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Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by crackkhaus: 1:28pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
sassysure:There is no such word as introduction in the OP. They need not go to court really if things work smoothly for them. It will be a natural transition to hand him over his father's property in this case mostly landed. By that time he is already living with them. Officially using their name etc so why will they deny him what is his father's?You and I are converging on the same point here but you don't realize it. The man's mother is not denying the child, does not suddenly imply the child is not illegitimate That's just a mother's love for her deceased son being bestowed on the child he left behind, her grandchild...which may now be the only means to have a living memory of her dead son. The real argument from the beginning of the thread was if the man's mother can take back all the property he left behind...and yes, she can absolutely do that if she wants because the lady was not married to her late son yet. At the same time, if she desires to keep these things in trust for the little child until he is grown, it is on her discretion and not because the child has a right to it. Clearer now? |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by princemillla(m): 3:53pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
sassysure: Thanks for your input I appreciate. Am not out here to condemn the woman but she is the pure definition of devil. What kind of son would want to have his wedding and would not inform his mum? What kind of woman would want to abandoned his handicap (accident result ) husband to go live with the sons wife in a rented apartment? She is the Sec to devil |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by Nobody: 6:03pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Check out the guy's reply to me. I know something was terribly wrong. I'm not arguing again. They will come with half story and I will be killing myself looking for easier solution. If the man was planning wedding without telling his mum, I completely wash my hand off this and wish them luck. Go and buy face mask |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by Nobody: 6:05pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
princemillla:Guy, I wish u all luck. I can't continue to debate on a case that more than 80% of the real problem is not provided. I'm not that idle. |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by crackkhaus: 6:14pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
sassysure: Na you I suppose dey tell to buy face mask, in fact buy hazmat suit sef. As it is nah, dem say na only 1case dey naija and you people in England are having to deal with 40cases and counting. Not to mention that Italy the free-distributors of COVID-19 is right in your backyard. Please no go crowded places like Trafalgar Square for any reason I take God beg you. Avoid train sef if possible.. If I hear say you carry that your waka waka leg dey go anywhere apart from school, house, or church...I will find you and I will deal with you. |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by Nobody: 6:40pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Nothing like face mask here o. My school and place of work are crowded Hand sanitizer is what they are encouraged to use more I don't even know if they are aware of this epidemic In class today, one of my teacher was creating awareness and some people were looking at her like mumu. Seriously? These people sef. |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by crackkhaus: 7:01pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
sassysure:That's what usually happens because they have confidence in the system. No panic. Until people start falling down dead in the streets, majority of British people will never take anything serious. |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by Nobody: 7:34pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
sassysure:interesting. It seems the fear porn is aimed mainly for Nigerians . I will say it again coronavirus is mere psychological terrorism. |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by princemillla(m): 8:34pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
sassysure: Bros the post is clear and direct. I just needed a clarifications on the above not dishing out the family history. There were no fight nor single issue befor the guys death. All happens just immediately after the guy died. 1 Like |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by eyinjuege: 8:51pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/301797595_A_Critical_Appraisal_of_the_Right_of_Inheritance_of_Children_Born_Out_of_Wedlock There is an article in this link above that may perhaps shed more light on the inheritance by children born out of wedlock in nigeria. It is an analysis of several cases in court regarding inheritance. There is one of the cases Ukeje vs Ukeje which finally got to the supreme court and judgement was made to support inheritance for children born out of wedlock, provided the man claimed paternity with birth certificate, pictures (which obviously will include naming ceremony ones) or even if he denies paternity and DNA proved he's the father. I'm no lawyer, but I strongly believe the law is for truth and justice to prevail. It's common sense really, because where is the justice when a child cannot inherit his father or mother? 2 Likes |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by ImaIma1(f): 8:50am On Mar 03, 2020 |
sassysure: Strike a relationship with such greedy people. What would those types imbibe in a child? She should remove her child from that kind of family or soon, they will start feeding the boy with falsehood about his mother. |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by asjay(m): 9:11am On Mar 03, 2020 |
