ChildOfDoom:
I also masturbate a lot. I think its up to 10 years since I started masturbated. I am a chronic masturbator, no lie. i masturbate to almost every thing. from staring at boobs or ass to watching sex pics/porn or doing it to sex chat. I am like a veteran in 2go flirt room.

at the height of it, I masturbate up to 2-3 times a day. now I have irregular erection and flaccid dick no matter how you turn me on. I use cream, oil, saliva or any thing slippery to self-service.


I have started having back pains, painful joint and partial vision impediment. wish I could stop. but anytime I am lonely or frustrated after losing much money, I turn to self-service to give me little reprieve

I'm in the same situation like you. I feel like a old man at a young age. I don't think I can stop. you can only reduce

Hahaha

This guy is really messed up.

Only you come carry the demonic spirit of Bet9ja, come carry the demonic spirit of master-ba-tion , and still come carry the demonic spirit of Pepsi join.

Na wa o!

Guy, to tell you the truth, in the voice of my Daddy G.O, your case is different.

I just thank God say na only the demonic spirit of Indecency hol' me... for now!

COdeGenesis:


You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

bro why is this transcription

i av lost 20k btw sat and sun to football betting......
wen i calculated d amount i av lost dis year alone, it is over 50k. bet9ja is killing guys

esteerola:
Addiction is not easy to conquer at all. You guys really need help Asap!! Talk to someone around you, that has an understanding of things like this.
Do not think of Suicide biko, especially the guy addicted to masturbation. You are not the only one in this boat, almost 50% of our youths are addicted to masturbation, though it might not be as severe as yours, you can fight it and conquer.
You need help, please seek for help.
And for the person addicted to gambling, as amusing as your case is, you need help.. Maybe all you need is to get punished for all you've done, probably you will get remorseful and never go back to it again..

The problem is that na only your water fit quench my fire

You are very right bro. Just that lot of people with negative comments here don't wanna say the truth about what they are going through too.

Jen96:
you have nailed it. Alot of us a secretly suffering from addictions. It must not even be betting or masturbation. It might even be alcohol, for those suffering from heart break.

I was like you, young man. get the solution now. I was lucky to understand early enough that virtual games are there to ruin life. So I don't do it. My advice, stop virtual for now and focus on real games. Set a max bet per game, say 200 naira with an idea of turning it over instead of staking big.
2. Get a paid job that will help you deviate your attention from gambling.
3. engage in body exercise as simple as brisk walk ,90 minutes a day.
3. Get a nice beautiful girl that hates betting and befriend her . She would help you see that less conscientious attention is given to gambling.
4.For masturbation, stop all online media sites that encourage it, mine was xvideo and xnxx. They almost made me useless.
5. Read books . interesting books like John Grisham. I have 12 of his collections. They helped me a lot. I wouldn't mind letting some to you if you are now hiding in Kaduna.
6. The golden rule is do everything that takes your mind off your addiction , even if it does not make you comfortable.
7. Ask the Holy Spirit for help. HE is real.

Oh there you go you might be right but nevertheless... He really needs help and counseling.

supercase1:

OP need to be insulted on a grand scale because that's the only language that will get into his head,when u tell them when they are doing following jobless gangs smoking, highing they will tell you something must kill a man.. .. .... I pray he should continue that way and that will serve as a lesson

Pray and fast maybe 6am to 6pm God will Help you

ChildOfDoom:
A popular Nigerian pidgin adage goes: "Pikin wey go get head, na from small dem dey know".

it's been 7 years of waywardness. no sign of me changing my obnoxious lifestyle. I'm even getting worse. it has gotten to a stage that my life and health is being threatened.......

You call urself a child of doom and u are expecting to have a good life, no sir, it doesn't work that way. D only solution to ur situation is Jesus Christ, let him step into ur life and see the wonder he will turn ur life into

ChildOfDoom:
then, I have damaged some vital organs of my body due to excess sugar. don't be deceived that only old people have health issues like kidney/liver failure. I am currently clinching to the left side of my stomach. something is eating me up inside. I just hope I haven't destroyed both livers.


