 is awarded to you. Congratulations!!! |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by charleoj(m): 8:28am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Forget about the fact that you didn't tell about your sterility. The situation is very delicate cos you might and might not be responsible for the pregnancy. So, since you said you want to continue with her, my advise for you is to wait for her to deliver the baby and go for DNA. Meanwhile you need to stall your wedding till after the delivery. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by edunaragold(f): 8:29am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Oga pls don't open up to her ,since u have started it finish it,any way the pregnancy may open away for u,to have ur own baby.so if u must talk ,do it with evidence OK,by doing patternity test,and pls don't accuse ,her till u catch her red handed,of not your relationship will go down the drain, and try to take her for who she is,with time u will consive.don't let her know now,secret on ur own go and do paternity test.that way u will have a great evidence and out of fault ,when u confront her that how comes u arent the father. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Osasnidas(m): 8:30am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Romangalactic:I hope it's yours... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by adontcare(f): 8:31am On Feb 06, 2020 |
zuto4u:na kini 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by midnighter(f): 8:32am On Feb 06, 2020 |
KosiGee: Do you realise that gonorrhoea doesnt show any symptoms in some people? He's even lucky he noticed a small discharge and got treated in time; some people do not even see anything until their fertility has been completely destroyed. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by edunaragold(f): 8:32am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Oga pls don't open up to her ,since u have started it finish it,any way the pregnancy may open away for u,to have ur own baby.so if u must talk ,do it with evidence OK,by doing patternity test,and pls don't accuse ,her till u catch her red handed,of not your relationship will go down the drain, and try to take her for who she is,with time u will consive.don't let her know now,secret on ur own go and do paternity test.that way u will have a great evidence and out of fault ,when u confront her that how comes u arent the father. What difference does it make if you adopt a child from outside Or your lady brought another child as a single mother Or she brought pregnancy from outside You can decide to choose what makes you happy, either your medical condition or the woman. The three case does not makes you the biological father of the child. So don't say anything yet,still hold your Peace and accept the baby,learn to accept that fact.one that time will tell u when to confront her that is when the paternity test is done. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Doubleoh7: 8:33am On Feb 06, 2020 |
peacettw:You are part of the reason why Nigerian graduates are derided and termed unemployable. OBGYN short for Obstetrics and gynaecology is a branch of medicine that specializes on the female reproductive health but here you are forming boss because you are being corrected. How will a Obgyn treat the op, a male? Learning is a process nobody knows it all. Sometimes it is better to keep quiet and be thought a fool than speak and be confirmed so. Enjoy your ignorance, dumbo! 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Iceking1(m): 8:33am On Feb 06, 2020 |
beautyhd: Bro please do you know how much it costs to do a sperm count text?? Please reply |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by musazulyadain: 8:33am On Feb 06, 2020 |
are you really sure? |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by xynniey(f): 8:34am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Let me lay put the possibilities to you. What if it was truly God that blessed you, i mean the child being ur to prove he is God. What if god let ur spouse get pregnanted by another man knowing the embarrasment that being childless will bring you in the future. So if this ascertion is true, then i think telling her your truth and she telling you her truth will make a better foundation for your future marriage. Now if you dont tell her the truth now, and you go and make her tell whatever u think is going on, then ur marriage has ended before it started. And you will be heading to hell as well for covering up yours. Truth is, we are the ones that make life difficult for ourselves. There are so many sterile men out there with families, there hv an agreement with their wife to get pregnant outside n bring it home. So you see? Just search urself and do what Jesus would have done. Peace 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Mcslize: 8:44am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Romangalactic: You can't be that sure that the child is not yours. Nothing is constant in this life. The only thing that is constant is change itself. Miracles do happens. Go for a DNA test after the birth of the child. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Nobody: 8:46am On Feb 06, 2020 |
An 86-year-old man went to see his doctor for his regular check-up. The doctor asked the old man how he was feeling, and the old man said, "things are great, and I've never felt better! I now have a 20-year-old bride who is pregnant with my child. What do you think about that, doc?" The doctor considered the question for a minute, and then began to tell a story. "I have an older friend, much like you, who is an avid hunter and never misses a season. One day he was setting off to go hunting. In a bit of a hurry, he accidentally picked up his walking cane instead of his gun." "As he neared a lake, he came across a very large male beaver sitting at the water's edge. He realized he left his gun at home, and so, he couldn't shoot the magnificent creature. Out of habit he raised his cane, aimed it at the animal as if it was his favorite hunting rifle, and yelled 'bang bang'. Miraculously, two shots rang out and the beaver fell dead." The 86-year-old jumped in, "How can that be?!? Surely, somebody else shot that beaver." The doctor replied, "my point exactly." |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by wamide042(m): 8:54am On Feb 06, 2020 |
You...Fredrick leonard Your fiancée... Nazo Ekezie Your cousin....Daniel lyod.. A beautiful movie script.... You can sell it to fred Amata |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by midnighter(f): 8:55am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Maybe the OP has a reproductive endocrinologist and not just an endocrinologist 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by alphaNomega: 9:10am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Romangalactic: Go for DNA after birth of child |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Emmanuel602(m): 9:14am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Please o how can one know if he/she is sterile or not, when he/she has never been married 1 Like |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by vale20: 9:16am On Feb 06, 2020 |
There is nothing can not do. I have seen someone with low sperm count produce children ur case might not be different. But try n find out the whole truth from her. |
Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Iceking1(m): 9:21am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Bro have you done low sperm count text as part of your test? If you have please how much does it cost, reply back please |
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