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His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 3:47pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
I have this friend of mine whose mother inlaw has been living with them since 2015. The mother inlaw has her own house in the same town. The friend of mine doesnt work in the town but somewhere else outside the city so he do come home once a while. His wife mother has been living with them since 2015. She goes and come initially, untill she later made the place her abode. He has 3 kids and they are all in school and he pays the fees and provide for the family. He has been having issue in his matrimonial home as his wife no longer respect him. The wife initially had a daughter before meeting him and that daughter too live in the same house since 2015. The mother inlaw recently brought one of their cousin with her 3 children to come live with them and its been several month now. Now he said he doesnt want the mother inlaw living in his house anymore and this is what happened. The mother inlaw threatened to get him arrested. The wife threatened to divorce him if her mum were to leave. They only did court wedding just a year ago. So what will you advice him to do. 1 Like |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by bigiyaro(m): 3:58pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
he should simply move his wife to the town where he works and if the house is a rented one, he shouldn't renew the rent. Las las its obvious he is been blackmailed, so it depends on how strong he is, either he calls their bluff and chase the in-law away or continue living as their slave. 18 Likes |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by pocohantas(f): 3:59pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
So what will you advice him to do. I’ll advise him to check his BP, as I will be amazed if he isn’t hypertensive yet. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by Winneygirl(f): 4:00pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
All these stories. Everyone should go to their houses. Those who want to leave should leave. Those who are being asked to leave should leave. Infact, everybody should return to where he/she came from. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:05pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
pocohantas:he is already 1 Like |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:05pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
Winneygirl:very very |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by pocohantas(f): 4:06pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
Winneygirl: As in ehn. Is this thing rocket science? The MIL should go back to her house. If the wife wants to be silly, she should follow her too. 13 Likes |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:07pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
bigiyaro:they are both is same state... just that he manage a business in a village while he has his matrimonial home in the city |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:08pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
pocohantas:this is valid 1 Like |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by Mizwisdom(f): 4:14pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
If someone works for you will you just send him away without a reward? your Wife is threatening divorce because she knows her work load will increase in her mother's absence, her mum may also be giving her emotional support which is missing from you. Before you send her away, give her something tangible to live on for a while and promise to assist her financially if needed. She will leave asap. Good luck |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:39pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:uncle he is the one providing, the mama is on pension, she have other children too. She doesnt allow the guys family , they dont go to see the guys mum,... infact the last time he wanted to take his children to spend Christmas with his mum after he came home but the wife disagreed and started a fight. She never visited his own mother but her own mother lives in the house. 3 Likes |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:41pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:how abt the lady daughter and the cousin with kids living with them was that his responsibility too... the lady has a job but the man take cares of every thing at home. 3 Likes |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by daddytime(m): 4:41pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
You sure say no be you this gbege dey happen to? You better talk true make doctor know wetin to prescribe for.you. It doesn't change anything though if it were you or not. Simply send the MIL packing to her own husband's house, simple. And should your wife pulls through with her threat, count it as a good riddance. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:42pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
daddytime:Not atall, but even if its me it doesnt chabge anything, does it? |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:42pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
daddytime: |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:45pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
get rid of ALL OF THEM ungrateful freeloaders... 2 Likes |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:46pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:she is not working for anybody. Several time he has asked her to leave and she would and then come back again uninvited. they dont welcome the mans family, they dont even take the kids to see them in years yet they are in same city. |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:47pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:if it was myself, i did get tue divorce paper myself... like wtf |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by crackkhaus: 4:51pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
This is easy... If I knew him personally, I'd advise him to inform his own mother of these issues he's facing and invite her to come stay in his house for a while. Let the two MILs slug it out together while he faces his wife. As it is now, the fight is not fair. 10 Likes |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by crackkhaus: 4:53pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
rodgermetty:That woman must be using her menses to cook food for your friend, for him not to have any power like this. Tueh... 4 Likes |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:54pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
crackkhaus:his mother warned him then not to marry her...the mother already know and there is nothinh she can do as she was not in the picture all this while while he was watching the way they were misbehaving... so the mum has left him to deal with his issue |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:56pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
rodgermetty: imagine?! sadly a lot of men dont think/act right.... after all this nonsense, this dude would still be trying to live with these freeloading ungrateful people. 1 Like |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:56pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
crackkhaus:well who knows sha, he isint even always around. |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 4:56pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:i tire ooo |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by crackkhaus: 5:01pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
rodgermetty:Haha...she even knows her son.. Well, a mother will never abandon her son. He should plead with her for her help and tell her they want to kill him. 3 Likes |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by CAPSLOCKED: 5:04pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
crackkhaus: MOTHERS-IN-LAW SHOULD LEARN TO LEAVE THEIR CHILDREN'S MARRIAGES ALONE. I DON'T BLAME WOMEN WHO PRAY FOR THE DEATH OF THEIR MOTHERS-IN-LAW BECAUSE MOST TIMES, THOSE PEOPLE CONSTITUTE THE WORST NUISANCE. 1 Like |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 5:09pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
crackkhaus:well what do you expect the mum to do when they refused to see her or even allow the children go spend time at her place... they have never done any holiday with her b4 |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 5:10pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:you dont seem to understand before commenting, there is no where in this post where the mans mother was involved in anything. in this case its the mother of the wife not the husband... the mother of the husband dey her dey jeje 3 Likes |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by CAPSLOCKED: 5:14pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
rodgermetty: ALL OF THEM ARE THE SAME. THEY SHOULD LEAVE THEIR CHILDREN'S MARRIAGES ALONE. 2 Likes |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by rodgermetty(m): 5:24pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:thats a lie, you no read, the guys mum has other childrren and has her own house, she doesnt intefere in any of her kids home... alaye no n all of them abeg |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by Nobody: 5:30pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:I'm wondering if your opinion would be the same if it were the man's mom that's being discussed. |
Re: His Mother-In-Law Wants To Arrest Him For Asking Her To Leave His Home by crackkhaus: 5:36pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:Corrected. I DON'T BLAME WOMEN WHO PRAY FOR THE DEATH OF THEIR MOTHERS-IN-LAW BECAUSE MOST TIMES, THOSE PEOPLE CONSTITUTE THE WORST NUISANCE.Regardless of circumstance, anyone who prays for the death of another person is a devil's incarnate and deserves to die first...a horrifying death no less. 8 Likes |
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