sassysure: Good points My own question is won't the young woman marry again U av a child for him but u are not married to him, so what are you fighting for? Is it your child or his property Property-wise u don't av a say,u are not married to him . I guess u were planning to take the property all in the name of u had a son for him and afterwards marry another person (which is expected of you rightfully) and take the new found wealth to his house abi What happens to the deceased mother ,who takes care of him .....I know you will say other kids abi Now let us switch position if Na you ,shey u go gree make one babe wey get pikin for ur son but not married ,who we all know will marry someone else later in life come and claim property If u are fighting for the child ,good State what you really want . Property or child 1 Like |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by asjay(m): 9:13am On Mar 03, 2020 |
bigiyaro: I agree to this You have a right over the kid |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by Nobody: 10:10am On Mar 03, 2020 |
eyinjuege:Only if the man claim paternity and officially. If DNA proved he is a father there are many clauses inserted before he can claim his father's property. Here, the man is dead. We dont even know if the child is his. Options are strongly against her and I don't want to paint her bad at all but I also don't want to believe the said mum woke up one day to become a jezebel. The guy here( I'm assuming there is more in it for him too) fighting for her said they were planning wedding without involving the mum. Ladies always make this silly mistake of running on emotions instead of common sense when making some long term decisions like marriage. And on the long run, they always lose. Nigerian society is cruel to women most times and the only way women stays above head is using sense instead of emotions to conquer. Did she know the man will die? Now the mother is claiming everything. Stay away from men that are not close to their parents or people. U will be burned in the end. Nigeria don't practise nuclear family system. It's even better to marry a girl with weird family background than man. 1 Like |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by princemillla(m): 11:41am On Mar 03, 2020 |
sassysure: U are so right! But the clarification I am seeking doesn't have anything to do with property but the kid. Theyve taken the most vital properties. So we are less concerned but the kids in question is my top concern. How can one let go of her 5months old baby? Wen the mother is still alive sound and healthy? |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by eyinjuege: 3:08pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
sassysure: Every case and circumstances are different. There are no hiden clause about paternity in the article stated above. Perhaps take some time off to study it, if you can. It is very clear , and no grey areas for this particular case. The paternity of THIS child in question has never been in doubt. Even the paternal grandma acknowledges the child as her grandson, and wants to raise the child. I understood from the OPs write up that the man in question was alive when the child was born. I'm almost 100% certain that the father's name is also on the birth certificate. What further proof of paternity do you need by law again? I'm almost certain that the deceased also gave that child a name, and perhaps even the grandma gave a name too. Remember once again, this is not a paternity dispute. Unless you're telling everyone including yourself that once a parent is late, that automatically calls into dispute, the paternity of their children. I assume your dad acknowledged you as his child, and you've never had a DNA test to prove that fact. When he gets old and passes on, can we be allowed to bring your paternity into dispute?, afterall who knows if he was really your father? The law is very clear, and I'm almost sure it even covers for adopted children acknowledged by dead people when they were alive. Perhaps, those who studied Nigerian law can shed further light, as I am no lawyer and maybe my interpretation of the article is different from what the law says. |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by Nobody: 4:42pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
eyinjuege:I think most of us are making our statements based on the fact that the man died before the child was born. Unless I'm mistaken, u can clarify from the @op. Also, if his name was on the birth certificate, I don't think this guy will be here. Birth certificate and DNA in the case of dead father who wasn't able to sign the birth certificate is the only things any court in this world will work with. Any other aside this is dead on arrival. Best way is appeal to their conscience like I stated earlier if u don't have this two to work with. |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by frozen70(f): 5:20pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
princemillla: I would appreciate your family and his family sort this out Engagement is different from marriage If they want those material things, she should give them and have peace She can't hold on to what doesn't belongs to her But she should keep her son with her and if they insist they want the baby, let them go to court you guys will meet him there Am sure their are unsettled issues hanging on before the death of the man, let your sister go and take care if herself, its obvious they don't want her from inception Only God can bless who he wants to bless 1 Like |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by lyndaway(f): 5:42pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
I really feel for your sister, thank God she is not married to the guy just imagine what she will go through it so obvious that the guys mum doesn't like her from the beginning but playing along maybe because of her son I really feel for her I would advise that she doesn't fight over anything let her concentrate more on her son and let nature take its course |
Re: Human Rights Activist In The House Pls Help My Lil Sis by mignone(f): 9:51pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
LadySarah:My thoughts exactly o,my sister. Na to label u 'judgina', dispassionate, etc if u say it as it is. Until u're legally,religiously or traditionally joined together, YOU'RE NOT MARRIED! |
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