I am a carbonated drink addict (Pepsi to be specific). Right from when I was a bright brain at UNIBEN in 2013, I have always consumed Pepsi superfluously. anytime I am stressed or tired, I take Pepsi. it got to a point that I drank 2-3 Pepsi a day (you heard me right).

I would masturbate for like 2 hours, then drink Pepsi in the morning to regain energy. at night, same thing. masturbate till night fall and quench my thirst/hunger with bread and Pepsi.

this life felt heavenly. now I am suffering the consequences. worse part is that I drank 3 Pepsi yesterday, after losing much. a relation of ours sells drinks, so I do secretly take to consume. Even my mum do gatecrash weddings and burials to bring food and drinks for us. I never say no to drinks I am given. if only my mum knows what I am doing to myself with drinks, she will stop giving me. so I am scared of telling her

Nothing is ever good about addiction of any kinds. Money? Sex? Drugs? In the end, it will only bring sorrow and regret. I can assure you that u can't break this addiction yourself, you need a higher power which is JESUS CHRIST. He's the only one that can save you. Ask HIM and he will deliver you. I can bet my life on that.

My brother it is well. You need Jesus right now. If you can go on your knees in your closet or quiet and confess your sins and weaknesses to God, believing HE is able to deliver you and save you from what you're are going through. If you can watch tomorrow healing and deliverance service of Dunamis Church on free to air at 9am in morning, please do.
Jesus saves! Trust Him. I was once like you but Jesus saved me.

tobby20:

No doubt man

Make I listen to **Sometimes**bro ..make I dey your mood

First condition:


Give your life to Christ and be born again...

Second condition:

Talk to your pastor and tell him/her the truth about your condition.


God will certainly see you through...

You need prayer for deliverance, go to MOUNTAIN OF FIRE AND MIRACLES MINISTRY.

you can only overcome those things through prayers, otherwise it will destroy you

If you give your life to Christ, He will save you, but if you refuse or commit suicide, you will go to Hellfire


The CHOICE is yours

Studio247:
Try to fall inlove with something else it will take you time and attention from all this
If you are a busy man like a real busy man you won't have time for this
Nikon camera D3100 for sell
See my signature for contact

Where are u?
How much?

Travelling out of naija saved me from bet9ja(virtual bet) addiction. I remember how I'd hate myself after losing so much money to virtual bet.

Virtual betting should be banned in Nigeria, it's evil

thespokenword:
I was like you, young man. get the solution now. I was lucky to understand early enough that virtual games are there to ruin life. So I don't do it. My advice, stop virtual for now and focus on real games. Set a max bet per game, say 200 naira with an idea of turning it over instead of staking big.
2. Get a paid job that will help you deviate your attention from gambling.
3. engage in body exercise as simple as brisk walk ,90 minutes a day.
3. Get a nice beautiful girl that hates betting and befriend her . She would help you see that less conscientious attention is given to gambling.
4.For masturbation, stop all online media sites that encourage it, mine was xvideo and xnxx. They almost made me useless.
5. Read books . interesting books like John Grisham. I have 12 of his collections. They helped me a lot. I wouldn't mind letting some to you if you are now hiding in Kaduna.
6. The golden rule is do everything that takes your mind off your addiction , even if it does not make you comfortable.
7. Ask the Holy Spirit for help. HE is real.

You shouldn't have include the porn sites sir...

Respect55:

Where are u?
How much?

See my signature for my number so we can talk better

I'll never go to any form of traditional shrine or ashawo joints voluntarily. I hate everything about that place, like it just irritate me(no matter how polished it is). To overcome beg9ja especially Virtual, I started telling myself that bet9ja stores are traditional shrines/ashawo joints. I kept saying it to myself until I believed it. So as long as I hate shrines/ashawo joints, I'll always hate bet9ja stores.
My advice is, in your mind just replace that shop with something/place you really hate and will never visit.
Pray often about it too if you are a faith person.

Dizzyrascal:
I salute you bro....I am very happy you were able to overcome but let me ask, which type of freelancing were you involved in?....thanks

I started writing for clients via fiverr

25tolife:
bro am in ur shoes,even sef am just returning from bet9ja shop,i dont know what to do.

. Give your life.to christ..

