I'm 23 years old niqqur, I was a virgin until last week, when I did it I didn't feel any esctacy at all, even during the pre-intimacy, I'm not feeling anything, I mean anything... is it that something is wrong with me or maybe it's because it was my first time

Htop:
I'm 23 years old niqqur, I was a virgin until last week, when I did it I didn't feel any esctacy at all, even during the pre-intimacy, I'm not feeling anything, I mean anything... is it that something is wrong with me or maybe it's because it was my first time

You are a superman

Your body agrees with you destiny,

See, let me give you a rare advice, this is 2020, don't chase your your age mates are chasing with ladies.

Grow your income to a staggering and intimidating level

Build your idea into a very strong brand

Master your body and glow with pride.

Study and I say study hard about ladies and relationships


You will be a golden guy that every lady will die for, you will be the Alpha male others will worship.

Then you can choose a queen that is befitting for your empire.
That is how to win in life before 30.

If you do less, and chase lustfully after ladies by entering the destiny trap called porn that may lead to sex...or it's worst counterpart.. Masturbation... You will be a damaged adult and a commoner like every other person.


This is an advice many who have lost the opportunity will be offended at, and those who have no vision for their destiny may laugh at or even take with a pinch of salt...


I hope you are wise and you take it because the world needs a young man like you to be the difference and lead this wayward generation back home.

Well missimelda01 I hope you can collude with me on this.

Why then did you now do it. Total waste of time and risking of health
Yo better remain celibate until you get married cos no gain in it.

Hmmm....23 year old niqqur..... are you a guy/girl? You be virgin... that's girl. You feel nothing in preintimacy ... that's girl.... bisexual? Clarify.

Ladylite:


...or it's worst counterpart.. Masturbation... You will be a damaged adult and a commoner like every other person
.

damaged adult because of masturbation. how?

I would have said ask Google but why go far when you have the answer here. Visit the thread below and read people's story.
https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

OkpaNsukkaisBae:

damaged adult because of masturbation. how?

Preach sis

Op@ Htop what were you expecting? To feel like a porn star or something?
If it's advice you're looking for, take this one below. Nothing is wrong with you but something will be wrong with you if you channel your energy into fixing the wrong thing.

Ladylite:


You are a superman

Your body agrees with you destiny,

See, let me give you a rare advice, this is 2020, don't chase your your age mates are chasing with ladies.

Grow your income to a staggering and intimidating level

Build your idea into a very strong brand

Master your body and glow with pride.

Study and I say study hard about ladies and relationships


You will be a golden guy that every lady will die for, you will be the Alpha male others will worship.

Then you can choose a queen that is befitting for your empire.
That is how to win in life before 30.

If you do less, and chase lustfully after ladies by entering the destiny trap called porn that may lead to sex...or it's worst counterpart.. Masturbation... You will be a damaged adult and a commoner like every other person.


This is an advice many who have lost the opportunity will be offended at, and those who have no vision for their destiny may laugh at or even take with a pinch of salt...


I hope you are wise and you take it because the world needs a young man like you to be the difference and lead this wayward generation back home.

Well missimelda01 I hope you can collude with me on this.

Was it with a call girl or a friend?

Originalsly:
Hmmm....23 year old niqqur..... are you a guy/girl? You be virgin... that's girl. You feel nothing in preintimacy ... that's girl.... bisexual? Clarify.

i'm a guy

Ladylite:


You are a superman

Your body agrees with you destiny,

See, let me give you a rare advice, this is 2020, don't chase your your age mates are chasing with ladies.

Grow your income to a staggering and intimidating level

Build your idea into a very strong brand

Master your body and glow with pride.

Study and I say study hard about ladies and relationships


You will be a golden guy that every lady will die for, you will be the Alpha male others will worship.

Then you can choose a queen that is befitting for your empire.
That is how to win in life before 30.

If you do less, and chase lustfully after ladies by entering the destiny trap called porn that may lead to sex...or it's worst counterpart.. Masturbation... You will be a damaged adult and a commoner like every other person.


This is an advice many who have lost the opportunity will be offended at, and those who have no vision for their destiny may laugh at or even take with a pinch of salt...


I hope you are wise and you take it because the world needs a young man like you to be the difference and lead this wayward generation back home.

Well missimelda01 I hope you can collude with me on this.

thank you I will yield to this

Barzinime:
Was it with a call girl or a friend?

a friend...

Ladylite:


You are a superman

Your body agrees with you destiny,

See, let me give you a rare advice, this is 2020, don't chase your your age mates are chasing with ladies.

Grow your income to a staggering and intimidating level

Build your idea into a very strong brand

Master your body and glow with pride.

Study and I say study hard about ladies and relationships


You will be a golden guy that every lady will die for, you will be the Alpha male others will worship.

Then you can choose a queen that is befitting for your empire.
That is how to win in life before 30.

If you do less, and chase lustfully after ladies by entering the destiny trap called porn that may lead to sex...or it's worst counterpart.. Masturbation... You will be a damaged adult and a commoner like every other person.


This is an advice many who have lost the opportunity will be offended at, and those who have no vision for their destiny may laugh at or even take with a pinch of salt...


I hope you are wise and you take it because the world needs a young man like you to be the difference and lead this wayward generation back home.

Well missimelda01 I hope you can collude with me on this.

Sister, you preach too much.

I don't think it's a crime.

Nnaabros:


Sister, you preach too much.

Maybe you had no feelings for her i guess?
Probably you should desist from having sex and channel your energy to some more productive.

Htop:
a friend...

missimelda01:
I don't think it's a crime.

Not at all. The only problem is many of you preachers have multiple body counts already.

And is that also a crime?

