bukatyne:


This husband needs to be assertive.

A walk over is unattractive.

bukatyne:


Who the heck are the 'they'?

The only person's opinion who counts is the wife's.

So we should be talking she.

Or the wife's free loading mother shook mouth for the matter too?

Was the father of the husband present in his life? Does he lack self esteem? Is he afraid to confront people when needed or.....

IS HE JAZZED?!

bukatyne:


Who the heck are the 'they'?

The only person's opinion who counts is the wife's.

So we should be talking she.

Or the wife's free loading mother shook mouth for the matter too?

Was the father of the husband present in his life? Does he lack self esteem? Is he afraid to confront people when needed or.....

IS HE JAZZED?!

bukatyne:


You know, when we say a couple should leave their families and cleave to one another, they automatically assume it is against the man.

If the wife in this case understood marriage, we would not have this thread.

bukatyne:


Aunty when the mother invited another cousin with her three kids and does not let him have peace after overstaying her welcome.

elektra:
Send the mother away and encourage the wife to follow her mama.
If he wants swift action, I’ll recommend that he should be the first to call police! All the wive’s people can relax in police custody for a while.

rodgermetty:
Not atall, but even if its me it doesnt chabge anything, does it?

rodgermetty:
he isint walking over yet

bukatyne:


Aunty when the mother invited another cousin with her three kids and does not let him have peace after overstaying her welcome.

Ishilove:

Shey the man doesn't have a mother and sisters? Since they want to be mad let them all be mad together.

Ishilove:

He is a walk over. Tell everyone to go to their houses and if the wife wants to follow her mum, by all means encourage her to follow. The oga should pay the school fees of the children directly to the school and provide upkeep for the children alone.

Bunch of leeches.

rodgermetty:
hmmm if she has no business been there then she wouod be asked to go back to her home, dont forget it said she has her own house and other children too

Mizwisdom:



They can ask her to send the unwanted visitors away

Mizwisdom:



And if she's comfortable staying there? if it's the man's mother will he send her away?

rodgermetty:
so she the mother is she wanted? Wanted for what?

Mizwisdom:


Why don't you like your mother in law?

rodgermetty:
the man say he doesny wany ypu in his house again, probably ypu are been a pest, so what again. Na by force?. I cant let my mother inlaw live in my matrimonial home for that long, lai lai

Mizwisdom:



What of your Mother?

Miradamian:
Just let the house expire.then move ur wife and kids into one bedroom.let me now see where the others will go if not their own house.and if ur wife refuses to move in,then let her follow her mum.if she threaten divorce,allow her to her faith. When she is tired of staying with her mum and she start changing it for her.she will look for ur phone number.just make sure d kids are provided for.bad mother,bad wife.i hope they don't influence your kids with these attitudes.

missticke:
I'll advise him to consider a DNA for all the kids,there's every possibility that something is amiss

rodgermetty:
uncle he is the one providing, the mama is on pension, she have other children too. She doesnt allow the guys family , they dont go to see the guys mum,... infact the last time he wanted to take his children to spend Christmas with his mum after he came home but the wife disagreed and started a fight. She never visited his own mother but her own mother lives in the house.

Mizwisdom:
If someone works for you will you just send him away without a reward? your Wife is threatening divorce because she knows her work load will increase in her mother's absence, her mum may also be giving her emotional support which is missing from you. Before you send her away, give her something tangible to live on for a while and promise to assist her financially if needed. She will leave asap. Good luck

rodgermetty:
uncle he is the one providing, the mama is on pension, she have other children too. She doesnt allow the guys family , they dont go to see the guys mum,... infact the last time he wanted to take his children to spend Christmas with his mum after he came home but the wife disagreed and started a fight. She never visited his own mother but her own mother lives in the house.

desoul2004:


The guy is already inside a bottle �.

Adgideon:
Go explain to your mum invite her to come with one or two pple to stay also, you bring them urself or be at home when they arrive, what privilege her mum has ur mum also shud hv she might not give your mum food when you ain't around so give ur mum enuf pocket money when you Leave but know a big quarrel will come up , be man enuf, if she insists dat ur mum leaves also insists that her mum leaves, don't fall 4 her cheap blackmail let her leave if she wants to

PrimadonnaO:


There's no excuse. Couples aren't meant to live with their parents in Nigeria.

Her mother should just go back to her house. The woman clearly doesn't know her boundaries. Brought a cousin with three kids! How preposterous!

cococandy:
Well he should let her go through with the threatened divorce. Nonsense