koife:
Hello fam, I'm not used to writing about my personal life. I try as much as I can to keep it off social media. On this very instance I'm tired and I desperately need honest advise, I'm also ready for insult.
I met my wife and we got married less than two years after our meeting.
I must say my wife is a quiet and slow person by nature and very churchy. I won't forget to add that since I met her I've had many blessings come my way. We are blessed with a 6 month old daughter.

My main issue with my wife is that she sees home upkeep as my total responsibility, yes, I do it but she hardly contribute anything and any time I'm coonstrained fin. She would say all manner of things. My wife isn't that a smart person, she would wait for you to give her direction in the simplest of things and shys away from taking charge and ownership.

I got a 6 digit job few days after introducing as her my fiancee to my parent and I'm often at sea for three more than 6 months. I've observed my wife isn't prudent with money no matter how much passes through her hands. At some point I'll get her attention how much she has spent without knowing and then she would go " wow, I didn't know it was that much" after doing some addition.
She works with insurance firm and her pay is within 60k (Max)/monthly...with that, she still get home support from me and my sister who is in USA. Recently I gave her her usual home support money and my sis did too....her allowance and commission came too. My wife had over 95k total in less than two weeks.

I was surprised barely a week and, I asked my wife support fix the car I left with her at home with just 5k since and i was yet to be paid salary. Note, I bought this car to ease her movement at her instance oo, she suggested the car is idle and we should get someone do bolt( taxify) just to get us additional cash.I got the driver do agreement with my lawyer via my coy and travelled shortly, the car alternator shut down and wouldn't charge, it was at that instance I asked her help out and she said she had no money on her and that she was barely surviving. I was shocked and Drew her attention to how much had gone through her hands in less than two weeks. Don't get me wrong, it might not be much to some peoples financial cash flow but we are Young family and less than two years in marriage. My wife believes once money comes, it's time to solve all her outstanding problem and ive told her she needs to prioritize.

Recently when I got to nja I left 600k in her account and told her we shouldn't touch it in case of family emergency but I noticed each time we have little need at home she would pressure me go get the cash. Some how we kept touching the money till it got to 300k and I travelled again.
I've tried my best to groom her and get her financial planning life better but she would not accept she has issue. I'm considering getting her family and mine involved but I dear it would out her in bad light before my family ( trying to protect her), I I decided to bring it here since it's faceless forum for candid advise

Need I also add that I can say one thing give times to my wife and she still gets it mixed up. I've asked her to read book and expand her intellectual capacity. It was just two weeks ago I forced her go defend her post graduate project after many years of abandonement....we quarreled. I later helped her arrange the work and pacify her supervisor allows her defend without paying school fees before I left.
Pls is my wife just dull or does it have to d with her character with life and money? Pls advise me coz I'm getting sick, really sick already. I'm typing this onboard on my way to Japan. I can't even concentrate

Mood11:
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3. Sorry but she has chosen the kind of life she wants. Right now as you are on your way to work out another pay check, she might be planning on an outing with the small boy drilling her coochie.

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lefulefu:
this is what u get when u marry a slayqueen.all the money she is spending it on makeups,clothes,bags,shoes and what have u

TradeCorner:
This is juicy


[b][/b]Its the same with all women. [b][/b]Thry like being spent on. Don't take it too serious its their way of telling a man they love them, by making men soend unceasingly. Listen, two weeks is too far. Don't tell her you're irritated. Try it again infact just two days from giving her 500,000Naira, she'll still say no money. Focus on the benefits, don't get irritated

God bless your union

LadySarah:


Exclusively to women in your lineage.

Dollarheist:
Abeg God na dis kind wife i dey tell you gangan
As in this type gangan
God i repeat this type gangan
I dey my knees se oluwa this type gangan
Make dem no come my way oooo
SMDH

TradeCorner:



I didn't recall cursing the males in yours. No cursing you in anyway. Anyway,its now the norm that females this generation abuse men at the slightest opportunity. Whatelse madam,i suffer low sperm count or weak erection or

proclinician:


Once you recognise a stupid person next is to ignore pls.

TradeCorner:



Yes. I agree. That's what i pointed out. The way the females in this generation behave so unruly.

LadySarah:


Really? You agree with someone who readily recommends divorce for such issue. Someone probably not married and not perfect.

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