for even knowing you have these issues is the right step first and foremost...I don't know that magic words I could say to you to help you out , but what I do know is that you can stop it if you are so determined to... just be strong and if possible place yourself on a covenant with God , if you not the religious then place the covenant with yourself more like a curse to yourself or something.... I do believe your case got solutions if only you determined. be well bro

SweetCunt97:
OH seems yiu the guy in question. Anyways, I pray every align on good sides for you. Everyone deserves a second chance

Aaahhhh me ke? abeg noo.

It's just dat I hate it wen men and women are trowing banters at each others

Well, I say amen to ur prayer cus everybody get hin own for body

Toseenlove:
After Almighty God, The only thing I'm ever addicted to Is making money. All these posts about addiction, I'do find It very amusing most times. I easily get tired of things or habits these days.

You are a very strong willed person, few people are.
There are four vices that can easily destroy a man: womanizing or sexually deviant behavior, Gambling, boozing and illicit drugs.
I had a friend who was once wealthy, but gambling almost pauperized him.
Those battling uncontrollable addictions should seek help through counsellors and spiritual help from mentors.

Pls I would advice you join us in The Lord's Chosen this Sunday at our Corporate hdqtr in Ijesha Lagos. Many with such afflictions of the enemy and worldly addiction worse than yours have been delivered.

Pls locate The nearest Lord's Chosen church for direction. I am sure u will testify at the end of the day

tunjity26:

in as much as i want to agree to everything you said here but you see that bold part lol it a no no no

Why do you say so?, it really works for me.

aminu114:
its a great achievement keep it up. i masturbate only on weekends before i was doing it everyday

it's good that you're part of the gang

Most of d advice of reading inspirational books and rest will fail. OP open up to your mom about your struggles and get a girlfriend to kill ur masturbation addiction. The only way to stop your virtual addiction is to get a job that will take ur mind off that.

COdeGenesis:


You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

From where do you transcribe from? Fiver or other sites

OH! BOY!
THERE IS A SAYING THAT YOU STOP BEING INSANE THE DAY YOU REALIZE YOU ARE MAD!
NOW THAT YOU KNOW YOUR PROBLEM, YOU HAVE SOLVED IT HALF WAY....CONGRATULATIONS!
THE NEXT STEP IS TO BREAK THE ADDICTION TO GAMBLING ONCE.
THAT OF MASTURBATION SHOULD BE BROKEN GRADUALLY...IF YOU ATTEMPT TO END IT ONCE, YOU'LL SURELY GO BACK TO IT IF SOMETHING EROTIC TRIGGERS IT OFF! SOMEONE MENTIONED EVERY THURSDAY...GRADUALLY, EVERY TWO THURSDAYS...THEN EVERY THREE THURSDAYS.....THEN THE FIRST THURSDAY OF EVERY MONTH.....THEN THE APPETITE FOR IT DIES SLOWLY AND YOU'LL NOW DERIVE PLEASURE ONLY IN DOING THE REAL THING....BUT WITH A CONDOM....THEN GET MARRIED...BECAUSE, TWO HEADS TOGETHER ARE BETTER THAN JUST YOUR HEAD ALONE!
HIDE....THEN LATER GO BACK TO THOSE YOU'VE OFFENDED AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS.
THEN BECOME A PRACTISING CHRISTIAN AND ABSTAIN FROM EVIL!

MAY GOD BLESS OUR HUSTLE!

The devil is really out for you.

ChildOfDoom:
A popular Nigerian pidgin adage goes: "Pikin wey go get head, na from small dem dey know".

it's been 7 years of waywardness. no sign of me changing my obnoxious lifestyle. I'm even getting worse. it has gotten to a stage that my life and health is being threatened.......

guy wake up from you slubber, you life is the one be threatened, you need deliverance from the spirit of addiction. Go for deliverance

Am a business person. Very busy thorought the whole day. Once in a while. I masturbate. Yeah. If my girl not around. Or if one of my friends with benefit no wan give me do. Konji na were. . But use ur head.. My advice. Get busy. If u no see any job do. Go and learn any skill u love. Avoid staying indoor for too long. Don't watch porn. Make friends with some girls. No fear dem. Dey no be witch or difficult as u tink. In fact some of dem want to be ur friend but u don't know. About drinking Pepsi. Try and reduce it to like one per day. Or probably drink 5 alive. Dat one is still safe. Drink more water to quench ur thirst. Just try.
Join a fellowship. About virtual betting. Quit.infact run. U can neva make profit from it a scam. Program to defraud d gullible ones. Wen u loose.u will be frustrated to play more hoping to win. Wen u win once. U will play more. And loose 15 times more dan u have win. Stay far away. Play Real match only on Saturday or Sunday game. With just 100 naira. And some. Week don't play. Just get busy with something useful. See u at the top. U re a potential. The world need u. Stay strong.

When you want to stop addiction, you have to apply a principle that works very well and the principle is called replacement therapy. Any activity you stop: the principle states that you replace that Activity with another one. Of course you need discipline and God's grace.

ChildOfDoom:
A popular Nigerian pidgin adage goes: "Pikin wey go get head, na from small dem dey know".

it's been 7 years of waywardness. no sign of me changing my obnoxious lifestyle. I'm even getting worse. it has gotten to a stage that my life and health is being threatened.......

It's not over .... please change that name and quit confessing your doom.


