I'd be very precise as possible.



This issue is very sensitive so i have to open this account to get every advise i could get.

I met this lady back in school, that was over 13 years ago. She loved me to a fault (i know). I had her flowers and she was never promiscuous (as far as i know).

She got pregnant for me but we were both still in school, no way we could keep the pregnancy. She was not aware of her pregnancy status then until she came visiting and i saw the difference on her body structure. Scan showed she was carrying our 9 weeks baby. I understood her fear, but i was able to convince her to abort that day... But this is the slide

Prior before i got to know about her pregnancy... I was having some serious pile which i had taken some drugs which wasn't so efficient so i told her about it, then we went for the 'gbobonise'. I took it and started having diarrhea for 3days or so then (she took it too).

After i was able to convince her to make the abortion.... But unfortunately, the foetus had died in her (we got to know after the abortion).

Now this is problem

She got married some years ago same time everything about me started dwindling. My business crumbled, i lost my Job, sold my uncompleted house. I have become a big ZERO ( i have owed a lot of people though they understand my situation and my FnF have been supportive to a large extent).

Please digest this part and please advise me.

I am not a very religious person not spiritual either. I believe i no do bad and nobody fit do me bad, but what do i know

This same belief i have when everything was going fine for me, so

Malaria and self condemnation are your problem.

She's married, and don't let fetishism blindfold you... All you need to is recompense for the loss by accepting your fate and working harder.

The Normal me will tell you its superstory but when you start experiencing some difficulties you donot understand you have to bend your belief system and listen to advice no matter how foolish it may sound, reach out to the lady and explain everything to her. Sometimes you have to turn off your scientific mindset even if its just a mental placebo to get back on track......

The Lord is ur strength!!

YORUBA NOLLYWOOD MOVIE SCRIPT WRITER.

When you guys were knacking did you come here to seek our advise?

go for deliverance

Do you want to marry another man's wife?

I believe in cause and effect and the universe rewards us all.

Did she leave you or you broke up?

If she left, I might agree you are safe but if you left without her cheating, then maybe the universe is paying you back.

I think it’s time both of you sit down and talk.


Hope no blood oath was done

chatinent:
She's married, and don't let fetishism blindfold you... All you need to is recompense for the loss by accepting your fate and working harder.

I have tried my brother, i lost many opportunities that doesn't seem natural. Maybe im just getting to understand

tolugar:
I think it’s time both of you sit down and talk.


Hope no blood oath was done

Yes

Instead of hiding details from your mother, just open up on the matter to her.

Maybe when they identify the problem a solution can be sorted.

Now go open up to her (your mom) and maybe they would find a lasting solutions to your present predicament.

Wahala here and there


This is ridiculous.

proclinician:
Pls eeh how in the holy hell did it take an ultrasound sonography to show that this woman is 9 months pregnant country man?

This is ridiculous.

Oga na mistake, advise me please

You must apologise for plaguing us with this nonsense story.

Just calm's everything is alright

AfroKnight:
You must apologise for plaguing us with this nonsense story.

Who is this one?

You need prayers not an advise.

ConfusedHusband:


I have tried my brother, i lost many opportunities that doesn't seem natural. Maybe im just getting to understand



Yes

Get together

Review your past

Forgive each other

tolugar:



Get together

Review your past

Forgive each other

Thank you

All I see here is your greatest sin hunting you. Babe has moved on and you are here lamenting. Go and do a root cause analysis of your problem unfortunately Nairalanders have no clue

Things are not always natural in this fetish and cruel world of ours,but it does not mean the girl might be the actual cause.You need to consult Gods annionted and pray massively my 2cents.