ChildOfDoom:
I also masturbate a lot. I think its up to 10 years since I started masturbated. I am a chronic masturbator, no lie. i masturbate to almost every thing. from staring at boobs or ass to watching sex pics/porn or doing it to sex chat. I am like a veteran in 2go flirt room.

at the height of it, I masturbate up to 2-3 times a day. now I have irregular erection and flaccid dick no matter how you turn me on. I use cream, oil, saliva or any thing slippery to self-service.


I have started having back pains, painful joint and partial vision impediment. wish I could stop. but anytime I am lonely or frustrated after losing much money, I turn to self-service to give me little reprieve

I'm sorry about your predicament but masturbation is not the cause of your partial vision impediment. Masturbation is not bad in that sense unless you're addicted and watch porn too much.
I do it once in a while to take some things off my mind, may be because i'm single but its a decision I made not a lack of options.
When you get married, you'll stop and for those that are quick to say it affects marriage, dur!
The last time i was in a relationship, my girlfriend used to call me a horse and she used to enjoy our intercourse but tribal barriers put an end to the relationship. If I handle Pocochantas today, she go explain how i be marlian ontop bed.

ChildOfDoom:
I am 29 years old. from Edo state. I admit that I am a bet9ja virtual (gamble) addict. if you are reading this and you know some one who plays the same virtual, don't bother wasting your saliva to advise them. they will surely go back to the act. it is a dangerous world of no return.

despite advice from friends and family, I still can't stop betting (bet9ja). we only change a little but once a little money gets to our hand, we go back to the act.

my life is being threatened as a result of this addiction. like I have mentioned in previous threads, I dare not step into Benin because I gambled with the phone of a 'strong man'. currently where i stay is top secret. lots of people are looking for me. I sold the Samsung a guy put in my custody and used it on betting. even someone's enrolment money for WAEC I was meant to pay on the person's behalf, was used by me.

there are other instances too numerous to mention. it's only a matter of time before I am caught and dealt with. I know some in my predicament have either been lynched or put in jail

Bro,I have been there and done that on Virtual games on bet9ja. .I won't lie to u from 2016 -2019 I lost cash worth over 1m. its funny but that's the reality and I had tried to stop but I feel like it's an opium of my soul....but guess what I put a stop to that sept 13th 2019 and till date I have never played.....I stay close a bet shop and sometimes when I don't play soccer online,I do print my games there and I don't give it a thought to play..I now see it as rubbish and waste of money.....u can do it Bro...cut yourself loose from virtual before it kills U...Bless!

Please change the name u call ursef.

Try and quit these habit one after the other and pray too.

Please get involved with church activities and get a job.

Once u are busy , most of these habits will die easily.

I will put you in ma prayers

if you are masturbation addict and looking for a way to stop here is a piece of advise to you. no matter how much you tried to stop masturbation my brother u cant stop it all you need to do is continue your masturbation untill u wake up one morning and cant stand up due to backache then you will stop masturbation without knowing how you stopped it. all these advices about how to stop masturbation doesnt work just wait until it caused you some health issues then you will stop it #it.happened.to.me

As much as I want to insult U
I can't cos I used to be U
I just don't gamble
Hmmmmmmm
Guy, U need to change o
There is more to life than sex and gamble
I am currently on a 7day fast
3 would be normal
4 would be dry fast
I wish I could pray for U but I can't cos me self need prayers. U self for join sha
God bless U

MasonKendall:
Last year I really lost so much playing bet9ja virtual but as for this year I don change . But a little bit of masturbating is the problem. I do it every Thursday. Don't laugh ooooo From the start of this year I reduced my intake of sugar and am no longer taking alcohol. You can do it bro. You just need to be determined.

its a great achievement keep it up. i masturbate only on weekends before i was doing it everyday

hope1292:
I was addicted to tramadol for a whole 6 months, 400grams everyday which didn't make me detect I was having ulcer, now all my intestine all erupted And i pray to God for healings

I started taking TM since 2009 and I wasn't addicted to it then but was addicted to it from 2012 and I do take more than 1200 a day plus Sk or any highness at all.. for my masturbation it was no go area I do mastubate 4 times a day.. bet9ja own wan useless me as well.. but now I thank God I have given up on those things manage my Arizona now.. bro try work on yourself I believe you go better for your future