I had an argument with a nairalander some days back.it was a quote war he was saying 25 years is the best time to settle down as a man but I strongly opposed that opinion mainly because life has no rules what works for A night not work for B but at the same time I believe the right time for a man to settle down is in his early 30s I gave him more than ten reasons why but to show he still thinks like a small boy his only reason was to have kids early what a myopic way to think.I am not yet 30 but I think it is the ideal time to settle because of the below reasons.

)Masculinity and maturity

30 years on earth is no joke, a man is his 30s has almost seen it all and should have his Shiit together I am talking emotional and mental strength .Nigerian woman are very dramatic and a boy cannot handle them imagine all these boys in their 20s that always come here to cry about rejections,heartbreaks always seeking advice for the smallest relationship challenges are they the ones to settle down smh.

2) It is mathematically balanced

let say you got married at the age of 32 God willing you gave birth the same year by the time you are in you late 50s you already have grown up kids your first born would be 27 second may be 24 the last 20 and so on why the rush to have kids early.

3) financial stability
how many boys between 20--- 27 can boast of 200k in their account.Nigerian economic climate is harsh it will take you years to stand as man unless you are lucky.well only those who accept reality will live long and enjoy life.

cheers.

All this talk na ferouz. When God bless you and you feel you are both financially and emotionally stable to settle down, na your time be that. Early 30s o, late 20s oo, mid 20s etc. Na when man wake up from sleep be him morning.

It ok to marry at the time you choose be it 18 yrs (only son) - 35yrs (first son who will cater for the rest)....
All am saying is marry at the right time and when you feel like to marry. Yes money is needed but not in all situation

Don't get married, impregnate like 3 girls before 25.Then focus on getting rich.

Marriage no be joke! Igbe iya wo.

Marriage no be joke sha. You dont come and go and get married because you're 32.

As a strong anti-feminist. I strongly advice early children making. I will impregnate like 3 grls.