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How To Always Know If A Girl Likes You –So You Can "Shoot Your Shot" by NengakGodwin1: 2:57pm On Feb 19, 2020
My guy. 

Listen up. 

I'm about to SHOW you the commonly ignored signals girls usually gives so you can take advantage and easily "shoot your shot". 

ALSO, this post is going to be long. So if you're not okay reading something that's gonna help your love life, then Just move on. Bye-bye. 

Oh! You're still here? 

Let's continue. 

But, before then... 

Let me tell you a short story. 

Back in the days. 

When I was in J.S.S 2 in high school. I used to be a very SHY guy. I didn't used to feel free to express myself around Girls. 

As in bah... Whenever I see a "fine geh" I have a crush on. My heart will start beating fast. And then, I'll start feeling nervous like say dem ask one dummy to stand in front of class to answer a hard question. 

And he knows they'll laugh at him for giving the wrong answer. 

But, fast forward to today. 

Omo. Nengak don get mind. Lol.

I fit stand in front of babe and talk to her like say na my junior sister. 

So, how was I able to overcome that fear of approaching girls I like? 

Well, it's a long story. 

I'll tell you some other time. 

Back to our topic. 

My guy. You see, most times, when a girl likes you. She can't just start coming to toast you directly. 


This is because, right from history. Up till date. In the African society... It's almost always seen as a taboo for a GIRL to openly tell you she likes you first. 

So this social conditioning has made them a kind of reserved. They'll do their best to hide their true intends even if they're itching to let you know. 

So how can you tell if she LIKES you or not? 

They usually do this using cues and some non-verbal ways. 

Let me break it down for you, my guy. 

Although, there are so many signs. 

But, I'll only show you about 3 of them today. 

1.) Giggles & Laughs: this is usually when you say something that is not really comic but she still finds it funny. Or at times. She just sees you and keeps maintaining eye contact for a while, then keeps smiling at you. 

2.) Hair Touching: girls are fond of gently playing with their hair around guys they have a crush on. If you notice a girl doing this when you guys are taking then she's likely into you. 

Now, this may sound too good to be true. 

But, it's psychological and it's something they usually do subconsciously. Without even thinking about it. 

I mean, they just can't help it. 

If you think this is not real... 

Then, it means you're too logical. And we're talking of girls here. I mean, tender creatures that are largely driven by emotions. 

Okay? So, f**k logic. 

3.) Communication: this is usually in form of verbal or non-verbal ways. 

For instance; she'll try so hard to talk to you. Or maybe, just ask you a question about something so you can talk to her. 

Personally, I've had several instances where a girl will even know something but deliberately ask me questions about it. 

They do this to know more about you. Or see if you're a potential date. 

So they can get close to you, more faster. 

At times, she'll ask someone your name and keep calling you almost everytime with a sexy voice so you can notice her. 

Let's say I meet her for the first time and I press her emotional buttons correctly(topic for another day). 

And then, I collect her number. And also save it with her name. And I leave. 

Before I know it...

She'll start calling me in a sexy way with my name. Whenever she sees me. 


The first time it happened. I was kind of shock. Until I later realized that girls like to do that to guys they have a crush on. 

Another Way Is... 

They start tapping your shoulder. Sometimes she'll even touch you gently and say something like; "Hi, how's your bla, bla, bla..."

Then pause and expect you to say something(which is why it's good to know how to start a conversation with girls...) 

Because, that will also determine if she'll start avoiding you like most guys or see you as a badass guy she'll like to kiss, date and even sleep with.

ALSO, here's the truth...

Knowing if a Girl likes you is not ENOUGH. She may show you "green light" today, and begin to "form class" the next day for you. 

Heck, she may even snub you and start calling someone who's close to you with sweet words like;

"sweetheart", "my love" "darling", and that's if you don't even see her kissing and sleeping with someone who's not even better than you... 

That's why I'm INVITING you join to our underground secret dating group on facebook...And so...if you're tired of being treated badly by girls you truly love...And you want to start attracting beautiful and pretty girls, too.

Then, join our underground facebook group. Called "Dating Secrets Hub" – where we share COMPLETELY badass dating secrets... To help you start becoming a lot more attractive to even girls that seem "above your level".

But here's the thing.

What we believe in that the ONLY way to get girls to date, marry OR even have sex with you is to know HOW TO INFLUENCE THEIR EMOTIONS.

ALSO, we don't welcome LOOSERS...Guys who think that all they need is "money" to get girls.

In fact, if you think money is all you need to attract girls. Then, you're not invited to join us. Just dey your lane.

Now don't get this wrong. Money is important in a relationship. You'll need it to pay your house rent when you get married with the girl you're dating.

You'll need it pay your children's school fees. And you'll need it to buy food, too.

So, I'm not saying you shouldn't hustle for money.

BUT then, thinking "money" will make girls respect, date, marry, and have sex with you on its own...is what LOOSERS do. And we don't accept people with that mindset in our secret hub.

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Bye for now.
Nengak Godwin

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Re: How To Always Know If A Girl Likes You –So You Can "Shoot Your Shot" by scoundrel(f): 3:01pm On Feb 19, 2020
If I am very sure someone likes me then I’m not ‘shooting my shot’, I’m only confirming something I know. Shooting one’s shot is more fun when there’s uncertainty.
Re: How To Always Know If A Girl Likes You –So You Can "Shoot Your Shot" by NengakGodwin1: 3:03pm On Feb 19, 2020
If I am very sure someone likes me then I’m not ‘shooting my shot’, I’m only confirming something I know. Shooting one’s shot is more fun when there’s uncertainty.

True, there is that one too.

I'm only sharing this to help those who are often skeptical about who to approach.

I prefer the spontaneous approach too, most times.
Re: How To Always Know If A Girl Likes You –So You Can "Shoot Your Shot" by BIGPREEQ: 4:01pm On Feb 19, 2020
LMAO seems oga doesn't know naija girls very well

Even if they do all this shit you posted

Just shoot your shot first and hear "I just like you like a brother"

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