Nnaabros:

Not at all. The only problem is many of you preachers have multiple body counts already.

missimelda01:
I would have said ask Google but why go far when you have the answer here. Visit the thread below and read people's story.
https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

the page you directed me to didn't explain to me how masturbation can damage an adult. just a thread created by a CHRONIC masturbator. probably a jobless dude who doesn't know the meaning of "balanced nutrition/diet"

telling me to ask google means that you're intellectually lazy to tell us how masturbation can damage an adult.
for the second time, please tell me how masturbation can damage an adult??

missimelda01:
And is that also a crime?

At least you didn't deny it.

This isn't a criminal issue. Keep your sanctimonious sermons to yourselves, you need it more.

It's sweet oo bro.

You know what?? I just screenshot this comment of yours and I am going to be reading every morning for a very long time.
You're good.

Ladylite:


You are a superman

Your body agrees with you destiny,

See, let me give you a rare advice, this is 2020, don't chase your your age mates are chasing with ladies.

Grow your income to a staggering and intimidating level

Build your idea into a very strong brand

Master your body and glow with pride.

Study and I say study hard about ladies and relationships


You will be a golden guy that every lady will die for, you will be the Alpha male others will worship.

Then you can choose a queen that is befitting for your empire.
That is how to win in life before 30.

If you do less, and chase lustfully after ladies by entering the destiny trap called porn that may lead to sex...or it's worst counterpart.. Masturbation... You will be a damaged adult and a commoner like every other person.


This is an advice many who have lost the opportunity will be offended at, and those who have no vision for their destiny may laugh at or even take with a pinch of salt...


I hope you are wise and you take it because the world needs a young man like you to be the difference and lead this wayward generation back home.

Well missimelda01 I hope you can collude with me on this.

AshiraWealthy:
Why then did you now do it. Total waste of time and risking of health
Yo better remain celibate until you get married cos no gain in it.

See advice. Are you celibate yourself?

This is just like asking someone else to give his life to Christ whereas you keep your own life.

J111333:
See advice. Are you celibate yourself?

This is just like asking someone else to give his life to Christ whereas you keep your own life.

Use your common sense. If I'm not, what business do I have telling somebody to be one.

I didn't deny anything neither did I accept it, I don't know what you want to hear but if the advice bothers you, ignore it.. it's that simple.

I feed my mind with good advices like this and that's why I'm better than I was yesterday, what do you have to say about yourself? It's obvious that someone like you is allergic to good advice, keep waiting for Jesus the holiest of all to come down and give you advice. Block head.

Nnaabros:

At least you didn't deny it.

This isn't a criminal issue. Keep your sanctimonious sermons to yourselves, you need it more.

It's not by speaking big English oga

I recommended the thread because some people actually told stories of how masturbation destroyed their lives, if only you were patient enough to go through it, whether chronic or not.. they all started from somewhere so don't dump your frustration on my head, I was only trying to answer your question.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:





the page you directed me to didn't explain to me how masturbation can damage an adult. just a thread created by a CHRONIC masturbator. probably a jobless dude who doesn't know the meaning of "balanced nutrition/diet"

telling me to ask google means that you're intellectually lazy to tell us how masturbation can damage an adult.
for the second time, please tell me how masturbation can damage an adult??

missimelda01:
I didn't deny anything neither did I accept it, I don't know what you want to hear but if the advice bothers you, ignore it.. it's that simple.

I feed my mind with good advices like this and that's why I'm better than I was yesterday, what do you have to say about yourself? It's obvious that someone like you is allergic to good advice, keep waiting for Jesus the holiest of all to come down and give you advice. Block head.

Wow, is it time for insults now? You didn't deny it and you also excused it as OK with that question, which means you approve of it and are very likely guilty of it.

And what makes you think you're better now? That statement reeks of pride, narcissism, and self-righteousness.

The point is, at least the dude was open and expressive about his sexuality, unlike you two-faced hypocrites that practice more terrible things in secret but come out in the open and present yourselves like holy angels. And even have the guts to condemn men's sexual openness.

Anyway, it's a good thing if you're trying to clean up your life. Keep it up.

That post didn't sound like condemnation to me and the person who asked for the advice took it well, so what exactly is your problem?

Nnaabros:


Wow, is it time for insults now? You didn't deny it and you also excused it as OK with that question, which means you approve of it and are very likely guilty of it.

And what makes you think you're better now? That statement reeks of pride, narcissism, and self-righteousness.

The point is, at least the dude was open and expressive about his sexuality, unlike you two-faced hypocrites that practice more terrible things in secret but come out in the open and present yourselves like holy angels. And even have the guts to condemn men's sexual openness.

Anyway, it's a good thing if you're trying to clean up your life. Keep it up.

missimelda01:
That post didn't sound like condemnation to me and the person who asked for the advice took it well, so what exactly is your problem?

Nothing. What's yours? You took up the challenge. Don't play the victim now.

AshiraWealthy:
Why then did you now do it. Total waste of time and risking of health
Yo better remain celibate until you get married cos no gain in it.

and then not enjoy anything in marriage? u think the marriage can last?

they say, practice makes perfect....keep practicing,U will feel stg someday

missimelda01:
It's not by speaking big English oga

I recommended the thread because some people actually told stories of how masturbation destroyed their lives, if only you were patient enough to go through it, whether chronic or not.. they all started from somewhere so don't dump your frustration on my head, I was only trying to answer your question.

frustration ke, far from it. just here to catch fun.
because chronic masturbators told stories of how their lives were ruined by masturbation, hence jerking off is bad , dangerous to our health & must be avoided.

in otherwords, people die in car crash. should we then stop/ban the use automobile as a means of transport?? not possible
millions of people die during war...should we then ban war as an instrument of national policy? impossible.