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SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by constancefriday(m): 12:09am On Feb 14, 2020 |
My highly esteemed audience wonder why i'm coming down hard on the issue of SEX this season's Valentine? (1) Well first; SEX is different from LOVE. Both in terms of GENDER and it's deeper meanings. A relationship may exist upon the platform of sex but without love as it's primary motive it'll never stand the test of time. (2) Sexual Attraction is different from sexual intercourse and sexual immorality. Sexual attraction is the first step towards a relationship between two People who're of the opposite sex. Sexual Intercourse is the highest form of intimacy between two People of the opposite sex in a love relationship that has become A MARRIAGE. (3) Sexual Immorality is defined as having sex recklessly and irresponsibly. With anyone, anytime, anywhere you want, anytime you want. (4) Sexual Immorality can ruin your life and destroy your destiny. The way a person who participated in a war talks about it is different from the way a spectator or journalist who isn't partaking in the war directly or actively (as a combatant) will talk about it. Yes, Sexual Immorality can (is very capable of) destroy your destiny. Some say; love without sexual intercourse is like garri without sugar. Let me ask; if i prove that sugar can destroy your health completely will you consume your garri without sugar just to be sure you're safe? (5) Some Folks say; ehn i will use condom, so no consequences. Listen, even with condom SEX AFFECTS YOUR MIND. That's why sex is a strong commercial tool, ever wondered why beautiful and sexually attractive and alluring ladies/models are used as tools of attraction to sell products, goods and services fast? Sex is a tool used to commercialize St. Valentines Day. The term "commercialization" has to do with commerce, business and money. It has nothing much to do with the realest meaning of love? This leaves behind lots of garbages that send destinies sinking, shattered dreams and then all kinds of vices. PORNOGRAPHY is the worst way to learn about sex. Pornography is the worst way to learn about sex because it turns you into an animal only hungry for sex and using people to get it. (6) SEX is not a good hiding place from all the troubles of life or challenges thereof. Hiding behind SEX makes matters worse. (7) Like i said SEX AFFECTS THE MIND, it affects the clearness of your judgement, which your need when you're making IMPORTANT LIFE DECISIONS such as (Marriage, Career, etc ) many Folks made bad judgements and bad choices because SEX AFFECTED THEIR GOOD JUDGEMENT. GOOD SEX is not equal to GOOD DECISION. So it's capable of making you make the wrong choices. Beware of SEXUAL IMMORALITY. Don't allow your HORMONES choose your destination in life for you. Control your hormones don't let your hormones control you. HOW TO AVOID TRIGGERS TO SEXUAL IMMORALITY: 1. Watch what you pay attention to on Tv, Radio, Social Media etc, 2. Avoid Meals that cause you to misbehave. E.g Alcohol can cause you to drop your guard, avoid meals that have natural aphrodisiacs, it can help keep you from losing control 3. Avoid environments that cause you to sin. If you're not sick, don't take a nap on a hospital bed. 4. PRAY OFTEN; prayer helps you gain strength over weaknesses and bad habits that knock you off balance. May GOD help you gain strength this season. Remember Jesus Christ is the best example of real love. Follow and copy the example of Jesus Christ. Read Hebrews 12:2 Happy Valentines Day. Yours Sincerely; Apostle Constance Friday. 4 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by constancefriday(m): 12:16am On Feb 14, 2020 |
@Wavetips3 - A good opportunity to advertise your stuff huh??... |
Re: SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by OlawaleBammie: 12:23am On Feb 14, 2020 |
constancefriday: Op i didn't read ur encyclopedia above but if u can answer this den hmmm 1) did it destroy CR7 destiny?? 2) what about sergio ramos? 3) David in d bible nko? 4) what of judah...in d book of genesis?? Solomon is my nigga anyday anytym 3 Likes |
Re: SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by constancefriday(m): 7:32am On Feb 14, 2020 |
@OlawaleBammie - well you forgot to mention Samson, Judah, Ammnon, Adonijah, Shechem, Reuben, plus a lot of other Folks who weren't lucky enough but paid heavy penalties with their destinies for Sexual Immorality. What about John Terry, England Player and Chelsea Captain, what stopped him from becoming England Captain when the time was ripe? Don't deceive yourself. Sexual immorality is a trap from Satan shun it, i suggest you spend a few minutes of your life to read the encyclopedia up there and keep yourself out of harm's way. |
Re: SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by OlawaleBammie: 8:00am On Feb 14, 2020 |
constancefriday: Bro i mentioned judah, and tru his doings, we had our Lord Jesus... Anyways, as its not everybody dat is fortunate doing good, u cant expect everyone to be fortunate doin sexual immorality as well, tho am not sayin sexual immorality is good, and as a matter of fact i dont indulge in such. But my point still remains this: Life no get manual, what wkk make u wil make u likewise what wil destroy u wil do irrespective of how u chastise ursef or how u pray. Soo as i said, notin concern me concern dose u mentioned up there as a no send dem, am associating mysef with dose dat engaged in it and stil walked with God.. Abi wat do u tink?? i tink i hav a point |
Re: SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by constancefriday(m): 4:49am On Feb 16, 2020 |
@OlawaleBammie - Na God and you get your life, whatever you choose to do, brace up for the benefits or vice versa. I wish you the best. All the way. Ecclesiastes 11:9, 12:1, 12:13. |
Re: SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by OlawaleBammie: 9:11pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
constancefriday: just as if u knew my favorite book in the Bible.The Book of Ecclesiastes anyway anytym BTW, my favorite verse is Eccl 9:11 |
Re: SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:17pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
I won't define immortality that way(the part that state anytime, anywhere...) but, yes anything with the word *immortality* inside- is capable of ruining lives e.g financial immortality (bribing, dirty cut-throat business, heavy gambling etc), social immortality (drugs, children assault) etc are all capable of bringing a man down. There are over 100s of evil deeds but, this is one of 'em that is always posted everywhere; I mean people lie, steal, disobey everyday even willful murder. Peace |
Re: SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:44pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
1. That is quite obvious, what if they build their relationship in love and still have relations together later (it's still immoral since they are not married) 2. Such attractions are not limited to different gender, how about BI and Homo (BI and Homo are not moral) 3. A person who engage in such act with protection not with just anybody but, girlfriend/boyfriend or engaged partner at a romantic hour that seems right in their place. (Hmm) They didn't do it recklessly or irresponsibly 4. As long as the word immortality is involved then yes it's bad, anything with immortality attached to it is bad 5. Some married couples uses protection and there are consequences but, that doesn't makes it immoral. There are a lot of things people trade on Valentine's Day that doesn't involve love e.g Food, vacation special, resorts, gifts package etc those guys selling it out are after money not love 6. People Hide behind alcohol, antidepressants drugs, etc just to dump life's troubles. 7. Alcohol, drugs, depression, childish mannerisms, illiteracy etc do affect one's decisions and good judgement too. Lastly, 1. TV and social media can also be a dangerous ground too. 2. That's a good one but, some people won't consider alcohol as meal 3. Thumbs Up 4. Prayers are good but, no one is perfect as some people are still struggling with things like this. Peace |
Re: SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by constancefriday(m): 12:09am On Feb 18, 2020 |
@StephenMoka4 - Well said. We appreciate your comments on this issue. |
Re: SEXUAL IMMORALITY Can Destroy Your Destiny by stephieok: 1:20am On Sep 27, 2021 |
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