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Move

girls are troublesome. naturally you get peace of mind if you marry a man with only brothers.

In all your story last last first sons always have a soft spot than others in the heart of their mum. Not me bcs l can flog.

Alright

She is right to have those concers because it is basically what is obtainable. If you really like this girl go the extra mile to let her see your case is different if not free the babe Abey.

KingsleyA2:
How the hell did this shit make front page...? what is happening to nairaland?

It suprised me

Yes it is true. The only sons are over pampered.

To be a first son is not an easy task, in fact you will climb the highest mountain and do more dangerous tasks to ensure ur family is on track...

I know what I have passed through to ensure that my siblings are all fine....
But God is always our strength even in the desert God always provides lakes for me the first son

And you had to create a thread about it. She may be right about you !

Bloody simp! Weakling.

Every small thing una go open thread,weak men everywhere

mine is you are a first born. i japa

I'm the Only Son and it's a lot of responsibility. You are like the de-facto father... To your siblings and relations, your the Man of the house. And even tho I admit I have been shown love, I can't say I was pampered. My folks are strict disciplinarians It's not easy. Period.

Would be difficult to convince her otherwise with just words since she's had experiences.

So it's necessary to convince her with actions.

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AxelandRed:
While I was out on my first date with my girlfriend, she asked me how many sibling I have, to which I replied. She then proceeded to ask the number of males and females. Then I told her I only have sisters. That moment, her face dropped because we were already Into each other, I could tell she was disappointed.

She tried to hide this, but I noticed. This was Probably because that wasn't the first time I would be getting that reaction from people especially women the moment I tell them I'm the only son of my parents.


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She's right in her assessments. In fact, very accurate, I might add.

Well, the ball is in your court to prove to her that you are different from all the others.

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Christmasdon:
first son and last child

Last children are the most useless!

let me finish this bottle first b4 I pounce on your case...

AxelandRed:
While I was out on my first date with my girlfriend, she asked me how many sibling I have, to which I replied. She then proceeded to ask the number of males and females. Then I told her I only have sisters. That moment, her face dropped because we were already Into each other, I could tell she was disappointed.

She tried to hide this, but I noticed. This was Probably because that wasn't the first time I would be getting that reaction from people especially women the moment I tell them I'm the only son of my parents.

I queried her on her sudden change of mood and she told me that she has had unfavorable relationship experiences (twice) in the past with only Sons and has vowed never to try it again. She reasoned that only Sons are too clingy to their families, overpampered, emotionally needy and dependent on their families and hardly have a mind of their own. She also accused the families of always trying to pilot the affairs of the guys even to the extent of making life changing decisions for them.

When i was young, I also had friends who thought I was pampered, showered with extraordinary love and care and that my parents can't turn down any request from me. But the truth is that I never got any special treatment from my parents. The same curtain wire, broom, hanger my mom used to whip my sisters, she also used on me.

My point is that it's unfair to lump people together and label them. If an only son happens to be clingy, it has nothing to do with his status. He would have still been that way if he had 10 brothers.

She has had same experience with two other people... Maybe she's the problem, she might be looking for man she will control

ednut1:
mines is you are a first born. i japa

Why? First borns have a strong sense of responsibility you know

since you are not a spoilt pet child, you're lucky. most of them are always clinch to parents and rarely take a stand on a matter

Stop patronising prayer houses. They will always fill ur mind with all these superticious beliefs

VICTORCIZA:
The number one issue is that only son normally die earlier (don't get me wrong because it not your portion in ijn) reason is that the eyes of the enemies is always on them.
but when there plenty boys the enemies will be confused who to channel their arsenal first and most time it will be on the first son.

I think gals feel they will have to compete with ur sisters for ur attention and key decisions and mosttimes it’s that way for only boys. Lol

Be like na new format wey I go dey use be this o

AMvanquish:
I'm the Only Son and it's a lot of responsibility. You are like the de-facto father... To your siblings and relations, your the Man of the house. It's not easy. Period.

That is if he is the first born in the family.

If he is the last born and also the only son?

damn!

vizkiz:
Bro...It is no stereotype in what she said but the absolute truth.

The level of favoritism that goes into being the only son is astonishing!

You are likened you the “Golden egg” who will carry the family’s legacy. Don’t allow the 21st century’s manipulation that all child are equal deceive you.

As i wrote in my post, I have never felt 'favored' by my parents neither do they meddle in my affairs.
I admit that in some situations, all children are not seen to be equal but this isn't always the case.

Ekakamba:

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Girl's worry cause you'll remember your siblings first in wealth distribution before her (she go be remnant chopper especially as wuna never married).

She knows vividly that if you'd only male siblings, all your money na for you and her direct; but now? So many cake eaters on a small cake.

For people like you the world revolves around money and wealth for others it revolves around sanity and peace of mind, ladies inclusive. Men need to learn this and stop insulting all women with materialism.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

That is not true

Your girl friend knows nothing about what she is saying

I beg na true. Only sons are spoilt brats

As a last born boy, I can concur.

don4real18:
Move

kikikiki! To where? China?