I and my girl friend we have been dating for a while now like 5 to 6 years now, she loves me and i love her too we have a baby girl and right now she is pregnant. but the problem am having is that i have been struggling to make hands meet but nothing is happening, i have a standard job that pays every month end but still yet nothing to show fort. we were in church one night vigil when the pastor says my problem is coming from my girl friends family that they are fighting me so i will not make money and take care of her cause they knew i love her, and she confirm it that her fathers people are very wicked they even killed her dad. i wan to marry her because of my kids and she has been with me for a long time
but my concern now if we will have problem in the long run and mind you she always raise her voice on me anytime we have misunderstanding.

please advice me should i go ahead and marry her or just leave her and face my life

please advice me should i go ahead and marry her or just leave her and face my life

You be mumu!

what do you main by that?


You be mumu![/quote]

Lmao.

With prayers you will be able to overcome, as long as your girls hands are clean you should not bother. I cannot understand why you are impregnating someone's daughter repeatedly without paying bride price.

Marry her if you're ready to face the consequences. If not, japa!

Irresponsible man, you impregnated her the first time, you didn't do right by her and make her a "wife", you still went ahead and impregnated her the second time, now you are looking for excuses to abscond your responsibility.


I don't blame you, it is the lady opening legs for you that I pity.

LilMissFavvy:
With prayers you will be able to overcome, as long as your girls hands are clean you should not bother. I cannot understand why you are impregnating someone's daughter repeatedly without paying bride price.

With prayers? How really?

Your pastor didn't State the fact that you're fornicating?

Op , when a call for foolish people is made , I hope to see you in front of the line

Ask yourself before you started dating her were things even working for you ?

After destroying somebody daughter's life you want to japaaaa

@op which family nor get strongman ? Which family nor get those witches and lizard?
My broda no family free ,even ur own family get their own for body .
As far as the girl is not the one troubling u , do the right thing by marring her the proper way.
Every ur family pple still dey fight d girl, just dat u Neva kwn. Provs 8:22. Wen u do the right thing ,it will be ur portion.
She just dey raise ur voice becox u Neva u do right thing, nor mk her dey furstrated.
If I may ask, u go like make Dem do such to ur sister ?

Forget about what the pastor said. You are the architect of your troubles. Why didn't you use the little you were making to establish yourself or enjoy yourself? Why did you burden yourself with a girlfriend and two children? I am sure you do spend a good amount of money on your girlfriend and child. If you did not have such responsibilities to begin with, you would have something to show for your hard work and good salary.

Don't chase your girlfriend away, she is the mother of your children. Finish what you started. Just work harder, double your hustle, and be smart enough not to add a third child. Forget about these pastors, they are crooks that fleece their laity and destroy homes. Good luck in your hustle.

When I hear guys who equally have sisters out there talk like this it pains me alot.

How on earth will waste a ladies time sleeping with her day and night for six good years and then in the end come out with a plan to leave her and face your life?

Can u now see the reason why some guys suffer curses from their girls they treated anyhow.

Bro, if u know what good for you, kindly marry that lady and try to fix things up with her.

Pray hard and trust God for things to turn around.

LilMissFavvy:
With prayers you will be able to overcome, as long as your girls hands are clean you should not bother. I cannot understand why you are impregnating someone's daughter repeatedly without paying bride price.

That is the best thing to do these days.

Kennyprince:
When I hear guys who equally have sisters out there talk like this it pains me alot.

How on earth will waste a ladies time sleeping with her day and night for six good years and then in the end come out with a plan to leave her and face your life?

Can u now see the reason why some guys suffer curses from their girls they treated anyhow.

Bro, if u know what good for you, kindly marry that lady and try to fix things up with her.

Pray hard and trust God for things to turn around.

My story and his are the same just that I have money to take care of them.

Op if u are tired of her send her away.

Pray and stop f**king her, if you truly love her then go ahead and pay her dowry that's if she's a wife material ooo
But this Op dey funny oooo una don born and you come give am bele again & come realize that things ain't moving well for you. I weep

skelotovic:
I and my girl friend we have been dating for a while now like 5 to 6 years now, she loves me and i love her too we have a baby girl and right now she is pregnant. but the problem am having is that i have been struggling to make hands meet but nothing is happening, i have a standard job that pays every month end but still yet nothing to show fort. we were in church one night vigil when the pastor says my problem is coming from my girl friends family that they are fighting me so i will not make money and take care of her cause they knew i love her, and she confirm it that her fathers people are very wicked they even killed her dad. i wan to marry her because of my kids and she has been with me for a long time
but my concern now if we will have problem in the long run and mind you she always raise her voice on me anytime we have misunderstanding.

please advice me should i go ahead and marry her or just leave her and face my life

you want leave her for who exactly?
na so them go fork your dota leave her after 2 kids....shout a big amen to dat.