Hello everyone, good day to you all.

I don't know but I feel like one weird fellow. I have been married going to 4 years now but I feel so bored.

My hubby doesn't keep late night or friends, he doesn't womanize. He is into graphics designing so he's mostly working from home while I am currently a stay at mum as I am nursing my baby.

MY hubby never stayed out more than 8pm, he doesn't visit anyone and no one visits him. we don't get to quarrel or argue, most times I bring up baseless arguement so we should just raise our voice small yet he will find a way to avoid it.

I know issues makes marriage stronger but I have never had any reason to at least act upset and hubby should beg and pet me. It's seriously eating me up this man is too peaceful and quiet for my liking and I on the other hand is stubborn please my dear mum how do i spice up my marriage and how do i get this man to at least go out and mingle with other men.

This sound funny buts it's really eating me up.

Please help me, am bored.


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...OK you need troubles right Come stay with me nah



graphic designers doesn't need troubles/noise they're always in meditation about their works. I am a living testimony to this.....




Whenever he's in the studio working just go there and watch what he's doing so as to enable you cope with his calmness but don't distract him....o with your troubles OK

I suggest you drop his child, pack out from his house in peace and go marry a man that will give you all the troubles you wish for...

Awon eeyan o gbadun oo

Bring a man to the house and do the needful.

I wanted to say that it's not real till I saw a link and I concluded that it's illusion.

You want drama innit?


Okay, just jokingly tell him the baby you're nursing is not his.

My dear, trust me, when you do this, you're boredom will fly outta the window or door sef.


Please do well to come back here and update

I think i understand your predicament and its so demoralizing. But the question is, did you not date him before marrying him .

Ok you want your marriage too hot and unpeaceful.

Don't worry, you will soon get BP the day you will realise that you have been living with a ghost.

Please Don'ts quote me because I'm already quoting someone.

Relax ma...d devil have no time for ur family Naw...soonest..he is coming b prepare..instead of u to b grateful and mindful on how d peace will continue co exist .u wan instigate crisis..u will ve it...once again.. D Prince of d world is coming..b prepared

Wetin women want? My gawd?!

Your type of marriage is what most women are praying to have. A peaceful and loving home with a faithful and caring man,and you say you don't like it.

Sorry to ask,are you from an abusive home? why do you want constant quarrel and fights?of what good is it

If you need to spice up your marriage a bit then you might need to help him,you can start with dragging him with you to events,parties or visiting people. With time he will adjust,he seems an introvert and workaholic.

You can also suggest eating out regularly for a start

Even though I found the post very boring and bland, I will still advise you
Divorce him darling, and be all right
Life is too short to be unhappy, yes?
Cheers
(I somehow wish he would see and recognize this post and sack you first! )

Be careful what you wish for....

Oniranu... drama woman.. it's better you come back to your senses now before it's too late. Kindly take good care of your husband very well