I know someone that can help .. don't worry you won't have to pay a dime. If you are interested

ChildOfDoom:
I also masturbate a lot. I think its up to 10 years since I started masturbated. I am a chronic masturbator, no lie. i masturbate to almost every thing. from staring at boobs or ass to watching sex pics/porn or doing it to sex chat. I am like a veteran in 2go flirt room.

at the height of it, I masturbate up to 2-3 times a day. now I have irregular erection and flaccid dick no matter how you turn me on. I use cream, oil, saliva or any thing slippery to self-service.


I have started having back pains, painful joint and partial vision impediment. wish I could stop. but anytime I am lonely or frustrated after losing much money, I turn to self-service to give me little reprieve

Hi, I was once a victim to that but I just made up my mind one day to quit it. And since then, I haven't done it. I believe Its all.. about determination.. And also u should get a Girlfriend.. That shit causes a lot of damages to human, it will make u not to value the presence of a human being when the time comes.. Quit now quit early

COdeGenesis:


You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

Please I am interested in this. Teach me how to go about it. henroskipauloski@gmail.com

Even if they make it illegal, people will still do it. I think your friend really needs to talk to someone, not only was my brother a gambler, a close friend too suffered from it, he was too ashamed to open up to anyone but me n God helping us, we tackled the problem, today it's history, he's even married now sef.

kay29000:


Experience or having a friend or family member that has an issue always makes.us more understanding of people's problems. I have a close friend that is battling this gambling stuff. Every 31st December, he will vow never to bet again, but by the middle of January he is back at it. I really feel for him cos he wants to stop, but it is so hard. For his sake, I always wish they could make gambling illegal in Nigeria. It has really wrecked a lot of people.

Dearest please try and confess to your mother. It will help you over come

[quote author=thespokenword post=86729205]I was like you, young man. get the solution now. I was lucky to understand early enough that virtual games are there to ruin life. So I don't do it. My advice, stop virtual for now and focus on real games. Set a max bet per game, say 200 naira with an idea of turning it over instead of staking big.
2. Get a paid job that will help you deviate your attention from gambling.
3. engage in body exercise as simple as brisk walk ,90 minutes a day.
3. Get a nice beautiful girl that hates betting and befriend her . She would help you see that less conscientious attention is given to gambling.
4.For masturbation, stop all online media sites that encourage it, mine was xvideo and xnxx. They almost made me useless.
5. Read books . interesting books like John Grisham. I have 12 of his collections. They helped me a lot. I wouldn't mind letting some to you if you are now hiding in Kaduna.
6. The golden rule is do everything that takes your mind off your addiction , even if it does not make you comfortable.
7. Ask the Holy Spirit for help. HE is real.[/quote

Bro I will like to have the books. I hide in Kaduna.]

ChildOfDoom:
I am 29 years old. from Edo state. I admit that I am a bet9ja virtual (gamble) addict. if you are reading this and you know some one who plays the same virtual, don't bother wasting your saliva to advise them. they will surely go back to the act. it is a dangerous world of no return.

despite advice from friends and family, I still can't stop betting (bet9ja). we only change a little but once a little money gets to our hand, we go back to the act.

my life is being threatened as a result of this addiction. like I have mentioned in previous threads, I dare not step into Benin because I gambled with the phone of a 'strong man'. currently where i stay is top secret. lots of people are looking for me. I sold the Samsung a guy put in my custody and used it on betting. even someone's enrolment money for WAEC I was meant to pay on the person's behalf, was used by me.

there are other instances too numerous to mention. it's only a matter of time before I am caught and dealt with. I know some in my predicament have either been lynched or put in jail

Sorry bro. As for the betting, you can stop it. I did. So can you. For a year now I've not visited any bet house talk more of gambling. Goodluck

Try to get a job or being in the company of serious minded people.it will help distract the urge..



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we're hearing all this because u haven't won... win big today and all this will immediately turn to joy

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Ok

I feel for you guys may God Almighty shield light into your live

Please repent before you die miserable like Ubunja who.is on.NairaLand wailing away the rest of his totallly bleak tiny remaining future.

MasonKendall:
Last year I really lost so much playing bet9ja virtual but as for this year I don change . But a little bit of masturbating is the problem. I do it every Thursday. Don't laugh ooooo From the start of this year I reduced my intake of sugar and am no longer taking alcohol. You can do it bro. You just need to be determined.

funny you!

yommyk222:


It very hard to stop bro, I have a colleague way back 2017 we work as security guard in hotel, our salary was 18k, anytime they pay us like this. Na straight to bet9ja to play virtual, the worst part is that his own stake start from 5k onward. On this faithful day they chop him salary finish (18k) he now make agreement with the cashier to be playing for him on credit that he will give him 30% of any amount he win, that is how my guy start firing till the debt reach 58k that night na police station he sleep after agreement they ask him to pay 40k out of the 58k (10k monthly) my guy pay for 2 months go another bet9ja again go wire another 27k to cut the long story short the guy owes roughly 100k ontop virtual before he tear race common for there. In his word he say na slave he dey do for there anytime he collect salary at the end of the month na bet9ja debt he dey use m settle

Fast forward on 2019 he get job as a manager in very nice hotel at ikeja, everything was going fine until my guy wake up one day go use company money about 180k go wire. Naso he lose that job. Before then he always tell me that my guy I no they fire again ooo.
That shit is very very hard to quite bros

You have a point

Hmmm

Decide to quite from the addiction. Pray to God to change you. Go to Dunamis church near you and talk to the pastor.

You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make.

Please what is transcription.