There is one very important issue that i feel needs to be address, this over-rated obsessed love guys have for their mother. I mean, take my loser boyfriend for example, he is constantly comparing the things i do with way his mom does it (who by the way has passed away R.I.P) i mean the poor lady is not around for chrissake, get over it,get over her! i understand that she gave birth to you, bathed you, potty trained you, fed you, helped you with homework and important stuff but there's no way i'm gonna cook the exact same way she used to make your favorite pounded yam and egusi, hellz no! i'll cook it the way i was taught, by my MUM! and i'm not gonna make our bed the way mummy makes it, i have my own method if folding the sheets and softening the pillows and don't you dare tell me that i don't know how to raise kids and i should leave that to you and your family, they are gonna be OUR kids, not your mum's not your family, OUR's! It's exhausting whenever i think about it!
What i wanna know is, why are men so bound on making us (wives and girlfriends) second class in comparison to their moms?!! or do you think your the only ones who've got moms?!!
i'd love to know your opinion

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I m so sure u v done exactly wats on ur signature
holy shit he is such a pu.ssy
lookin 4 miss perfect

Both of you are Mo.rons, The guy u called a losser was paying ur bills right? M.U.M.U all he wanted was for u to get better with the way u do things. i hate it, when ppl gist their formal mate.

So now he should choose between you and his late mom
How could you possibly find a late mother a threat to your relationship.
My husband talks very often about his late mom and it makes me feel so sad because I know the pain he feels. I have lost my mom too and I can understand how he feels.
You know when a man comments about your Egusi and compares it with that of his mom, it just might be that the soup is so good that it is bringing up memories of his moms food.
Some people are very emotion al about their past. I remember once going into an afro shop and seeing Udala, I screamed out of excitement, bought some and ate. I realised that I actually did not like them again but eating them just brought back memories.
When a man compares you with his mom he is actually paying you a compliment.
Sometimes it is what we see in our parents that we crave for in a partner.
Sometimes DIL have a real problem, wait till you are a MIL. As for me anyone that dates or marries my kid and wants to eradicate me out of the picture can kiss that relationship good bye. Even from my grave I will hunt her.

OP.
No idea . . . . .

shhiiitt

The guy isn't ready yet cos your mum is your mum and your wife your wife.

ok, he should forget his mum, , no problem, shebi u r a would be mum! ur children will forget u and any memory of u from ur womb. thank u. nkapi!

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Your are gonna be a mother-in-law someday soon.

treat her the way you would want to be treated when you are in her position

that's all you need to know.

A man who loves his mom will surely love and take care of his own family - I dont know how some ladies fail to see that

[size=30pt]Let me urinate in this thread before ppl start passing by [/size]

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Those attacking this thread are missing the point. Are you all suggesting that it is ok for a man to want a woman or insist for his woman to do things exactly like his mom's? If he wants a carbon copy of his mom (which is impossible) then he should forget about finding a woman outside his family cos no woman raised in another home will do things exactly how his mom does them. His woman has a mother too who raised her up and taught her things different. Besides, she has a father too! So, is it ok for the woman to insist that her man do things exactly the way her father does them?

You will always lose. lol We men always give respect to the woman who gave birth to us. You can never compete, so get used to it.

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